Friends ! To Be Or Not To Be ?

You are already my friend. That is why I got notification about this discussion. So when other members become your friend you will get notifications for the discussions they start and if it is interesting for you, you can respond. Please go through FAQ. You will be able to understand things better. have a very nice day.

Just have fun and not worry about the friends. Before long, you will start making friends if you start the ball rolling. You need not wait for others to invite you to be their friend, invite others instead to be your friend. This is called proactive. Anyway, whether to have friend or accept friendship is up to you. There may even be times you wish you don't have that many friend requests, especially those who befriend you for reasons other than sharing your topics of interests. Some of these lotters do not have any discussions poster [as in (0)] asking to be your friend, and you will wonder what was their intent in the first place. By the way, welcome to myLot.

If you're friends with someone it automatically emails you their discussions so that you can post.

hi, u are asking u didnt get any responses or invitation of friendship, did u invite any one here at mylot to be ur friend.If u would had done that u might had accepted the friends request and u might be going with the flow. When u think a lot u cant do anything.If u think profit and loss and give and take all these things at all times nothing would happen.

Well, you are new here, so you will learn soon enough about the site. As a new member, the friend invitation is better come from you. The more friends will give you more discussions to respond or comment to. Of course you can respond and comment on random discussions, still sometimes it is easier to respond to our friends discussions as you would know after sometimes which member discussions are worth your responses.

well...if you are a newbie here...and you have friends..then you could ask the stuff that you are having trouble with...or just chat with them......what you do is up to you..

I have befriended people who write posts I can relate to.I assume I get friends requests because of the same reason. It has been a very long time since I requested to be friends with someone. I have many god friends who write great posts. By the time I read their posts and respond, it is time for me to log off. All I can suggest is don't wait for others to request you , friend request them. Good Luck.

If you have people added as friends, then you can get e-mail notifications when they post a discussion or when they respond to one of yours and they get the same about you. Also on the dashboard at the home page, your friends will see your discussions and recent activity. it just means that your discussions and contributions get a little more exposure. Also, its just nice sometimes to come on here and respond to people's discussions who you have a little connection with, just like you would on facebook or any other social site. Just add a few people, and you will see what I mean :)

Welcome to mylot Being a newbie here esp if you don't have friends and no one ever invited you to join this site you really feel like wandering and wondering what this site is all about. But i advice that you keep active here and posting and it is your prerogative to add friends whom you like to be friended with. You will enjoy this site once you've made friends and have inter-actions with them. have a great day and keep posting

Funnily, I have never done a friend request in this website, but I have received lots instead -and I tend to accept most of them-. Maybe you have been just too short using Mylot, but friend requests will come. People are friendly here, and non friendly people here seem to like being part of a community either way -no offense to anyone, people -

you now have friends here... hahaha But good point why do you need to be friend anyone here right ? The answer is simple , because we are social being ... at one point in time a friend here might help you in more ways than you can imagine...