Boyfriend Wanted

Philippines
June 20, 2011 12:12am CST
Guys, how do you feel about girls making the first move at getting you into a relationship especially if a girl is really making some aggressive moves. I believe there are some who wouldn't mind and others even prefer that's the case but how much is too much "aggressiveness" for you? Is it being old fashioned if you guys prefer to make the first move or that's just the natural way of things? What do you think?
13 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Much better guy do a first move than the to make it. This is not old fashion enough to take action by men. Because even if the modern countries don't see anything girl being the first one to move and take the guy. There maybe something like that but some and not really noticeable...
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
21 Jun 11
Time and era is changing and so does the preference and liking's of people. I would Welcome If a girl approaches me or makes the first move if we both are interested in each other.Today's Era girl are Much bold and beautiful to do things or initiate things themselves. So girls I am waiting any body interested in me.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
21 Jun 11
Today also in INDIA aggression in girl is not taken easily many question arises when she becomes aggressive.But for me all old thinkings should be out from the mind of the people of my country. I would always like to have balanced situation for both girls & boys but always found some differences in most of things. People think differently & to change there minds it will take ages.
• United States
21 Jun 11
Just be the person you are. If you fall in love with him, why you have to be hesitate. Let him know that this is what you are, and aggressive girl which has bold to say something which that guy should say. Just reveal yourselves and let the love blooms.
• United States
20 Jun 11
i think its okay for the girl to make the first move. Most of the time the guy doesn't realize it. Girls are just more subtle than men. For guys i can say its a lot harder because they have a higher chance for being shut down. For a lady it less likely ;) well....maybe for me at least.
@febrigas (362)
• Indonesia
21 Jun 11
Nevermind if girls making a first move, but it is better when its come naturally. I have some tips approaching the guy, this comes from my female friends. these tips are specifically for girls, but these are the tips for single, not cheating : D - always smile and do not be arrogant when interacting with him, but keep naturally. - characterand attractive appereance. - Honest and humble - Do what he likes and do not do what he does not like. - the men generally like women who like to be candid without hiding anything - having a good behaviour and motherhood - wise to adjust the situation - do not be to curb - when interacting with them do not forget the body language you know like the eyes and hands. Hands, if there is already a signal. - and most certainly be yourself. because true love is always received with sincerity who you are Sorry if there is anything wrong with my words, i just want to share, and really do not intend to teach well, good luck with your love :D
@lucy67 (819)
• China
20 Jun 11
most people think it natural for boys to make the first move. i think girls had better not to make the first move but it does not mean a girl can do nothing in seeking a boyfriend. she can give him some hints of her love for him and encourage him to make the first step.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
Yeah, there are some boys who likes and enjoy that.Some even thinks that they are really have that thing over girls and are proud of it.Today's generation is very much different in our time.Today girls do what boys do then, but in my opinion I prefer the old culture where boys do the first move.I think boys who would accept that set up only wants her to be an addition to his collection.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 11
This is the 20th century and many woman are ask to be equal with man. So, there are no question about who should take the first move in getting into a relationship. But basically if a girl keep pressing someone who doesn't like her, she will probably do not get what she want and will lose him may be. In order for a relationship to start, either one have to take a first move or else both of you will only seeing each other from far and will never know what is in the others half mind.
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 11
I am a woman and I often view myself as the brash and the bold. Still with that in mind, I tried to avoid initiating a relationship with a guy, unless I know for sure that the guy is also interested in me...
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
hello, So, Obviously I am a women? ha ha. I cant imagine myself doing the first move specially to a guy? I dont like to be aggressive even how I like a guy. I am much prefer to wait until he notice me.
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
i am a girl and I do feel that embarrass to make the first move. But if the girl is confident enough to make the first move, then I applaud her. I don't think that it is wrong for the girl to pursue someone if she really likes him.
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
In my opinion, nothing is wrong with the girl being aggressive. It just shows a great deal of courage for the girl to express her feelings for a guy. But for me, the most ideal case would be a push-pull relationship wherein a guy pushes forward to get the girl she wants while the girl pulls the guy towards her to get his man. Naturally, men are more aggressive sexually. This makes guys to make the first move towards a girl which becomes the convetional or traditional way. But with the world with a lot of respect when it comes to women, I guess there shouldn't be any wrong with girls being the aggressor instead.