Where Can I Find A Good Employer I Will Be Happy With

I think its a common problem. If you are working for someone else then you have to bear whatever they say. Bosses are always wiser and smarter than there employes whatever is their quality and qualification. And I dont think there is any sector where you can find independence and respect if you work under some other people. Why not start your own business ;)

Hey PhillyDreamer. Unfortunately, in today's economy it is sometimes difficult to find a job. Don't let a bad past employer deter you from trying again. I understand that it may be discouraging, especially if you felt unappreciated but not all employers are bad employers. Personally I am happy with my work. I'm in healthcare, a PSW (Personal Support Worker) and even though the job is less than glamourous I can honestly say that I enjoy it. It has it's faults like any others but I am willing to overlook most of them. And very often managers know less about the job than the employees do but I find that, obviously they weren't hired for their ability to do the job but presumably for their managerial skills. That's not to say in any way that they are good managers as there are many managers out there who are not good at what they do. I find that all too often a manager sits behind a desk making decisions that effect the employees and how the job is done without having any real knowledge of the job itself. Not a good system to be sure. I also think that education is a key aspect to employment. Generally speaking the more knowledge/education one can manage to acquire the more job opportunities you have for employment. Education, coupled with experience is what most employers are looking for.

I know working under a terrible boss is so hard, it is not easy job to please him or her everyday, but you need money and happiness too, and now you have a twins to take care of, you need money very much, I suggest you to open a part time business, else you can search until you find the right employer that appreciate you.

I do feel the same way Philly. The kind of job I am dealing right is a pain in the a_s. LOL I am one-man-team, doing all these and those yet underpaid and most of the time I receive my salary so late. It's a wrong choice for getting this job.

Well, I understand your feeling when you haven't had a good employer. If you are really unhappy with it, you can leave and find another job. it is not easy to live when you are frustrated with doing work. There are many chance for you to find a good employer and good working environment with good income also. Best luck for you!!!

I used to have the same problem before so what I did was I asked several of my close friends if they recommend me to their company since we are all in the same field of job anyway. I trust their opinion on this because they have been in their company for several years now so it means that it is bearable. Luckily, one of those who helped me succeeded. I am now working at a company and with a boss that respect and value me as an employee.

Being happy in your work is something that is vital in all of our lives, because we spend more time working than we spend doing anything else. For this reason, it can be horrible when we don't like our jobs because of the fact that they're causing us so much stress. When you get a job interview you can ask what will be expected of you in the role, and you should have a better boss than last time. You need to remember that the boss from your previous job is in the minority, and the majority of employers are actually great with regards to giving their employees what they need.

well i wish you all the luck in your new job hunting, i know it was hard for me in almost the same way.. but i did luck out and find something i like alot and plan to keep i only work part time 4 days a week 4 hours a week and i work by myself no bosses over me i do a breakfast bar for our hotel.. and the owners are seldom there on my early morning hours.. i am really happy i found it. but on a minus side if there is one, every job will have a few things you dont like that is just lifefor me and this job, when on the rare occasion my boss does come in she will go over everything i cleaned very close and usualy find something i did wrong or did not do. any i get very irritated about that.. but it is not something i will quit my job over.. i one day hope to do it the way she wants and then she will leave me alone so i try harder knowing i need to please her.. thank God she dont come very often :) but i use her to motivate me to do better and it works again good luck..

Right now, I'm not totally happy but I'm doing my best to like this job. It is the source of my livelihood. I work in a hospital as a nurse - 12 hour shift for 4 to 5 days a week. I'm exposed with different kinds of people in a different situation every day, pay is just enough to cover food and other expenses. What makes work rewarding? It depends on every person. I think, you can put up your own business,start from scratch - a small one, or have someone close to you or put up a partnership together with your friends - with common views in life. In here, you are free from overbearing bosses and other stuff. I believe that in order for us to get a better job, we need to update our credentials (i.e. attending affordable lectures, free online update/trainings, enhancement crash course) in this way, you may be more than prepared to apply for that job and able to get that better job without knowing it.