zayasalyssa

@zayasalyssa (28)

United States • Age 34

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Why do people respond to discussions without even bothering to read it first??!!

icantthinkofaname @icantthinkofaname (135) 20 Jun 11

Ok I know I am new to this site and far from perfect. However after reading through lots of your discussions it has become obvious that alot of people read the discussion subject line and nothing more! Surely if you are going to...

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zayasalyssa I agree with rivengodwind many people have a hard time writing not only because they don't read posts, they simply take the easy way out. Sometimes you simply cant blame them since they are getting paid by the post.

20 Jun 11

"You are just afraid to marry"

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 20 Jun 11

" You don't value yourself enough." Is what I heard Dr Phil tell a woman who had been engaged to the same guy, her 5th engagement, for 4 Years! They live together, They share everything but they are not married. She has seen her...

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zayasalyssa I depends on the person you are with.... i've known people who been with their boyfriend for 5 years and loved him, but not enough to marry. A year later she broke with her boyfriend and was a new relationship and married him 6 months later. She's been with...

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Are you a dumper or a dumpee?

zayasalyssa @zayasalyssa (28) • United States 20 Jun 11

I know everyone has been in a relationship, but have you been the one who ended it or the person you were with was the one to end it? How did the break up go? Was it okay, bad, good or straight up crazy? As a bartender i've heard...

when things go wrong in a relationship

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Caring for the Elders

Graceekwenx @Graceekwenx (3160) • Philippines 19 Jun 11

What are the things that you do for your parents? My friends are both 80-year olds but are still able. At these age though, the elderly can be prone to illnesses like hypertension, asthma and gout. Just last night, my father...

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zayasalyssa caring for the elderly is such a topic that is sooo often ignored. I would love to take care of my mom when she reaches a certain age, but if i have a family of my own it would be very hard. I know there is elder abuse in homes that are very cheap and the ones...

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Should I report it?

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 17 Jun 11

Okay, so I'm not sure if this belongs here or not and I'm sorry if it's the wrong category. I watch this little boy and every time he comes to my house he has another bruise on him. Yesterday he came to me with a black eye. His...

abuse

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report

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zayasalyssa i would say really sit down and talk to the mother and really find out the situation. There has been many cases in which it was just a misunderstanding. Child protective services is no joke, so be sure before you make that call.

20 Jun 11

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online earnings is very tidious

uchelink @uchelink (200) • Nigeria 20 Jun 11

i have joined many online earnigs program like ptc,hyip,online survey but their earnings is not encouraging...

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zayasalyssa yeah i know what you mean.... I just want to make a minimum of $100 a month, just to pay one bill... i don't think i can even make $20. You can paid by the pennies......what good is that?

20 Jun 11

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Boyfriend Wanted

blueangelwrites @blueangelwrites (149) • Philippines 20 Jun 11

Guys, how do you feel about girls making the first move at getting you into a relationship especially if a girl is really making some aggressive moves. I believe there are some who wouldn't mind and others even prefer that's the...

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zayasalyssa i think its okay for the girl to make the first move. Most of the time the guy doesn't realize it. Girls are just more subtle than men. For guys i can say its a lot harder because they have a higher chance for being shut down. For a lady it less likely ;)...

20 Jun 11

Why Are These Celebrities Actually Idolized?

skysuccess @skysuccess (8858) • Singapore 20 Jun 11

Of late, I am sure we've heard a lot about these questionable celebrities like the deceased Pete Docherty, Kate Moss, Amy Winehouse and others who have literally a long history of alcohol and drug abuse. I just find this sad...

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zayasalyssa they are idolized because they are in the spot lite all the time....plus, they represent wealth and fame, which majority of society wishes to have. Which is not the route to happiness..... i think its a waste of time to idolize them

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Hit myself by accident..ouch it hurts huh? :p

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 20 Jun 11

I feed the dogs when i saw that there's few guava fruits almost ripe already. I am thinking to climb,but,it's raining (not so hard) So,i took the stick that i use to hang clothes and tried to reach one of the guava fruit. I...

hit myself

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zayasalyssa i remember i hit myself by accident....it sucks when you hit your funny bone. it just feels weird for a while

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Loving My Ex

gvenrose @gvenrose (30) • Philippines 19 Jun 11

I am a single mother and currently in an online relationship for more than 4 years. I thought I've moved on from my last relationship which is to the father of my child. But I was wrong because I am still thinking of him at nights...

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zayasalyssa you need to move on and disassociate your self in romantic way of thinking with your ex. it is not fair to your ex. if you know it will never be, don't fantasize about it. do this for yourself.

20 Jun 11

children reality shows should be banned

ravisivan @ravisivan (14079) • India 19 Jun 11

This is a topic which has been in vogue for quite some time. that is reality shows wherein children below 12/14 years participate should be banned. It causes enormous mental strain on the contestants, their parents and also...

reality shows in tvs

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zayasalyssa yup they should be all banned. It robs them of their childhood. I don't think it's a good idea to have more drew barymoore children. She did do drugs at the age of 10..... reality shows are just messing up kids.

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I Love You Daddy....

Elizabeth White @Masihi (4413) • Canada 19 Jun 11

...wherever you are. Today's Father's day and my daddy has been missing since February 1985. I have nothing but fond memories of him. He tried to raise me as best as he could, working full time, getting me into daycare, and...

missing person

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zayasalyssa i hope the best for you. For me it was the opposite. My father left me as a child and my mother by herself raised me. I feel bad for parents who miss out on parenting. The don't know how much they have lost. Your father is watching over you, even when you...

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Is my money his money? (my boyfriend)

for3verfamous @for3verfamous (2190) • Canada 18 Jun 11

When you're married or in a serious relationship.. Do you keep your financial situations separate.. Or is their money yours, and your money is theirs? This is an issue I'm having with my boyfriend. I know we are going to get...

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zayasalyssa i think when it comes to bills keep it 50/50. PLEASE let him know that. If you think he's abusing then tell him. If your going to eventually married to him, the line of communication has to be open, ESPECIALLY when it comes to finances. There needs to some...

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10 Most Unhealthy Meals served at Fast Food restaurants! ( gloating)

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 18 Jun 11

Well, well, well. Look who has not one but two entries? Subway! For years demeaning burger eaters and they have subs that are the unhealthiest!So The Food Nazis are turning on one of their own? Anyway, I love it! Here is the...

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zayasalyssa yum sounds like a triple bypass waiting to happen. I think it would be possible if a person ate all top ten most unhealthiest fast food, they can get an instant heart attack.....or death (depends on the person) X( All this fast food talk kind of makes me...

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what is your Favorite dog?

zayasalyssa @zayasalyssa (28) • United States 18 Jun 11

Thinking about getting a poouchy! :) looking into a shiba inu (fox looking dog)Does anybody had one? If not what dog do you have and why is it the best. If you can, show me some pics! If you can give me some pointers i will be a...

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zayasalyssa yeah adoption doesn't sound like a bad idea. Not only would i be saving a life, i would be saving $$$$ dinero :)

19 Jun 11

what life means for you?

melgrace @melgrace (46) • Philippines 18 Jun 11

I may still be young and naïve but I believe that life is worth everything. For me, it's not just about having a relationship, companionship, good friends or maybe a job that you like, if you are lucky. Some people will settle for...

life

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zayasalyssa Yeah i agree with melgrace here. Sometimes its more from what you get from the world, its sometimes more personal. For every person it varies, its just up to us to find whatever it is that makes life have its worth wild purpose. Like many others i'm still on...

19 Jun 11

what is your Favorite dog?

zayasalyssa @zayasalyssa (28) • United States 18 Jun 11

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