What a foolish girl !!!

This is one of the reasons why wedding party isn't important for me, whats the matter most is the vows between couple that make the marriage is sacred and legal in front of God. It's going to be a long response I guess...are you ready to read my long boring response? lol ... I still carry on the free coffee discussion hahaha. I would blame the mindset that wedding party is the most essential thing in a wedding, many people says that wedding day is the day where the bride and the groom treated as the king and the queen of the day, that is why many people try to make a fabulous wedding party. I personally dont know anyone who is selling her body to earn money for her wedding party but I know some girls who are in debt to pay the big wedding party because they think big wedding party is important in their life. Im not against anyone who wanted to held a bigwedding party, anyway it is up to them what kind of the party they want, but if they cannot afford a big party better they held small wedding party. Having small wedding party doesnt mean the marriage is less sacred than bigger wedding party. The foundation of marriage is not lies on the wedding party but the commitment itself, many people forgot the essential of marriage and focusing more on something like wedding party, gown, etc. I dont know who is the girl so Im not gonna judging her at all because I think there are many factors that led the girl did that foolish thing although her fault took the biggest part because she was the one who make the decision. What I mean by many factors for example is her society...how is her society? does she live in a society where people would look down on her if she doesnt have a big wedding party? If thats the case she should not listen to what people's say about her and her wedding, it is her wedding anyway not other people's wedding. other thing, Im not blaming the guy but dont they have conversation about their wedding plan? why only left it to the girl's responsibility. I think when a couple decide that they will get married they should talk about everything, the party, the budget, the live after marriage.

what the meaning sell xxx?? what is xxx?? i don`t get your point maybe you are too much drinking coffee and you are drunk because of the coffee??

i don't know what is 'xxx', but guess it is something bad, she should not have done for the sake of money, she is foolish i agree thanks for sharing in details

Hi friend, sad to hear about this girls story, really her decision is very foolish and changed her life, her way is very wrong, she can try to earn money in a good way, however past is past, now the girls stage is really very pity

what is xxx?:D Well, I must say - the dumber is the boyfriend. How could he couldn't notice their budget for wedding - and let the girl "did the rest" for that? He should make sure the girl to not worry about anything which it is the obligatory stuff for him . The one who couldn't or just doesn't want to do that is a coward / lazy man, trying to pamper to his woman The man should ask an apologize on his behave that made the girl so desperate and wanted to sell anything just to make their dream comes true. Why the boy didn't seem to feel guilty at all ? anyway, have a wonderful day , Ryanong

yes but we do foolish things from time to time and her only mistake is being too in love to reason well and got herself in that situation, the good thing about this situation is that she got to see the other face of her boyfriend before she committed herself to him. 9 months is a short time and hopefully she will get over that boyfriend who is not worth of her love. All the best to her.

Ryan, it is a very sad story. The girl is too desperate until willing to take such a foolish action. I think by now, the girl should be regret for what she had done since her boyfriend not willing to accept it as well. I think it is always wise to think twice before decide to do anything in our life. Life is too precious to be abandon that way.

Yes really foolish! If she has no enough money to get married, I think it would be more wiseful to tell this to her boyfriend and they can think about how to solve problem together. She don't cherish herself at all.

Yes it was very stupid of her to think about that. A wedding is the most important even in almost all women's life. It's something that's so special they would go through all sorts of things just to have a great wedding to remember by. Some do that to make their friend's jealous. Others just want to be happy on that very special day by spending all of their hard earned money. I guess that girl just wants to have a grand wedding ceremony. Just like most of the brides to be.

It is a big world and there are 7 billion people living on it, it is impossible to know everyone but I am sure that every second there happen such things which will make us sad. I feel pity for the girl but at the same time hate her because she gave up. Then again I think that everyone have their own life and I don't care what others do with their life because no body really cares about the others in this world.

Many of us people take many foolish decisions in our life. Like that it is a utter foolish decision taken by a girl. If she tried at her best she can surely find many other way to get some money for her needs but this is really a very bad way. Such stories or such news tells us the importance of thinking twice or thrice more about a decision which we take in our life. So try to take the best decisions in your life. All the best.

I think she is selfish, she hurt the people. She needs to be serious in life. Now, she needs to face the consequences.

OMG!! That's horrible, i had heard people say crazy things when they are in love, but she did not do that for love, she did that for money for wedding. Money isn't that important, as long as you have your loved one.

uh oh.. i think it is not a desperate move.. rather, it is a very stupid act. Well, there isn't really such a thing as "easy money"....If they wanted to get married, they should have prepared earlier.getting married..is really expensive, but the wedding is just a ceremony.. It could be simple, that she didn't have to do such "idiotic" act.

If a couple wish to get married but they haven't enough money they could have a small and cheap wedding. I watch a television program about saving money and it featured a couple that have spent the four thousand pounds given to them for their wedding. Mrs Money Penny told them to arrange their wedding in three weeks time for just two hundred pounds. They made their own decorations and instead of presents asked the guests to bring food and drink to the wedding reception. The lady was very silly to do that and now she is in a rehabilitation camp alone. I guess their wedding plans are off.

I feel sorry for the girl. I think her intentions are good but the way she did it is not wise enough. She should have consulted it to her boyfriend first before doing something illegal. If she only sell something which is not illegal, then it will be good for her. I hope that boyfriend will marry the girl.

Oh my. Is this true? I think she must be very desperate to have the ideal wedding that she's been dreaming. A luxurious wedding won't work if one did bad thing to the other. A simple wedding would do I think. But, it's already done. We can't do anything about that. I just pity the girl. I think she's having a hard time right now, because of what she did and because her boyfriend isn't gonna marry her anymore. This is really absurd. Tsk tsk. I hope she'll get over with this soon.

I guess the girl wants a memorable wedding especially with someone she loves.