Friends ! To Be Or Not To Be ?
By skeeter747
@skeeter747 (119)
United States
May 24, 2011 2:12am CST
I have noticed that I have not recieved 1 friends request on here. Alrighty then lol. No big to me . Anywho with that being said then Why friend people on here ? I mean if you can answer and ask questions .,and anyone can answer or ask you then why the world do you have to have friends on your page? Does it make your score go up ? I would not think it would ,but then again I still don't know what the world I am doing. If you can help me on this then great. However it may take me 2 or 3 days to find my way back to this comment. Shew just Shew I feel so confused on all the stuff here.
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11 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
24 May 11
You are already my friend. That is why I got notification about this discussion. So when other members become your friend you will get notifications for the discussions they start and if it is interesting for you, you can respond. Please go through FAQ. You will be able to understand things better. have a very nice day.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
24 May 11
So nice ! I wish you get all satisfaction in this forum. Whatever assistance you may need , please ask. I am active for the last ten days. To an extent I will clarify your doubts. have a good day
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
Yes you are :D and Thanks ! So now I need to read my e-mails. lol . Glad you all told me this. I went and looked ,but I have 2700 or something in e-mails cause I never read them. Need to work on that. I will promise:P
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@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
24 May 11
Just have fun and not worry about the friends. Before long, you will start making friends if you start the ball rolling. You need not wait for others to invite you to be their friend, invite others instead to be your friend. This is called proactive.
Anyway, whether to have friend or accept friendship is up to you. There may even be times you wish you don't have that many friend requests, especially those who befriend you for reasons other than sharing your topics of interests. Some of these lotters do not have any discussions poster [as in (0)] asking to be your friend, and you will wonder what was their intent in the first place.
By the way, welcome to myLot.
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@msmamaof3 (244)
• United States
24 May 11
If you're friends with someone it automatically emails you their discussions so that you can post.
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
Wonder if I can change my e-mail ? i think that I read that somewhere. I have to many e-mails in my box. Ok this might take a few hours. Ima slow :P
@umabharti (3972)
• India
24 May 11
hi, u are asking u didnt get any responses or invitation of friendship, did u invite any one here at mylot to be ur friend.If u would had done that u might had accepted the friends request and u might be going with the flow.
When u think a lot u cant do anything.If u think profit and loss and give and take all these things at all times nothing would happen.
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@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
I will go with that ! No I have not invited no one here yet. I quess I might be doing that towards the end of the week:P
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@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
24 May 11
Well, you are new here, so you will learn soon enough about the site. As a new member, the friend invitation is better come from you. The more friends will give you more discussions to respond or comment to. Of course you can respond and comment on random discussions, still sometimes it is easier to respond to our friends discussions as you would know after sometimes which member discussions are worth your responses.
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
Well I understand that !I never know who I will relate to . Until I have read what they post. I will get the hang of it . For I have meet the best people online on here to help answer questions I have. After I get the hang of it then I will be more comfortable with sending request:P
@vaishnavc (556)
• India
25 May 11
well...if you are a newbie here...and you have friends..then you could ask the stuff that you are having trouble with...or just chat with them......what you do is up to you..
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
26 May 11
I am a new one ! lol I had never heard of this site till the day I came here through another site. I was so confused at the fact that you can get paid here just to talk to people lol. We likes to talk . :)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 May 11
I have befriended people who write posts I can relate to.I assume I get friends requests because of the same reason. It has been a very long time since I requested to be friends with someone. I have many god friends who write great posts. By the time I read their posts and respond, it is time for me to log off. All I can suggest is don't wait for others to request you , friend request them. Good Luck.
@la_chique (1498)
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24 May 11
If you have people added as friends, then you can get e-mail notifications when they post a discussion or when they respond to one of yours and they get the same about you. Also on the dashboard at the home page, your friends will see your discussions and recent activity. it just means that your discussions and contributions get a little more exposure. Also, its just nice sometimes to come on here and respond to people's discussions who you have a little connection with, just like you would on facebook or any other social site. Just add a few people, and you will see what I mean :)
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
You are right about the e-mail notifications:P seem to get alot from this site on new post. Well on one of my post there was someone that stated that I need more friends and I was like well ok ,but since you can talk to anyone here why friend them ? I just didn't seem to get it. :P ima getn' it now:P
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 May 11
Welcome to mylot
Being a newbie here esp if you don't have friends and no one ever invited you to join this site you really feel like wandering and wondering what this site is all about.
But i advice that you keep active here and posting and it is your prerogative to add friends whom you like to be friended with.
You will enjoy this site once you've made friends and have inter-actions with them.
have a great day and keep posting
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
I dont think no one that I know even knows about this site myLot.com ! When I came here it was a whole different world . I was like ok I know no one:P Before I would tell people I know about this site I would have to know more about how the community is here. So far good !:P
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
24 May 11
Funnily, I have never done a friend request in this website, but I have received lots instead -and I tend to accept most of them-. Maybe you have been just too short using Mylot, but friend requests will come. People are friendly here, and non friendly people here seem to like being part of a community either way -no offense to anyone, people -
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
I will be friends with the friendly lol :P I sure am not here to be rude.
@bdance22 (86)
• Philippines
24 May 11
you now have friends here... hahaha
But good point why do you need to be friend anyone here right ?
The answer is simple , because we are social being ... at one point in time a friend here might help you in more ways than you can imagine...
@skeeter747 (119)
• United States
24 May 11
Yes we are ! I am a Social women on most sites I go on. I know that the friends I have have helped me, but even the people that are not my friends online on here are helping so with that being said this is a good community to be in:P Thanks for bein mia friend :P