Attitude is important or appearance of a person?

to be honest with you, i will definitely choose attitude over appearance when choosing a friend... having good attitudes and personalities count more than having a good outer appearance... for me, inner beauty is much more important than outer beauty... someone might not be beautiful or good looking, but if he/she has a golden heart, then that is what matters the most... take care and have a nice day...

Hi! A person's character, traits and attitude is more important than his outwardly appearance. Many persons look ordinary but they have golden heart and superlative thinking. Outwardly appearance has nothing to do with one's intelligence and wisdom. I would always give more importance to one's wisdom and presence of mind rather than his/her appearance.

i think attitude is more important... sure is right?

I think attitude for me is the most important. A person can be physically attractive but have an aweful attitude. In that case then such a person wouldn't be someone I would want to have a close relationship with. I enjoy being around people who are humble and don't think that they are better than others.

hi friend! if given there is both. then, i would have both, the attitude and the appearance but sometimes that would not go together so i would choose the attitude. attitude is very important to me rather than the appearance of the person. what could we do with good appearance if he/she has no good attitude that good appearance will all be forfeited if he/she has no good attitude. when i befriend someone i always look on one's attitude it's because when you befriend someone it means you give your trust to that person right and if i choose to befriend someone good looking but do not have that great attitude then maybe i would just find myself in shame because of wrong gossips. bottom line. attitude is really great my friend.

I will not care about the appearance but more on the attitude. I think if you have a good attitude your appearance will tend to shine too.

People with attitude problems is a big turn off when it comes to friendship or relationship. I would settle for good attitude as having a pretty or handsome appearance is only deceiving if the attitude is like a rotten egg. But I've seen men being swept off their feet by a pretty face only to end up depressed after a while of being in couple.

To be perfectly honest, I look more at someone's attitude more than their appearance. I think that there's more to someone than their appearance. I find that their appearance doesn't necessarily say much about the person in question.

I am looking for a good attitude person to be friend with me. I don't want the baggage just like last time.

For me attitude very good in it but if not I don't want to have friends I preferred to be alone.

Appearance is needed, but attitude is more important than whatever. That's my opinion. Have a great day.

I would choose both if ever cause I really love to be with those with good appearance maybe I will also get some looks when I'm with them and also I can ask what regime they are doing to attain good looks. But I would really choose those person with good attitude because they were the person where you can really find a true friend. And having these two great qualification for a friend is truly a gift for me. =) What's important for me is that he/she knows when to listen to me and also knows when to speak by giving me advice when I'm wrong and having a problem. I would also love to have friends that doesn't have a good attitude and maybe I can help them to have good attitude. =)

Friendy fanta like attitude even my friend appearance is not good she/he is looking ugly but her/his nature and attitude is good then fanta feel happy. Heart is most important part of body and for me heart is most important for friendship also.

I'll go for both, good attitude and good appearance. However, if just given one choice, that would definitely the first one. Appearance can be easily remedied nowadays :)

In my opinion, attitude is crucial factor on all sides of life. It reflects true mind inside a people in spite of sometimes they try their utmost to represent a good appearance. Time lapses away, after experiencing life's up and down, so tired that people can't remain their look, true attitude will be showed and that is what friendship is in need of. However, a good appearance have positive impact on daily communication. Fact have shown that children hardly show their love to their parents although they really care about family and as a result, parents usually think that their kids are dry, so then members of family sense a breakdown in their house. Problem will be tackle if children easily say " I love you" with their parents thanks to a good appearance.

It's got to be the whole package for me. You can have great looks, but have the personality of a garbage can, so to speak. Attitude means everything. I think attitude trumps physical appearance by far. I really do.

Attitude and "BRAINS" :). There are a lot of good looking people, but when they open their mouth you wish they kept silent. As the saying goes "What is within,so is without". Yes you can not hide the positive vibes of a person, it spreads like sun light and makes other people feel good and Smile :).

I think attitude is important...because u can tell alot by the was we treat one another...life is not easy and there are a lot of rude, arrogant, and disrespecful people in this wide wide world. it is very important that we pick our friends and not let our friends pick us..just bec it looks golden dosen't mean its pure gold. fake gold can't tarnish fast....be care and i am sure you will make the \proper decision...since you can't see my appearance and u be my friend?

I honestly believe that one should be judged by the content of their character rather than by their appearance or other minute qualities. Having a good, positive attitude proves to be better when you are greeting friends and expanding your social realm. This would only lead to the conclusion that being more positive and sociabble will yield more opportunity!.

Hello Attitude is very important because it is who he/she is because appearance of people is created by god and their appearance dont tell who they are but their attitude tell who they are. But i will share you my experience here in our country (Philippines)some of my friend are handsome and some are ugly but you know guys? my friend that has ugly face has also had a very bad attitude like very boost full, he act like a top guy and he feels like he is very handsome, he said he chiks is very easy to him and he said that no one can overcome him for competition in chiks even though he is very ugly compare to my handsome friend very simple with a good attitude.