Jealous

By ai2x
Philippines
October 20, 2012 4:33am CST
Since when I was still in my elementary years, I always hated somebody who wants to get closer to my friend..I can't resist it...
4 responses
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
21 Oct 12
You must be a very possesive person, especially when it comes to your friends. I think it is not healthy though. Friends are people, not objects...nobody owns them, and we cant claim to really own anyone...and if you love your friend, you have to give that person the freedom to be with other people too, if it makes them happy. I think it should come naturally to you to want your friend to be happy, even if it means he or she will be spending less time with you. You should hiave other friends too. You cannot be stuck with just one person in life anyway. And eventually you will have your own family, responsibilities, etc so eventually, you will have to part ways with your friend and spend less time wi th each other. We need people in our lives, different people, ...thats reality
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@THISISIT (63)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
that's being jealous. You must control it because it is unhealthy to your life and it is a sin that you will be committing. Always bear in mind that you have a friend and it is a blessing, always stay happy.
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@GemmaR (8517)
20 Oct 12
It is hard to see our friends get closer to other people because of the fact that we strongly feel as though they should be our friends and ours alone, but sadly we cannot just keep them to ourselves so it is something that we have to learn to live with. It is a shame that some of us feel so strongly about it, because one of the best ways that we are able to make new friends is by finding other people who share the same interests or mutual friends as is. Try to give this person a chance, because you might be able to be friends with them too.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
20 Oct 12
It is normal, but you need to conceal such feelings. Since it is not healthy, it might to selfishness.