Facebooking for neighborhood

@yanzalong (18988)
Indonesia
September 8, 2012 10:31pm CST
I am thinking of creating a facebook group for my neighborhood. My purpose is to make all neighbors know one another at lease each can say hallo via this facebook group. What is your take on this? Is it good or not? Thank you.
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12 responses
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
9 Sep 12
I think this is a good idea, but the ideal is to have real life contact. The virtual community can be used to chat with people you already know in real life, but I think it is not so good to meet people over the Internet. But maybe this way the people who know each other in real life by sight, but didn't ever talked, to find each other, seeing that they have common things and they can transpose this virtual relation into real life. Good luck for your project, I like it when I see people with initiative. Even if you fail, heads up and try again, because you will learn from your failures.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Yes, of course I know them in real life. We often meet once in a month but haven't discussed if it is possible for us all to also communicate via facebook.
• Romania
11 Sep 12
Then it is a very good initiative. You should definitely do it, it is good to have a platform where you can discuss common stuff.
• United States
10 Sep 12
Knowing your purpose is good. But ofcourse control all members of the group so your purpose wont be out.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Sure. Thank for your support. I have not discussed with them yet. Some of them may not agree to the idea, I am afraid.
@much2say (55669)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Sep 12
That is fine - as long as the neighbors are agreeable to it! I didn't make an actual Facebook group, but I did connect to a few of my neighbors as we are families with little ones. The only sticky part was when they would mention things about our manager and building owner . . . we had a great relationship with the manager and I personally knew the owner as he was my friend's husband . . . but I didn't dare tell any of the other tenants that. Once our neighbor had bad cleaning issues and wanted to know how to get contact information of apartment owners as the manager wouldn't give it to her (I stayed out of that conversation). For stuff like that, I wish I wasn't connected to them! Now we newly live in a house, and I mostly like my neighbors. But, I'd like to keep private for now - at this time anyway. I already found a few neighbors on Facebook just by a name search on Facebook, but I didn't want to friend request them - not just yet anyway. I want to make better contact with them personally first and get to know them better because I don't know if want them to know my entire business. A group might be good though . . . because then I could keep in contact with everyone on Facebook yet not feel obligated to "friend" them. If everyone can be courteous, that is . . . if neighborhood cat fights start happening on screen, then I'd want out!
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
I haven't checked if my neigbors have facebook accounts yet. I think I will do it now. I won't be able to find them, though, if they don't use real names.
• United States
9 Sep 12
If all the neighbors are close and friends and have a facebook page it could be a great idea It would be nice to be updated to birthdays, anniversaries, illnesses and special events that are going on in town. You will have to talk to all of them or see if they have a page online and ask them to join. It is worth a try, if it doesn't work you can always remove the group page and try something else at another time. Good luck!
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Thank for your suggestion. I will discuss it when we all meet again.
@Shavkat (139959)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
I think the proposal is fine. It can create to unity with the neigbours.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Thank for your support my friend. I have decided to choose facebook because just everyone knows how to use it.
@masammo (31)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Sep 12
Well yanzal You are absolutely right. but not only for neighborhood, Facebook should have option to arrange contacts in location wise groups, so we can trace a friend/contact easily. also this can be helpful to indicate the contacts with fake addresses.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Yes, I agree with you on that point. I also heard that some facebook users are not real persons.
@alicia812 (646)
• Australia
12 Sep 12
I think that is a good idea. That page can be a medium to disseminate information on neighborhood projects or meetings. Our neighborhood has actually a page like this. It was very helpful in having constant communication with the members of the community. However, I left the same when people started talking bad about the leaders Of the neighborhood association and other people. I just did not like it. The page is suppose to unite neighborhood And not destroy other's reputations.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
9 Sep 12
You are 100% totally free to create this kind of group as long as it is not intended to offend anybody. As long as as well that you won't create any gossips that can make moral damage to other people. This is good idea so that in case you won't see each other personally then at least you are still keeping in touch with other neighbors.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 12
That is what I mean. The idea is actually based on the fact that some of the neighbors are too busy at work and come home very late at night. The second reason is that facebook application is on everyone's mobile phones. Via facebook I hope the relationship is getting stronger and more intimate.
@jjzone44 (917)
• United States
9 Sep 12
Sounds like a great idea, as long as the participants use the forum in a productive manner. This could be an easy way for someone to ask for something they need to a larger audience at once; you never know one neighbor may have something they no longer need, but someone else does. I know in my neighborhood trash collection changes anytime there is a holiday in the week, so it would be a good way to inform everyone in the neighborhood of this change. But it could be used in a negative way as well, and that is the productive thing I was eluding to. You wouldn't want people to start complaining about each other and using it as a sort of sounding board to "gang up" on a particular neighbor. The only thing you can do is try and see what happens.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 12
jjzone44, you are right about it. It's a great media through which information from all neigbors can be obtained. I will probably discuss this with my neighbors. I hope they will agree to what I am thinking of. If many of them give me a leg up on the idea, I will start to create it.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
It is a nice way to connect to each other but I guess it is better to get connected with them personally the fact that it is in the neighborhood. We also created group in Facebook, it is our school class group where in we can be connected with each other especially those who are in far places.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 12
The neighbors are in fact interacting daily but some of them are too busy and away at work. The facebook group is only additional activity through which information about the neighborhood can get across to all.
• Taiwan
9 Sep 12
I think the better way to connect your neighbor is to interactive in person. You can hold a real activity instead of chatting on Facebook.
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 12
Yes you are right but some of them are seldom at home or they leave home for work very early in the morning and come back home very late at night. Because of this, I thought it would be a good idea if they created a facebook group in addition to the real one as you suggested. Thank you.
@masammo (31)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Sep 12
well yanzalong You are absolutely right. But not only for neighborhood, Facebook should have option to arrange contacts in location wise group, so we can trace a friend/contacts easily. also this can be helpful to indicate the contacts with fake addresses