Can girls easily forgives or not...??? huh???
By Tushavi
@Tushavi (2077)
Karachi, Pakistan
October 25, 2012 1:10am CST
hi to all
well, as you already know I'm also in love with a girl, I also say to her, but she is very very angry, I'm kind of allergic to girls but I really loves her, she tells me "Don't talk with me again" or Some very harsh words likes "I Wont forgives you" I want to say sorry but I'm very very scared also, guys & girls you think girls easily forgives you???
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@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
29 Oct 12
For me, I think if a girl pushes you away-means she really doesn't feel something for you..For me, if I like a guy- even if I am angry, I will tame down easily. I won't take it long. Since I like/love him, I will easily forgive because I can't stand to see him being broken too because I don't forgive him yet..
Hmm. you might wanna see how other girls respond on this:)
Happy mylotting!
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@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
26 Oct 12
I think concrete problem need a concrete analysis,it up to the things is small one or a big even huge mistake.But usually girls are more easily to forgive because girls usually are a softhearted than boys.
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@GemmaR (8517)
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25 Oct 12
I think that everybody is different, and some people are able to forgive things that other people do to them. whereas others might struggle to be able to do this. It would also depend on what you had done to upset her, because different things would affect different people in different ways. I know that if my partner cheated on me then there would be no way that I would be able to forgive him for this because if he is supposed to love me then I don't think that there should be any way that he would cheat on me.
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@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
25 Oct 12
If you are supposed to say sorry then you should say it. Scare or not is not an option. If you don't say it, you will lose her. If you say it, you may still have a chance. So it is better that you say sorry to her regardless of whether she is easy to forgive. If you like someone, you have to be strong and bold. Show her what a man you are!
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@toxic_lifestyle (1213)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
Well it depends on the amount of sin being committed. :)
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
Most of the girls are easy to forgives but the problem is when you done something wrong it hard to forget. I think you should let her to be herself for awhile and give her time to think, she might angry right now but if she really loves you sooner or later she will forgives you and talk to you again.
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
30 Oct 12
I can't say without knowing what happened. It's not my business what happened, so I'll just say that it depends on the situation.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Oct 12
Not all girls will respond positively in all the things you want to say her unless she truely love you. If she doesn't have any feeling from you, some of them will got angry. But if you like her so much just be patient and continue courting her.
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
25 Oct 12
Why don't you take your chances and just apologize. That should answer your question one way or the other.
• United States
30 Oct 12
give her a few days then apologize
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
I would Magz. It would really depend on what made your girl angry and how grave it is. It's better if give her time first and then try to talk to her when she calms down. If the girl also loves you, then she will forgive you. I always say that to my bf whenever he does something bad, but then I always forgive him. That's because I love him
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
People got different personalities. So a person reacts to things differently, too. Why is your girlfriend mad at you anyway? If you have done something that have hurt her so much then maybe, you should let a few days pass then go see her again and ask forgiveness.
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
I think they make it a challenge for us men so that we sincerely say sorry. It's their nature.
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
Girls could forgive easily, but sometimes it depends how deep the hurt is too. As for me and hubby when we argued, I tend to fuel the fire but at the end when I'm satisfied with my anger I easily subside and cool down ready to forgive and forget.
But it's not the same with hubby, he would continue his anger the whole day is he's not yet done with his nagging. I can't believe he's a nagger sometimes, this is the only male person I encounter to talks a lot when he's mad at me.
I sometimes cover my ears just not to hear him talking. I hope your issue with your girl friend will end soon and you two will get back with your good relationship.
Thanks for sharing. happy mylotting.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
all girls are different, so i can't say what exactly you should do to make her forgive you. but generally, if a person sees enough effort from the person asking for forgiveness, forgiveness will be granted. but as i've said all girls differ from one another... you are the one who knows her well , you should know what makes her soft and what things she appreciates , and when she sees you exerting a lot of effort just for her to forgive you, she just might let you talk to her again.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
25 Oct 12
Whether a girl can forgive depends a lot on what you have done. In this case, you confessed your love to her. my point of view is that love confession is not something guilty. So you do not really have to apologize to her because it is not the right thing to do. The fact that she act so angry means that she is rejecting you. So she also asked you not to talk to her again in the future. It is just put a stop sign in front of you so that you would give up on her.
Of course, it is totally your choice if you want to listen to what she said and stop dreaming of her, or you want to change the way you appear to be, to the type of man she likes in order to make her fall for you through various means.
@Magz1989 (271)
• Philippines
25 Oct 12
It depends on how grave the sin you have done. Remember we girls are kind and easy to forgive but we can't forget. So, just try to say sorry and promise that you will not do that again if she forgives. Just don't do it again....