Which is important to you - your parents or your fiancee?

Well, if your family knew your partner from the start of your relationship, you wouldn't have to worry about how they would feel once you get married. The only reason sometimes why the parents wouldn't want their child marrying a certain someone is because they don't know this person entirely. To avoid getting into the situation where they don't like the person you will be marrying, you have to introduce this person fully and make sure they know him really well. After all, why would your parents not like someone who is being nice to you and who treats you well?

My parents are important to me, but I love my husband. If they didn't like him, I would have still married him because I love him and that is all that matters. Thankfully they do like him. They call him their other son :)

There is a saying the parents want only the best for their child. So i guess, if your parents are saying she's not right for you, then probably they think there's a better girl for you. However, since your parents are not the one in relationship with your fiancee, they could be wrong. They don't know much about your girl, who she really is. So I guess, you need to let your parents know how beautiful and nice your fiancee is. And at the end of the day, it's your decision that really counts.

Well if I love the man and he is really worth my love and my parent's disgust over him has no basis then I'd choose him over my parents.Then we both will prove to my parents that he is worth of my love and that I am right in choosing him. However if my parents have good reasons why they dislike my men then I'd junk him to find another man who would be worthy enough.

Yes, it does happen sometimes, there is no doubt that parents are the most important. However if your financee and you love each other, you should try your best to persuade your parents to accept her, because you will be regret in the future if you listen to your parents on such issue. I think your parents will understand it. Good luck.

Honestly, I would seriously consider whether my fiancee would be worth leaving my parents for. After all, every person eventually has to leave their past behind and build a future for themselves. Even the bible says something to that effect, that children are meant to leave their parents and build their own families (no offense if you don't believe in the bible). So if you really think this is the guy you can send the rest of your life with, then go for it.

My parents are most important for me because they have sacrificed everything for me and for my happiness. Because they have make me able to stand on my foot and also expense many things for me. I think if your fiancée understands you and loved you very much then she never asked you to left your parents.

In my opinion, yes, we all love our parents very much, and it is the family that we all consider as the most important factor that shapes us at any aspect, but the one that you choose to love and spend the rest of your life with will always be your decision. I believe that our parents' role in our life is to shape us into the proper person that we should be, that we should rightfully play our role in the society, and be good managers of the next generation. Thus, they may be the persons to tell you what's right and what's wrong, but it doesn't mean that they would be able to tell you who's to love and who's not to. Should you make a mistake, it's all on you.

I think you do have to consider your family, why don't they like your partner? Are you really listening to what they are saying? or do you not want to hear the truth. On the other side of things, maybe the family is being ridiculous and does not have good reason to dislike your partner. In the end, the truth is your the one who has to go home at night with your partner, and home for holidays at least once a year, so can we all get along???