How to get along with your ex-boyfriend?

It's normal to an ex-couple to have different unusual changes after in terms of treating and talking each other. If you recover already your feelings to him so no worries at all. It's a matter of moving on to remove all your worries about your previous relationship. I think you will be enlighten if you read this thread. It's about a conversation with my ex. Go through the thread and you will enjoy. Check this discussion link: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2584244.aspx

Treat him like 'the celebrity you used to have a crush on': you respect him, because he's still a celebrity; you just don't think of him 'that way' anymore.

you need to go along with him as a professional and set aside any personal things that happen with you in the past. t s already over and do not bring t anymore. as he sure remember you but the feeling s gone now. i do nt know about you that you feel awkward. maybe, deep inside you still have feeling to him. so if ever your co 0workr tease you just be calm and relax and tell them there is n any remorse or wishing to get back to each other since he already have a boyfriend. so just tell them you work him because you mention already need for your job.

I think the best way to do is just take it easy. Everyone know that he is your ex mean every one know is pass tense. If you already accept the fact, then you should not take it serious. If you really feel uncomfortable of what others had said, just make it clear to everyone that you r not happy with the way they joke.

It can be very risky if it happened that way because it is very limited what we can do. Especially seeing friends make fun of because of the year that he was ex. Everything went awry. I think the good thing is that you may be able to act as usual, do not deem her ex or something because you're together so long that by the belt by apprentice status, I think it was that there was no awkwardness if anyone would like discussed or ask for help.

just follow ur heart dnt think other bec if others in your situation they follow to their heart

Act neutral and since he is not talking you should not try to be his friend. So in a way, you do not require to get along with him. If you are feeling uncomfortable about those people's comments, just let them know that past is past and you two moved on. So they need to behave maturely by dropping the topic.

hello pinggai...You are going to have a hard time dealing with him if you still haven't move on in your relationship.... This is really unfortunate that you are going to see him every day...and you can't avoid him because of your internship... Your relationship before with him ended bitter isn't?

you both are really in an uncomfortable situation. As long as you can, pretend that you are not affected on that .Just focus on the tasks that are given to you. Ignore the tease of the people around you and if they don't stop, tell them, "past is past".

I know how hard it is for you to be with hom in the same group. It is such an awkward feeling. Don' t show thst you feel that eay. Just be yourself. ignore the teasing of your classmates abd act as if you never care at all.

There is nothing if both of you are in the same team. The past relationship is a close book. Try to be civil towards him, if he ignores you. Leave it that way, at least you've tried.

That was really hard and really an awkward situation but I think you should just think of your internship and if he does not mind you then you should at least stay away from him.You cannot force someone who is your ex to get along that easily.It takes a lot of time.I have an ex also,actually he is the father of my son and we went to the same school.We did not get along until now,he just text me when he wants to see his son.

Frankly to say, I haven't had this kind of experience as yours before. But I can understand the feeling that one have to face someone else who have been kept in the black-list,that is, someone you will never want to meet with once more. The world is very small,sometimes or always. If I were you, I would stop joining in the team and switch to another one, or change to another job. Or if the activity of your team will be ended soon , pls be patient to wait for the ending of the activity.

Fellow your own course and let people talk.Happy is every thing.

You could try to have yourself re-assigned to another group. I think that would be possible if your head is really understanding. But if that's not possible, then you have no choice. As you said, there are twelve people in the group, so I don't think you'd need to mingle with this person nor his girlfriend. Just do your thing and if there are things that both need to discuss about the internship, then just stick with that. Also, do ask your other friends to stop the teasing because it's not helping. You're soon-to-be-professionals, you could get the hang of that. Just focus on your priorities. Let him think what he and his girlfriend wants to think. At least you're guilt-free. Have a great mylot experience ahead!

Its been two years best thing you can do is move on . You just be civil to everyone and no hard feeling thats the best way to move on . Dont be catty about his girlfriend are him . The more people believe you are ok the more you will start believe that you will be ok also . Fake it till you make it .

Well, I have to admit that my ex-boyfriend is actually one of my best friends now. We did go through a period of about nine years where we didn't have any kind of contact with each other at all. However, about a year and a half ago we encountered each other again. What I found was the key to being friends with my ex again was that I needed to put the feelings that I still had for him aside and just work on the friendship that we had with each other that was not a romantic relationship. Doing things this way, I find that he is one of the few people that I can trust the most in the world.

The best thing you should to do is to leave your present internship group and seek another group,you have no choice,or else you will meet awrward and distress everyday and even more worse,it will affect your future life and work,you say you haven't contact with he for two years,but i think two years is still two short to forget a relationship,so you must away from he.

Hmmm, that's one awkward situation for sure. If you guys had a good parting and broke up without any unfinished business the. I guess you just do what's your part in the group and just concentrate on it. It is after all the main reason why you all are there in the first place. As for the readings, just give a small smile and say nothing. People will and can always say whatever they want to say about you but if you remain silent you'll never be misquoted and misunderstood. Just take it all stride and enjoy your group experience with the ret of the 10 members of the group.