Why???

If you think your relationship is not working well despite of all your sacrifice don't waste your time on him. He is not the only person in the world. Go out on your relationship and explore the world. Engaging a relationship that full of problems and doubts can make your life terrible

it happens most of the time and do not let it turn to hate. You are still not over him and with time you will find that you have forgotten all about him and you start living a different life. If he loved like you did, he is now suffering like you are doing. Love never fade easily that is why you need to let it die slowly and you should instead focus on the things you like doing.

Hi Amanda81587. I've been away for a week, so it's a surprise to me that you've broken up. Specially that you've mentioned your bf in a few of your discussions. I actually have a different view of breakups. I always thought that people become sad after a breakup not because of the good memories that they've created and remember, but because of the time wasted spent in that relationship (me, bitter). I think that's why it keeps flashing back. So that we could think about how it was a waste of time (still bitter). But that's just me.

Well, I'm really sorry about your relation. I think you don't deserve it. Relations are not easy at all and many get broken. Some are luckier than others. I expect the next time you'll be lucky. It's better you don't show you're jealous. You're still young and you'll meet another boyfriend. But now try to focus on your job or study. Be patient - I'm sure you will succeed.

Sorry for your break up. I was in love with my ex for 10 years. He had done so many bad things in our relationship and when we seperated, all I can think of was how much I love him and that I wish he was here with me and you're right..thinking about the good times we had. But, when I think about all the bad things his done..I would compare how I felt when I was with him and how I felt without him and in the end..I felt much better without him.

Sorry to hear about your break up. It is really a painful experience especially for women, since they are more emotional than men. There is a psychological stages with regard to recovering in a painful experience. Denial, Anger, Bargaining, depression and acceptance. Notice that the first few parts involves negative emotions so it will really be hard and you'll only remember the good parts of your relationship. But when you finally accept it, it will be much easier for you to think about your past including the not so good ones.

Based on your past discussions concerning your relationship, it is probably for the best, both of you have some space. I don't mean it in a bad way, but sometimes relationship need a breather, to straighten things out and get things into perspective, especially when children are involved. Arguing all the time isn't healthy. I know it is painful, because I have been through it, and I totally agree that no matter how sour the relationship was going, the only thoughts that you tend to recall and/or remember are the good times and the laughter and/or moments the both of you shared. You were together for a while so it's normal to feel this way. But just remember what thing if it's meant to be it'll come back, if it's meant for you it will return, maybe this space will help you relationship. Don't think about it in a negative way. I hope that everything turns out for the best, my thoughts will be with you.

You don't really need strength to let go of something. what u really need is to understanding. Sometimes we just have to let go of someone who matters to us, not because we want to, but because we have to, because its the right thing to do. let us remember that we cant force everyone to love us. we cant beg someone to stay when she/he wants to leave and be with someone else. This is what LOVE is all about.However, the end of love is not the end of life. it should be the beginning of understanding that LOVE LEAVES FOR A REASON, BUT NEVER LEAVES WITHOUT A LESSON.

If you love your boyfriend you should trust him..maybe your relationship is not working that's why it should have a break up..i think the reason why he said "we are never going to work out" is because both of you are always arguing..