Ugh!!! Love hurts alot

In the first place why did you ran to them? Isn't that you weren't able to project yourself? Yeah you could have punched him in the first place when he left you. I totally understand now why you are being so much into heart break for a fact that you were with him for 7 years. I just hope you will realized someday that he is not really for you. Since he had proven already that he is a cheater then just think of it that being with him will be also a torture. What if the two of you are already married then that is the only time that you found out that he is already cheating? What will you do? Would you tolerate that he is doing that or you can leave him with filing the costly annulment?

ya , love hurts a lot , at some point of life love just hurts. everyone has to face this pain in life and we cant do anything because we cant stop loving our near dear ones.

Thats just horrible , I dont know how can some man continue to sleep at night . That is the most cruel thing I have ever heard , he just vanish and you looking for home, he could have at least gave you good bye call/text . Continue to cry because you are just letting it all out , you will be ok . What goes around comes around and is karma is waiting for him.

Hi night01watcher, i know how you feel and it really hurts because you still love him but nothing to do but let him go and free yourself from pain. I think you deserve someone who will never cheat you and love you more than you do. it is okay to cry now until you make you feel better but soon try to move on and start a new life without thinking of him. I am hoping that someday all the pains will go away and you will find someone who can makes you smile and never hurt you.

Forget him by thinking all the bad things he did to you.He is not your loss and there are lots of guys out there better than him.If I were you I will just smile and congratulate them at and make them see that you are happy and better off without him so that they will think that it is not a big deal to you that they are engaged.You should ignore and just think that nothing happened.

Well, there is no point of crying about it. I know it's difficult not to, but give it a try. It's his loss and when a man can't what he's really missing out on, then there is no point of looking back at that road. Some men are like this, they can't help it. They just find out at one point in their life that they want a new girl, no matter how long they have been together with a woman. So yeah, you can find him and punch him, but you also gotta show him you've moved on and you can actually live without him and his new fiancé. I am really sorry that you got invovled with one those kind of guys, no girl would ever want to be played like that. If you're having trouble sleeping, you should try drinking warm milk or tea:) If not allergic to honey, then that is the best substitude for sugar in the tea. This has always helped me sleeping at night after painful breakups, so I hope it will help for you too :)

im so sorry for that your ex is really stupid and that girl too. they are perfect for each other! how dare she could say that in front of you! dont worry both wont be happy do you know why? bcs when we are bad to others we pay what we do in double. they are both selfish. he should had respect you and in the day he fell for that girl he should face you and tell you. not leave you like you are a meaningless thing. dont cry over him please. guys like this are not worth even a tear.

hi.!! yeah right love hurts. we felt pain that medication can't cure. i hope you can find better that him. forget him and move on.

Hi friend, sad to hear about your story, as you mentioned he cheated you and living with his new gf, forget about this cheat and concentrate with some useful things. You don't get any benefits by thinking him, it will waste your time and spoil your mood, he is not deserved for your tears, better to divert your thoughts, it is really hard to forget about the sincere love, but what to do? try your maximum to forget him and do your work properly

I am not a love expert, but I can relate to your agony. My situation is the other way around, there is no closure. That's how unlucky I am in loving someone. The bitterness of being in love will be healed in the right time.

Hi night01watcher, So sad to know your story but one day you'll overcome all of it. Try to put your attention on the other things or activities that will help you not to think of him. Most of the people had also an experience like yours and they managed to move on, so you will.just little by little, you can do it.

Well, there is no point of crying about it. I know it's difficult not to, but give it a try. It's his loss and when a man can't see what he's really missing out on, then there is no point of looking back at that road. Some men are like this, they can't help it. They just find out at one point in their life that they want a new girl, no matter how long they have been together with a woman. So yeah, you can find him and punch him, but you also gotta show him you've moved on and you can actually live without him and his new fiancé. I am really sorry that you got invovled with one those kind of guys, no girl would ever want to be played like that. If you're having trouble sleeping, you should try drinking warm milk or tea:) If not allergic to honey, then that is the best substitude for sugar in the tea. This has always helped me sleeping at night after painful breakups, so I hope it will help for you too :)

Oh my!!!You should have punched him... he's a total looser!!!