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Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 28 Apr 13

I really think the owners are pushing it with some people they accept here or else they need to train the care givers to have more patience.This poor woman who has some sort of motor control nerve problems that make it almost...

she mayh need morehelp than gold crest can give he

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Suebee Even if the woman has needs that cannot be accommodated by the facility, there is no justifiable reason for the caregivers to be making inappropriate remarks. Whether or not the person's intellect has been affected, whether she understands the comments or not...

29 Apr 13

Suebee @Suebee (2013) • Canada 7 Jun 12

Ok, I get it that some people have to declare bankruptcy but whatever happened to just paying your bills, being responsible and living within your means? I have known a few people who have declared personal bankruptcy and they...

finances

living beyond your means

money

personal bankruptcy

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Suebee Oh I do believe that there are some people who really do need to claim bankruptcy. Those are not the ones I'm talking about. Maybe I just know a lot of irresponsible people but most, if not all of the ones I know of that claimed bankruptcy did it because of...

21 Mar 13

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

some people says that having a bad husband is better than living without man. they used to think that lady always need a man othewise society will not give that much respect to an alone lady... How do you think and agree with it?...

widow

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Suebee Yes, I have a happy life. If you have read The Secret, or seen the movie that is good but The Secret is only an introduction to the law of attraction. There are so many more books out there that are much better on the subject. The Secret is like kindergarten...

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extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

which one do you prefer? to be single and have life of your choice? or to share your life with your partner? if you prefer to be married then what is your success and experience of married life?

married

single

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Suebee There is one major flaw that I see in your way of thinking and that is that you wish your husband to be dead. From what I understand (and I may be totally off base here) we can and do have control over our lives with our thoughts, however, wishing him dead is...

21 Mar 13

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

which one do you prefer? to be single and have life of your choice? or to share your life with your partner? if you prefer to be married then what is your success and experience of married life?

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Suebee Unfortunately we cannot control others - their actions or their thoughts but what we CAN control is our own actions, thoughts and reactions. There is some good in every living thing on this earth, your husband included. Try to find the good and beauty in all...

19 Mar 13

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

which one do you prefer? to be single and have life of your choice? or to share your life with your partner? if you prefer to be married then what is your success and experience of married life?

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Suebee I guess it depends on your personal experiences and who you are married to. It sounds as though you are very unhappy in your current situation. Life is for everyone and everyone, both men and women, are equal (but that's a whole other discussion isn't...

19 Mar 13

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

it is more than third time, from the time my father passed away, I see him in my dream and we talk together but when I get up I forget what we were talking about? and what he was saying to me?? I really wish him to see in my...

dead

dream

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Suebee Then talk to him. Close your eyes and see him as well.

19 Mar 13

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

some people says that having a bad husband is better than living without man. they used to think that lady always need a man othewise society will not give that much respect to an alone lady... How do you think and agree with it?...

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Suebee Wow, that is a huge question that could take years to answer! I am sorry that you are not happy with your life at the moment, however, there are always options. Do you read at all? Do you meditate? Do you read spiritual books? (I don't mean religious books, I...

19 Mar 13

ruchadhawal31 @ruchadhawal31 (228) • India 15 Feb 13

According to me it has somewhat changed my life. We cant fully depend on law of attraction. We also have to make some efforts to become successfull in life. This book is somewhat helpful.

law of attraction

success

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Suebee

19 Mar 13

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

which one do you prefer? to be single and have life of your choice? or to share your life with your partner? if you prefer to be married then what is your success and experience of married life?

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Suebee Would you elaborate on your response? I don't understand it. Are you saying that one cannot have their own life if they are married?

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extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

which one do you prefer? to be single and have life of your choice? or to share your life with your partner? if you prefer to be married then what is your success and experience of married life?

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Suebee Myself, I am married and am very happy. It is all a matter of personal choice. Some people would rather live alone while others prefer to have a partner. One can still have "life of your choice" whether they are single or in a relationship.

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extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

it is more than third time, from the time my father passed away, I see him in my dream and we talk together but when I get up I forget what we were talking about? and what he was saying to me?? I really wish him to see in my...

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Suebee Yes, I have seen relatives who have passed in my dreams...if that is what they were...dreams. I saw my father as well, a few times after he passed. In one dream I recall he was standing at the foot of my bed. It was one of those dreams that are so real you're...

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extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 19 Mar 13

some people says that having a bad husband is better than living without man. they used to think that lady always need a man othewise society will not give that much respect to an alone lady... How do you think and agree with it?...

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Suebee It is a personal choice whether to have someone in your life or not, although you have no control over when that person dies. Some people seek companionship, a partner, love, or a relationship with others. Some people choose to live by themselves. It is all...

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ruchadhawal31 @ruchadhawal31 (228) • India 15 Feb 13

According to me it has somewhat changed my life. We cant fully depend on law of attraction. We also have to make some efforts to become successfull in life. This book is somewhat helpful.

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Suebee Yes the law of attraction exists. And you, you can fully depend on the law of attraction, just as you can depend on the law of gravity. Laws of nature don't only work sometimes. Gravity does not work some days and not others. You have read the book The...

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Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 25 Feb 13

Have you ever reached a point in your life where you realized that you need to start putting yourself, and your children first? Whether you were just dating someone or if you were married? I have for the longest time hoped that my...

first

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Suebee I think that in general, not just in relationships but in everyday life, one needs to learn how to put themselves first. It may sound selfish at first, but really, it is the only way to live your life. If you think about it, it only makes sense. Why live for...

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Suebee @Suebee (2013) • Canada 22 Apr 12

Has anybody read any of Esther and Jerry Hicks books? I can't get enough of them. They're excellent Law of Attraction books filled with very good advice for everyday living. If you've read The Secret or The Power (which I have)...

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Suebee I'm really surprised that I don't run into more people who even know who Esther and Jerry Hicks are, let alone have read any of their books. They're awesome! I have also read Ask and It is Given. Excellent read, along with all of their other books.

25 Feb 13

PinkCashmereYarn @bluerubymoon53 (3286) • United States 27 Dec 12

I have 2 knitting projects going and I need to finish them up. I started a short-sleeved cardigan a few summers ago. It is a nice shade of purple and have it nearly finished. All I have to do is finish up the second sleeve and...

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Suebee What pattern did you use for the fingerless glove? Since I first responded to this discussion I have made 8 scarves, 5 pairs of slippers and one pair of fingerless gloves. It's great to see my finished accomplishments!

24 Feb 13

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 4 Feb 13

While I was waiting for my appointment I talked to a woman who was waiting as well. We discussioned material things and she said: "If someone damages one of my belongings I don’t get angry. Compared to a situation where you lose a...

material things

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Suebee I agree with what the woman said, but only to a point. Of course the loss of a loved one is much more devastating than the loss of a material item, but that does not mean that material items have no value. It depends on what kinds of items you are talking...

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Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 13 Jan 13

This discussion came about after watching a Lottery segment on television about where some of the money goes..and there was a lady on who uses music to help trigger positive responses from dementia sufferers who feel lonely and...

elderly deserve better songs

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Suebee To my knowledge, no, they haven't...yet. You could always be the first. I'm sure by the time you get to be a permanent resident in a nursing home you'll have others that could sing it with you.

15 Jan 13

Always smiling @allknowing (137773) • India 13 Jan 13

No one looks at our inner wear and so do we get tempted to make allowances such as not bothering to see that the two pieces match, that they fit us well, there are no pins to hold them in place, they are not torn and last but not...

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Suebee I think just about everyone is tempted to make allowances regarding their underwear. I rarely wear a matching set, although sometimes if I wear a black bra I'll wear a pair of black panties, same for white etc although they were not purchased as a matching...

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