This guy is really persistent!

That is creepy... I would just not pull any punches.. just tell him straight to leave you alone .. tell him he is stalking you, and if he doesn't stop you will make a formal complaint against him.

That is actually the worst technique in the world when making a move on a girl. That would be an awesome technique to shoo crows away from your crops, but it definitely wont work on a girl. I can tell he is not very used to treat with girls... it's a bit sad, but this is not the moment to think about it. You don't want him to act like that, he is pestering you and you want him to stop. If he acts like that with all the girls he likes he will be alone forever.

If you can ask one of your friends to pretend to be your boyfriend and talk to him. It seems he like some gays thinks that if the girl is to nice to give him problems he can annoy her forever. They usually leave alone, when they see you have someone, especially someone who can tell him to get lost. Don't let him get to you, the best thing is to ignore them truly. Cheers!

You're probably very annoyed already. Have you told him how you feel about him? Maybe you haven't been too frank with him. What I am afraid is if he will become too persistent that he will become obsessed and will start to stalk you.

well since this guy just does not get the point you could make up a story about some guy u like and tell him about it maybe that would work and he might back off.

There are 2 things that I think why some guys are really persistent with courting girls: 1. is to prove himself that he can really make a girl say yes and be his girlfriend. (something about a 'guy ego') 2. he really just like you and will do everything to make you fall in love with him too. It's your instinct that can tell whether or not this guy has clean intention about you. But if you really don't like him, make a clear statement. It could hurt him but it's necessary. Secondly, if it freak you out already, that you feel he's crowding around you, that's not a good sign. Better ask for help to get rid of him but still be nice. Good luck!

i had the same experience before in the past when i was still a teenager... there was a guy who had persistently chasing me as well... he is my roommate's friend... at first i don't know him, but he knows me from my roommate... he called me, waited for me in the bus stop when i wanted to go to school and finish school, gave me presents and even went to the church just for the sake of meeting me while he was not a christian... so what i did was to tell him directly that i didn't like him and asked him to give me up... my roommate thought that i was cruel and playing hard to get... but i just didn't want to give him empty hope and expectations... take care and have a nice day...

Do you have stocker laws there. If so find the law on the Internet and send him a copy. The only reason I would be that thoughtful is because he's a family friend. If that doesn't work ask your family to help out getting the word to him. I hope this works if not there is always the law if you have one.

You can not blame the guy, dear. You have no idea what love can do to one's mind and being. You're not the only one who endure this kind of thing, I guess, we all have experienced this , one way or another. Sometimes, hearing him say 'I love you' gives you goose bumps. Or the mere sight of him makes you puke, not because he is damn ugly but because you know how stressful it is to put up with him, act coolly because you don't want to be rude. Hey, just ignore him. There's nothing much you can do by now. Hopes he will get tired and will find out a new girl to love. Let's just cross our fingers that what he feels for you isn't true love. :D

You know, if a lot of people put that much effort into something productive, they would be pretty successful. The word "no" tends to have not that much meaning to a lot of people these days, sad to really say. There are going to be a lot of people who will keep going to the well, until it gets past the point of being creepy and it gets kind of disturbing. Obsessive when you really think about it. And these people are like cockroaches. It is kind of hard to really get rid of them when you really think about it. There are just many times where people get jumping forward, keep going to the well. It is rather insane how much effort, how much of their life some of these people would take. Really, as I said, if only they put their effort into something productive, they would be pretty successful.

Because you are gorgeous? I think it's because he really likes you. Just don't give any chance for he to think he has a chance and he'll go away, but really like even seeing him and I know that hurts even to us but you got to ignore him. After a while if he doesn't stop really, he is a stalker and you got get a restraining order!

hi persistence is one thing we guys have on our sleeves when wooing a lady especially for those who lack the looks, not me of course, no seriously like the other post, you have to differentiate persistence with stalking, now if it reaches that point were you feel it's already stalking then it should be reported to the proper authorities as soon as possible and might give him a stern warning not to proceed with whatever he is doing or thinking. Also access the situation, see to it that you do not give him the wrong signals that he has a chance or whatever.. make your point very clear, good luck and please stay safe

Peace be upon you ... mariahhh i think that its time to get rude.Because you have tried ignoring him and also tried telling him right into his face. Now the more time you'll give to him the more he'll irritate you....just go to him and tell him that there is not any chance for him in your life....never.nada.zero.zip.finish(NOT STARTED EVEN)

he's obssessed with you. i think it's not the usual "i like you" thing as what he's doing. it's really creepy. just take care. have you ever told your parents about this guy,maybe they can do something. sought help, i think it's dangerous cause what if he makes a bad move just to have you.

hi there! thats kinda scary, but what can i advice you is that you ignore this guy. if telling it straight to his face that it just wouldnt work for you - the way that he pursue you, then ignore him and dont let him run your life. ask your friends and family members to help you in stopping this guy. inform them on the real score between the two of you. anyway i think the guy is very persistent because he really like you. so better talk to him and tell him straight out how you feel.

this sounds terrible! but i can relate haha!! have you told him you aren't interested? i mean properly sat him down and said "i do not like you in that way, please leave me alone!!" ?? if not.. you should really give it a go. like 3 commented above, have you spoken to your friends and family? i kinda remember you saying something about an arranged marriage if you werent married or had met someone by a certain age.. you wouldn't think your parents would be encouraging him would you?

There is a thin line with being persistent and being a stalker. You have to set that line. If you feel that this guy is already on the "stalker" category and not on the "persistent" one, then tell him then and there so that he'll stop bothering you. If he doesn't seek help from your local authorities. Keep safe!