Life changes after marriage? really!

Wow..by this time you are already married. Congrats!!! I am sorry to have missed the ceremony but I am curious to know...has it changed? I think that one of the best changes that I can imagine happening after marriage is the fact that you have a partner. Not just a partner in marriage but someone that is on your side throughout the rest of your life. I know that it doesn't always work out that way but that would be a welcomed change for me if it did.

I considered myself as new married because after few days of our wedding, I left home to work abroad. After 2 years just 3months ago I came back. I am happy because my wife now already pregnant on our first baby. It's really, really true that after your marriage there are lots of things that might change. You need to adjust all of those things. Like sleeping with someone, you need to wake up early to take care your partner, unlike before you are single, you can go anywhere without anybody asked you where you go, but now, your partner will always be there to ask about your doings and undertakings.

Congratulations to you shibham. And yes, its true that life changes when your already married...specially, if you already have a kid. Your "freedom" would be somewhat limited. Its not gonna be like before that you could just be care free. Now,you need to be more responsible.

Hiya shibs, Who is that lovely little one in that Photo? I know who she is already gorgeous little Angel. Afraid life does change but once you get used to it not that bad after all. You have to take it Day to Day sort of thing and not get alarmed at the first thing going wrong. You will see for yourself anyway. Actually I did think about you getting married just a few moments back so I came here to see what you are doing. Hope you and your chin are now in better circumstances I did read it but as soon as I sit on here I have to get off. Working on my Squidoo lenses at the moment and blog so I have to write very quickly and think very quickly to get it all done as soon as I can so I have been doing a lot of copying and pasting too. My name for that little Angel would Azahar which means honeysuckle a sweet smelling flower its aroma lasts all night long in the long very hot summer nights we have been having here. I want to do a couple of lenses about Tigers, Elephants and Sharks if I can I am already picking up material but I am going to add nothing that has anything made out of these exploited animals only posters and stuff like that. Loved that cute little Bird you posted yesterday too lovely colours. Marriage is like that you see lots of nice colours come together like a collage most of them are bright and nice and joyous however there can be stormy colours too which I hope is never your case. May you be so happy together always the both of you. Love to all.xxx

meow, What happened to your promise to me? I think I need to arrange my visa to object at your wedding Obviously I should be there at the wedding

hello, shibham, congratulation first from me for your marriage marriage could change someone's life because you have to be more responsible person than you were. as my experience, it tell me to be more neat girl and diligent. before married I can throw away any stuff when I back from office and can wake up very late, but after married, I have to keep my household clean and try to wake up earlier -even I'm still wake up late very often. I also have to responsible about financial because it is very important.

First of all, congratulations on getting married. Life before and after marriage is quite different. You know, before marriage, we are singles and there is not so much related to a family life, but after marriage, there is so much to think about, like getting prepared for the birth of the first child with so much knowledge to learn about. Also we need to be financially prepared for everything and so on.

hi shibham, congratulations for fixing marriage with your fiancee, you said that the marriage will be held on 24th September,2012, we do not arrange marriages in between 20th August to 19th October, the mean time is not good for us means for our Andhra People,there may be lot of changes in your daily life and every thing,after marriage you will know all those changes, all the best,have a nice day.

shiby, I don't care whatever changes occur. I don't even care if you will change or not.. what I care for is... my plane ticket and saree

I've heard of a lot of situations where people say that their relationship with their partner significantly changes after marriage and there are a lot of other people that say that their relationship really doesn't change all that much after their marriage. I do think that the changes that you might or might not see in your relationship will actually be as unique as your relationship itself. For me, I have to say that the relationship that I have with my husband didn't change at all after we took our vows about eight and a half years ago.

Dear Shibam as marriage goes, you are a child and not aware, it is not your bride but with her friends you should beware, Though the couple is responsible, they are the cause of the terror, which every marriage has to suffer everyday and forever. You don't believe me do you? Here is a part of lyric from "My Fair Lady" as told by Professor Higgins. [i]But, let a woman in your life, and your sabbatical is through, in a line that never ends comes an army of her friends, come to jabber and to chatter and to tell her what the matter is with YOU!,[/i] and then there are people like me, married and happy for two decades and more.The secret is to keep quiet about things the spouse doesn't need to know. Remember, no one is a thief until caught in the act.

First change in me is i became aware of how i spend my money. i learn to be unselfish. I just don't buy for myself always anymore, but for things in the house specially. I also became a homebody. And i learned how to cook.

Hi and congratulations! May there be many a happy year for you both! I remember when I moved in with my husband we both went through a few changes but thanks to us knowing them so well, they went relatively smoothly. One was we spoke of what was happening in our own lives and it took some time to get used to after living alone. Two: other was to remember the funds; we're used to them going for our own needs/bills/wish lists etc. but need to remember now they are going for the family. This was not to say that there wasn't any money for fun...there was but we needed to be more disciplined about it and ask the husband/wife if there was anything that needed attention. The last thing we needed to be good at was the ability to read one another and to a point, we're pretty decent in doing so though we still ask or try to say something so whatever was bothering the person would stand less of a chance of being worse. Are you good at this? Can you read your fiancee to know when he needs you to be there and when he needs to be alone for a while? It's a good thing to be able to read another. :-) Much luck to you both!

shib, advance marriage wishes to you. How is preparations going on? My life changed a lot after my marriage, before my marriage, i don't have responsibilities and spending a lot, i am a chain smoker and drunker at that time, after my marriage i reduced my spending and smoking activities, my wife helped me a lot to improve my business, before marriage, i don't use internet for my business purpose and done my business in local level, after marriage, darshu encouraged me a lot to expand the business and help me to promote it, she find out my fake friends and suggest me to cut them, i faced a lot of positive changes in my life after my marriage, hope you too face a lot of good things after your marriage and my wishes for it

I have heard this from many people who are recently married. They say the case is the same even if its in love marriage or arranged marriage. You have to be more responsible once you are married. Infact maturity creeps in you once you are married. You have so many commitments and at times can even feel the pressure.Infact even the character of people change a lot, one of my friends who used to be talkative before marriage has become more serious and silent. I wonder what happened to him after marriage.

Hi shiby, I see you asking and talking about "you" and the changes to your life and it makes me think that you really have not given this much thought. Look at your fiancée how is her life at the moment? Is it carefree? Have you been saving money? Do you have a house to live in with your new wife. Have you thought about ways to make her happy, make her feel safe, protected and loved? The thing is, your world will no longer be all about YOU, it will be about your wife who must always come first with you. Your life will change in every way and if you do not realise this then I feel sorry for your wife to be.

Congratulations...hope you have a happy marriage life! I envy you as I am too old to get married and I am still single (but have a relationship with a man). Well, there are some changes, as marriage life is different from dating life, that is what I know. But what do you know so far about marriage life If I may ask you?

Congrats for marriage and thanks to not call me on your marriage because my money is saved because I not purcahse gift for you haha...just kidding. After some months you are familiar with changes in life after marriage. Somebody comes in our life as our life partner for caring us. After marriage both cant live without each other. Lots of experience you can face after some time.

Where's the wedding? If it's outside my little area of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma (USA), I'll have to ... oh, it's already past September 24th, nevermind You're probably sensing how it's different when you're married. First, you're not trying to impress people with yourself the same way. You're not so much an 'individual' as you are 'part of a couple.' Also, with your spouse: you're not trying to impress THEM the same way anymore. They're more like a roommate or a sibling---someone you live with 'because you have to' (not saying you don't want to, but more like 'you couldn't not-live with them.') Noticing anything else?

well for me the only change that marriage caused in my life is that life is happier :) and yes the lifestyle changes too :) Congratulations and probably now ou know what were the changes of being married :) Hope your life as one is joyful and happy