love two guys at the same time..

i avoid the situation like that...it makes dillema for my self

I have never been in this dilemma before and hope will never be! I just want to share the quotes of actor Johnny Depp on this regard. "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second". Cheers!

I'm now totally the same situation with you so i'm interested in this topic. I just don't get why this happened.But i still try to find who is my favourite and to know their strength that more suitable to me. Hope this works for you.Personality counts for me.

This feeling is familiar. love two simultaneously. you just maybe one other but to attract love him. have to choose just one kind. find out what attracts you more to what your feelings are more intense. maybe the right word is not however just like them attract and do not know whom to choose to hope I'm right. However, this is normal and I understand you had a similar situation but I'm just so kind and let them forget them over time. nice den1 thought!

Well I may contradict with lots of people here but I strongly believe that love does not happens just once and only with one person. Well I can totally relate to your situation when you fall in love with two guys/girls at the same time. I was in love with 2 girls at the same time and both were my friends and I was simply not able to understand whom I actually loved. And in such situation if one of the other person gets out of your contact then you are able to actually realise whom you love most. So I would say its absolutely normal to have this feeling of love for two persons at the same time.

yes friend i felt confuse about choosing between two girl because they are sweet to me. but one girl is sweet to me she loves me but she did not respect my friend and the second girl she love me, she is poliety talking to my friends and my parent then i choose second one because she is having respect for everyone. If anybody is not having respect for friend and then he/she is also not having respect for love.

I believe a person can be in love with two people at the same time but deep down a person loves one more than the other. The hard part at times is to figure out who!

I read about a reasonable comment to this situation. If you really love someone, you will not love another. It must be your love is not enough, so that you will fall in love with another one.

I have loved two guys before and the one I choose is the better off one, who are more intelligent and capable, but now I think you must choose the one that care for you and makes you happy because you can't be chasing for love either, the most good one is the one who are rich, intelligent and have care for you, which I know is impossible to me, but that is what i think.

I have never loved two people at the same time, because I think that the word "love" is thrown around far too much, but I have certainly been in the position where I have had to choose between two people without having all that much information about either of them to think about. I am still with the one who I chose, and this was three years ago, and I no longer speak to the other one so I think that I made the right decision there. It is always hard, but you just have to go with your heart and don't be scared to make mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes, and you just have to be able to try and see what is the right thing for you at the time.

Well this has not happen to me.But I guess when you get into these kind of situation simple toss a coin.I know this will not going to solve the problem.but for the little time the coin was in air.you suddenly know what you are hoping for.

This never happened to me before. But, if ever it does or it did, I think I will be choosing the guy who is more heavier in my heart. I would say you are correct, we can't love one guy at the same time. There has to be one that we feel more love than than the other. I'm sure you did the right decision since it is you who feels the love

I don't think you know what real love is. If you find the one and only one you will not have any problem to choose. At this moment I think it's more you are flattered by the fact they like/love you plus you don't have more or stronger feelings for just one of them. No it never happend to me the way you describe it. Also I would not have the feeling I choose the wrong one. I would not choose in such a case and let it be, till the moment I know who I love for real.

When I was reading this, I remembered one of my colleague. She had two boyfriends. According to her story, one is official and the other is a third party. She admits that, it is a bad thing to do. Eventually, she picked the official bf. Now, they are happily married.