Too proud for second hand stuff?
By missybear
@missybear (11391)
United States
October 15, 2011 5:42am CST
I'm 47 years old and never ever had new furniture.
Everything I have was rather giving to me, bought at a second hand store, or found sitting outside or at a yard sale.
I know people that are really grossed out by owning something second hand.
Of course I would love to have a new living room set or a nice new bedroom set but I just could never really afford it.
The only way I could do that if I go to one of them rent to own places but you end up paying 3 times as much by the time you finish paying it off.
So...do you mind second hand stuff?
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57 responses
@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
16 Oct 11
I love vintage or second hand stuff as long as they are in good condition. It depends on how you look at it. Some old items are limited edition Collector's items. If you cannot afford it why try to aim for buying a new one. We need to be practical because today's economy is unstable and we have to save money.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
I rather go out and have some fun with the little extra money I have than spend it on expensive new stuff
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Oct 11
Sometimes second hand goods are more durable than new ones, and much cheaper when compared with new commodities. Well, its obvious that a human being can scratch him/herself where his/her hand can reach, meaning one has to live within one's affordable means without straining in any way. Economy too is playing a very big role in determining what one wants to own, and per now.. its cool if one goes for second hand but durable goods rather than paying double or even triple for new goods.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
I would need a second job if I wanted new furniture or new TV's , Clothe and what ever else....and that's not gonna happen
@Shar19 (8231)
• United States
15 Oct 11
I think there are plenty of people that own second hand items. I really don't see what the big deal is. We have some things that are second hand or hand downs. Especially when it comes to clothes, my husband gets a lot of his work clothes from the thrift stores. The way I look at it is with his line of work the clothes are just going to get messed up anyway so why bother spending a lot of money on them. As for furniture you just have to be careful and look over the items really well for bedbugs. Then you can always steam clean it and spray it down with Lysol.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
I buy most of my scrubs at the second hand store.
Why pay $15 for just the top when I can get the set for $10
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
15 Oct 11
My husband and I often visit the second hand shops in our area and we have found a lot of things there. I often buy second hand clothes. I have never bought underwear in a second hand shop, and I don't think that I am ever going to do that, but I have bought many other kinds of clothes like sweaters, pants, dresses and skirts. I love to visit the second shops and see what kind of clothes they have. I have also bought things like cds, books, magazines, cups and glasses and furniture. The furniture in my home a mix. We have some new things, some things that used to belong to family members and friends and some things that we have bought in second hand shops.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
All my books are from the second hand store too...you can't beat 25 to 50 cents for a book.
@marguicha (223108)
• Chile
18 Oct 11
I love to have my house beautiful, but that doesn´t mean spending on it a money I don´t have. So I accept (and ask for, if it´s family or friends) for second or third hand goods. My "new" living room set used to belong to my brother. He remodeled his house and was going to give the whole furniture set to my mom´s maid. I said I came first. I gave my old furniture to my daughters and picked up just about everything. They were almost new as they don´t have children. I have children, granchidren and entertain a lot so things last less.
I´ll post a picture of a beautiful plant arrangement I did under the stairs. The plants (mostly very unexpensive) were bought by me, the container of a good wood belonged to my brother.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
19 Oct 11
I really love that plant arrangement, I think plants give a place a real nice look ....they make it look happy, and plants are so cheap that you can have lots of them
@marguicha (223108)
• Chile
19 Oct 11
I know. Plants for me have always been part of my life. They are generous and undemanding. I have grown cacti for a long time and they are part of my terrace besides another way of giving gifts to friends and family.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
15 Oct 11
For me I don't mind buying second hand stuffs as long as it can be used. Of course you have to inspect it first especially furniture or appliances if it really works.
Why settle for brand new if you can not afford it.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
That's right and for me to be able to buy new furniture I would have to do it on credit and I have none
@peavey (16936)
• United States
17 Oct 11
If it wasn't for second hand things, I wouldn't have much, I can tell you that! I enjoy shopping around second hand stores and finding treasures that don't look like everyone else's. I'd ten times rather have an old, unique piece of furniture than one that came straight off the assembly line along with a few thousand identical ones.
Besides that, I can afford much better quality when I buy used.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
18 Oct 11
Old furniture are so much better build and they are so much more sturdy too.
All this new fancy stuff falls apart when you sit on it
@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
22 Oct 11
Most of my furniture and clothes art second hand or gifts. I like to buy second hand as the clothes are much more comfortable if they are used..
One friend asked me yesterday if I would like to have some piece of clothes that she had not used and it was just hanging there. I accepted and if it is too small or big, I can give it to someone else!!
So, I have liked this cheap way to get new clotes for many years!
@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
23 Oct 11
That´s a good idea!
I actually got two items from that friend as she had found another one too! And she doesn´t want anything from me, as she is trying to get rid of stuff at this time..
Perhaps I will have to lose a bit weight for being able to wear them, but they are good quality, so it is worth a little effort - more excercise etc!!
@missybear (11391)
• United States
23 Oct 11
We always exchange clothing at work....lots of people are on diets and when there clothe get too big they bring them to work so everybody can take some.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
21 Oct 11
When I first moved out on my own I had second hand furniture. That became the normal thing for me. Many years later I was in a position to buy a new fridge and a new lounge. Neither were as good as the second hand stuff I had owned. The lounge started to deteriorate pretty well straight away...I paid AU$1800.00 for it. The fridge has cost me about $600 in repairs over the years. The second hand fridges I have had never broke down on me.
I recently bought a new dining suite and I've had to buy tools to put the chairs back together when they have fallen apart. New stuff is crap! Give me second hand any time. I prefer it.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
21 Oct 11
That really stinks.
All this new stuff is made out of plywood and unless you have big bucks to buy some real wood furniture you gonna get crap.
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@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
16 Oct 11
There was only one time in my life i had new living room and dining room furniture. That was short lived by becoming hoimeless. Ended up having to sell it. Any more whats scary about having used is bedbugs. Hopefully people when throwing that stuff out will cut or destroy so nobody will take them home.
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
16 Oct 11
Some of my best furniture, are my used pieces that were given to us or ones that we found at a garage sale. They are good sturdy pieces and add such a homey feeling to our home. Know one needs to know you have second hand furniture. If they are grossed out by you owning something second hand, well that is there problem. We are not all fortunate to be able to purchase everything we would like. Enjoy your used or handed down furniture. I don't mind second hand furniture at all.
Have a great day.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
18 Oct 11
I Love all my stuff but I really need a new or lets say different sofa cause it's getting pretty old, hopefully somebody I know will get a new set and give me there's
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
18 Oct 11
We have recovered several pieces of our furniture and it gives it a new look. We are married 39 years and still own some of our original furniture. We just recovered it when the fabric started falling apart. Good luck with a newer couch.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
15 Oct 11
I had a friend who bought an old house, she and her husband refinished it beautifully by painting walls, repairs and everything. Guess what else she did? She furnished it with her own whatnots and then fully through the thrift store. :) Don't worry about secondhand stuff, if it is sturdy, buy it.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Oct 11
That's the way I feel and they just opened a Thrift Store across the street and I checked it out already
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
15 Oct 11
I have noticed too Ikea stuff isn't that bad and it's pretty neat looking, also check them out too! :)
@prettyruby (350)
• United States
16 Oct 11
I buy and sell secondhand stuff all the time! I don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's also better for the environment.
And I agree with samafayla33...a lot of IKEA stuff is pretty good quality and not that much more expensive than some secondhand stuff! Or you could always get almost new IKEA stuff secondhand - then it's even cheaper!
@allknowing (136541)
• India
15 Oct 11
We have never ever bought anything second hand and that does not mean that those who opt for that are any less in the eyes of society. It is just that they do not have the funds. As long as you are comfortable with whatever you have that is what matters and when you can afford I am sure you will go for chip n dale and stuff.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
15 Oct 11
One day I hope before I die I will own a new piece of furniture
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
Oh that would be wonderful....hopefully by the beach, now I'm really dreaming.
@allknowing (136541)
• India
15 Oct 11
I am sure you will own not just a new piece of furniture but a dream house!
@anil02 (24688)
• India
16 Oct 11
hello I don't mind second hand stuff. It is my thinking that some thing is better than nothing. If we cannot afford new one than nothing is wrong in it to have a second hand. We should not be refuse for half piece of bread because we have not full piece of bread.
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
15 Oct 11
I think a lot of very poor and cash strapped people reject used second hand stuff. They have low self esteem and it is important to them to get "new" things like all the other people who have a better job maybe, who are better educated maybe, who are not on welfare or disability maybe. It makes them feel part of mainstream even though if they buy the rent to own stuff and go further into debt just to have "new" things that are no longer new once they leave the tore and are in a person's house. I get this impression from people whom I encounter since I am a volunteer at a food bank. We also provide information where people can obtain furniture, clothes and household items for free. A great many of these people only want new items.
Myself I love yard sales and charity shops where used items or donated items are sold. I call myself an urban peasant and have a plot in a community garden. I make jam, jelly, apple sauce and other items which are canned in jars. New jars are expensive. I get mine at yard sales and charity shops for a fraction of the price. I sterilize them and then use them to preserve stuff for the winter.
I have a friend who dresses like a fashion plate. She is so elegant and has beautiful clothes. All of these items come from church rummage sales and charity shops like the Salvation Army. I have not been able to find suitable clothes for me but she has a real knack for this type of shopping. She has also found a beautiful top for me, but I felt not comfortable wearing it before I had washed it about 4 times since I could still smell the perfume of the person who wore it before.
I did find a brand new pure linen expensive table cloth with the price still attached for $4.00 at a charity shop which I gave to my son and family. They just love it.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
You both make great points.
I have about 4 little end tables that I found outside by the garbage and a little polish and some paint and they look wonderful.
I actually have no room for all those little tables but they so nice to throw away now.
@hispraiser (2)
• Canada
16 Oct 11
You make a really good point. Sadly, I feel that those who are lower income get 'saving fatigue' where they are do used to not having enough and making sure that they attempt to live within their means, that they just get fed up and tired with it and feel the need for new things. It makes them feel that they are just like those with a large disposable income. But, I also feel that those with middle incomes get the same way.
There are so many marketing strategies that just push people around and make them think that in order to feel better, they need to spend more. Which in turn makes everything worse because then you have the stress of spending beyond your means and now you have to rectify that.
Second hand is perfectly fine and with a little sprucing, it could look brand new! A coat of paint, stain (these you can get for really cheap at a paint store. Just ask if they have any rejected colours, and frequently you can get those for a couple dollars a can, and you can typically change the colour as long as it's in the colour palette of the colour it is), and then it looks brand new!
@GardenGerty (160702)
• United States
16 Oct 11
Almost everything I own is second hand as well. Actually at times you get better quality second hand than going new, even with the rent to own things. Second hand furniture is more likely to be real wood, new is often particle board. I find things that are second hand have a flair to them, and my combination of them makes me unique.
@Galena (9110)
•
15 Oct 11
I've got a lot of second hand stuff. especially furniture.
I've had so many RUBBISH quality new bits of furniture. like chests of drawers that are fine until you put clothes in them, then the bottom of the drawers fall out and the runners come away. and they're not cheap either. they're just rubbish.
so I get a lot of second hand furniture. if it's survived one owner, it will probably be fit for purpose, unlike new stuff. a lot of my furniture is 1940s, and I really like the style, as well as the sturdiness of it.
so really I would rather have old furniture than new furniture. it is more stylish, more sturdy, and I know it will last me as it has already lasted someone else.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
I can't even remember where I got my dresser from but it's really old and sturdy.
It could use a new paint job though....that could be a Sunday project.
@hispraiser (2)
• Canada
16 Oct 11
Oh my goodness I completely agree with you. All the dressers for Ikea are just that. They look cute on the outside, but as soon as you put something it it they just collapse. I also dont think that unless you are a carpenter, you probably shouldnt be putting together your own furniture. Its just not as sturdy as it could be. My dresser was from my great-grandmother, and if I remember correctly she got it from someone before her. Beautiful piece and solid as solid could be. :)
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@stary1 (6612)
• United States
15 Oct 11
I applaud you for living within your means. There are many who foolishly think they have to have something and go into debt and can never get out.
I see nothing whatsoever wrong with second hand things. As I said..you are much wiser to live within your buget than be overburdened with debt
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
15 Oct 11
I don't mind secondhand stuff. I got a lot of secondhand stuff, such s clothes and bags, fm friends who r rich. I bought a secondhand piano some yrs ago cos I cldn't afford a brand new one. Actually, by getting secondhand stuff fm pp who don't want them, we're helping to save e environment.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
16 Oct 11
You right and the environment needs all the help it can get