In life, I hope to meet positive people..

@meowchie (992)
Philippines
October 6, 2012 8:55am CST
It makes me sad when people instead of encourage in doing something you like and giving you support,they tell you that you won't make it and it is impossible! Without even watching you try it. Get out negative vibes :)) You can't bring me down..lol!
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24 responses
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Oct 12
I don't like to mingle and accompany negative people. They will carry you to the world similar to them. Just like you, I love to join and accompany people who are always positive. If you fly with negative people later on even you are positive you will become negative too. So be careful in meeting people everywhere.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Mar 13
When I found out that those person are negative I keep away from them, I mean won't join of their conversation because I am worried about myself maybe they will influence me
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
People said we really can't avoid them. :S so if it is so, I think i would just have to learn to be braver and dealing with them. Than instead of being influence by them, it's should be me influencing them thanks for sharing =)
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
8 Oct 12
Yes it is hard at times when instead of helping and encouraging you, they will rather make you feel like everything is impossible rather making you see the bright side of things. Yes negative vibes should be eliminated and replaced with positive one. Next time you feel like doing something good for yourself my Dear, go ahead and do it. Never rely on others, especially negative people.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
6 Nov 12
Thanks for selecting my response as the best one. :) I am so grateful!!!
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
you're welcome :) all of you gave me nice and encouraging comments. your's was the most comforting hehe. cheers!
• India
12 Mar 13
I am sure by this time you have met positive people, association with them makes us positive too.Thanks for this discussion.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
Yes thank you. As well as everyone who've comforted and share helpful encouragement made it better for me. :)
• India
14 Oct 12
Hi friend, don't worry about this kind of persons as well as never care their words. Lot of persons are available to encourage us, our true friends always in our side. Be positive and do your work with hope, surely you will achieve a lot in your life. Be positive and get positive results, don't mind about the negative persons. All the best
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
Yes Sir. Dwell in the bright side that in the dark side, that's what I am supposed to do. :) Thanks and you are one on those who had given me great words ;)
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
12 Jan 13
You should never let yourself down by these kinds of people. Just believe in yourself and do the best thing you could do and you will surely expect positive outcome.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
Heya ;) thanks for sharing. haha yes :) we both are hopeful for positive outcomes, especially we know we're good enough and deserves it well. cheers!
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
7 Nov 12
Hi Meowchie! There are really people like that. Some do it verbally, and some you can tell by their actions that you won't make it. Be careful with these people. And don't be discourage. With God on your side, you can make it. There is a saying too, " One cannot put a good man down." Cheer up! God Bless
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
9 Nov 12
Thanks for sharing :) I appreciate all your words of encouragement. I am so glad to learn more of what life has to offer. =) God bless everyone!
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Oct 12
Hi, In nature, opposites has a peculiar relationship, north and south magnetic poles, negative and positive polarity of a direct current, hot and cold, light and darkness, wet and dry. This is mathematically described by Isaac Newton in his third law of motion: for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction and Karl Marx's thesis and antithesis. Almost every entity has its counterpart, or should I say nemesis, exactly opposite but closely related where one cannot exist without the other, an existential impossibility. The arrangement is purely natural to produce the desired result, as in the forward motion of Newtonian universe or Marx's synthesis in political economy. So don't be surprised if you meet exactly the opposite of everything on our way. It only indicates developments and advancement in life, as the old saying goes, "nobody throws a stone at a fruitless mango tree." Always expect to be the object of attraction from exactly the opposite of what you are now.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Awww true.. they wouldn't notice you unless you're productive and would be a treat for them in the future. But honestly, I don't want them to treat me as a treat :( I wanted to help them , whether it's for my success,for them or for the company. I wanted everybody happy, I just hope they see it the way I see it too. Thanks for the reminder, and even for the nature insights. The purpose of one side wouldn't be justified if the other side does not exist at all! :) hehehe =) Smart enough.Have a happy Sunday eve!
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
Yes you can meet positive people if you wanted them. Life is about the choices we made. You can choose the people in your life. If ever you met those people who are so pessimistic, just think of them as a a challenge. You can prove to them that you are definitely right.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Thank you.. They can try to pull me down, but I will surely show them it won't be that easy. yay thanks :) I love challenges, just at times, I am emotional too- I get hurt easily. Thanks for the concern :)
@512771751 (1096)
• China
7 Oct 12
you are quite right. There is a saying that negative emotion can spread quickly. So when we stay with positive persons, we can easily become positive and be full of encourage.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I like that. Healthy environment keeps us productive :( And having negative people around, delays progress for everyone. Thanks for sharing dear. Better days ahead!:)
@riyauro (6421)
• India
6 Oct 12
It is all the time that people try to discourage others. yes i have been through this so many times and I tell you that i have done what i decided in life no matter what others had said about it. now we are opening restaurant and many people saying that it is not gonna work out but know it will be good and people will see it. Never give up and have positive attitude towards everything you do. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Hi dear. Yes true :$ We may wish to have positive healthy environment, but it doesn't always work that way. People may exist to make things harder for me, but glad many are more willing to help me, teach me, encourage me, and will be happy along with me in my success. Thanks for your advice.Well appreciated :*
@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
If I encountered this kind of people, I move away without hesitation. They will surely pull you down. Have a great day!
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Here in the Philippines we call it Crab Mentality. Do you know about that Crab story too? Have a fine Sunday eve too!:)
@romzee (937)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
There's a lot of people like them who have this "talangka" mentality. Instead of supporting you they tend to pull you down. You have the right attitude and for sure you will succeed my friend for any endeavour you try.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Thank you. If only people can focus on their own job, then all of us will be successful for the common goal. But- some are busier to check on other's stuff than their own tables :S Thanks for the words =) Helped a lot!
@baddkabee (115)
• Singapore
7 Oct 12
That's a good attitude meowchie! Always have a positive outlook in life and avoid negative people because they will surely pull you down. Stay focused on your goal in life and always believe in yourself that you will make it no matter what. Positive vibes, always!
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
wow thank you :$ I love encouragements a lot.. Better days ahead! :D Your are very nice :)
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
You don't have to worry about it. Most of us have own opinion. Get up and stand up for your right. I am so sorry that you have encountered people like this but you have to move on and show this person which is the best thing to do. I even hate negative vibes yet sometimes everything happens for a reason.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Everything for a reason yes, whether this negative vibes are ways for me to find out about my strength, it's fine. I just hope they aren't hurtful at all :( Thanks for sharing dear;)
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
That is really an ideal thing to have - to be surrounded with people with a positive view of life. And it isn't impossible to happen since we get to choose who are friends are. But somehow, for some reason, we still end up knowing people who are pessimists. Some may even be a family member. But I think their negative outlook wouldn't affect you if you're confident in yourself. I think those who are affected with the negative vibes the pessimistic people somehow emit are themselves not optimistic enough.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Yes true :$ I don't let them come my way, I just am too emotional. I get hurt but I exert effort on showing them I can do what is impossible in their sight :) Thanks for the words=)
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
6 Oct 12
Don't get upset with such words. Take it as it is indirectly a way of motivating you to reach your goal. If they discourage you by telling like that, you take it as a challenge and feel that at any cost you should make it and work hard and succeed. Nothing is impossible in this world if we are determined to do it and we have will power to work hard till we reach our goal
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Aw that's what I must learn. The motivations in a "not-so-nice" manner! Yay :D thanks for reminding me. happy mylotting..
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
hi meow, You are surrounded by a crab? Don't let people put your down as long as you know you are not hurting anyone live your life the way you want it. happy mylotting
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
thanks dear ;) that's something I should learn. TO be braver in doing what I think I can. hehe it took me few months to respond! ayieeeee miss yah and nice summer outfit there ;)
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 12
yes that good to meet positive people, but here you will find how much they are.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Mar 13
thanks for the comment. so my hope is almost impossible. I just needed to be mature enough they handle things next time I meet them :))
@mae_ais (105)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
hello.. there are a lot of people who does that but don't let them affect you.. use it as a challenge and when you succeed let's see who makes the last laugh..=)
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Yes laugh :$ I don't let them come my way, I am just too emotional, I get hurt easily. That's what I need to overcome. Thanks dear. mwah!:)
• United States
6 Oct 12
In life, it is overly important to make sure that you surround yourself with positive things and people. Because, in life, yoi will encounter many hardships, and sometimes it will be unbearable. If you have a support system of people that constantly cheer you on, or help as much as they can; then what you face won't seem so bad. No one wants to be constantly bashed about how they will never make it in life or amount to anything. Those are the type of people that are going to fall and fast. So steer clear of negative people and negative things. Keep yourself surrounded by positive people, and life will work better in your favor.
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
Thanks. Tell you, you're one of the positive people I'm glad to be around :) I am happy for your concern and support, will surely make me a better person. Happy mylotting =)