"Tired of Loving"?
By prashu
@prashu228 (37524)
India
August 12, 2012 1:54pm CST
hello friends,
what i feel is " No one ever gets tired of loving. ( as we see , after one break up we will definitely be in love after few days, we are never tired even after many break ups)..But everyone gets tired of waiting,assuming, hearing lies, saying sorry and hurting. I wonder what the reason could be, behind this?
11 responses
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
13 Aug 12
hi prashu,
love is a such thing that it rejuvenate us in every brake up, while the brake ups are increasing the enthusiasm and love will increase, that does not increase, i have experienced the same several times in my life, there is tiresome in love, waiting also a kind of anxiety in us, some small quarrels will also good in love,have a nice day
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi,
Is it true? i never heard that, breaks increases our enthusiasm and love, sounds very good, if thats the case, why people try to end their lives after their loved ones are gone/or left them? , why such a pain? i never understood this, anyways, interesting point, i will definitely try to see for such people, who are like that, thanks for the response.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
13 Aug 12
hi prashu,
thanks for the response, now a days lovers are cowards means they are fearing about their love and they does not confidence love,their love also some what like that,if we have confidence on our love,nothing will happen,surely our lover come to us, if that much confidence does not have with their lover,what is the fun in loving,have a nice day.
@marguicha (223776)
• Chile
13 Aug 12
I would not call that love. Yuo are defining something that is more like an attraction. It is imposible to know a person in a few days, to get to love her/him (different from falling in love as if you fell and broke your neck. When you get to know, really know, someone, you will not say so many lied and you will not hear many either.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi,
agreed, but the older/ much experienced people/ people who have seen much life speak like this, but thats not the case with young people. thanks for the response. but the way i just want to ask you one question from many days, can i? i will...whats the meaning of your name? is it a spanish name?
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
19 Sep 12
Hi!
I think those who keep breaking relationship and keep going for the next one, they are insecure in their minds. They want to hold someone's hands to cross the river. They just need someone and when they find that the other one is not upto the mark, means unable to fulfill their dreams, they just leave him/her and move ahead. It is sad, but may be true.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
12 Aug 12
prashu
To change lovers one after the other is wrong. but due to some reason if break up takes place it is better for the person to make up his mind and go for a new partner instead of taking extreme steps. it is also true we cannot bear the waiting and our partner telling lies.--differs from age to age. During teen age expectations are different. during 20s, 30s it is different. and after 60s it is different. good day.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
13 Aug 12
hello sir,
I agree, that changing lovers one after other is wrong, but unfortunately this happens /happening in the modern society. Expectations differ, i agree but the basic necessities are always the same..
thank you for the response.
@drow1212 (169)
• United States
12 Aug 12
Cause of how awful it can feel and depending on the years if its a serious relationship it hurts even more, people get tired of it cause it feels like there hearts are being crushed people naturally do not fully understand until they go through it themselves some don't recover and kill themselves cause the pain is too much to handle
It may be years before they date again if they are in love after a few days then there relationship was a joke to begin with.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi,
I agree, it does hurt when serious relations break. yes people understand when certain problem comes on them, i agree many couldn't recover from the pain.thanks for the response
@redtesha (1773)
• Indonesia
13 Aug 12
well, i don't know what i should do if i have that feeling ..
sometimes in relationship you can get heart and hurt at the same times. you care but if you care too much, that's bad for your partner, your act like never trust your partner.
There's a day you should lies. I know that's bad but if you don't lie, you just hurt your partner's feeling more than you lie. Lie is bad so use white lie ..
saying sorry is good, when you know you are wrong, but you should know, say sorry every single mistakes you make just make you look so worse ..
i choose to find new one .. if my old relationship is not work, i think maybe he/she is not your mate , and you should find your mate, so do your ex :)
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi,
I understood, yes we have to tell lies in some cases, and that which doesn't harm any one, in turn gives happiness, thanks for the response.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
I think I have gotten to that point too, and wouldn't even remember how to be in love. It is such a heavy feeling inside. I just let time pass by and hope that someday the love I lost will again be found.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
30 Aug 12
Hi,
I think many love affairs and many break ups is not fair. When you are in love you should think before falling in love and try to understand each other. Misunderstanding is the main reason always for break ups. No one can be tired of love. Love gives us strength. But trying to love again and again and failing in it will be tiresome.
@jellsiguenza (147)
• Philippines
14 Aug 12
Love is a wonderful thing. It makes us happy. That is most of us never get tired of loving. Because being in love is what makes us happy. It makes us feel better, inspired and makes everything around us better. There are times that other people were hurt loving a wrong person. But it never stop them to love another person again. And that is a good attitude.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
14 Aug 12
Dear Prashu,
Well, I never get tired of loving or being loved. I believe I can't live without love, and I doubt how many people can live happily without love. We are pursuing love all the time but we just can't avoid being hurt. But still we are seeking love...