Everything has its reasons so don't get easily upset.

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Most of the time, when things don't go our way or if another person didn't do as we thought they would, we get angry, upset or frustrated. We always want to be in control. We have expectations on things and people and when an expectation is not met, our moods change and we become temperament. It could be small things like someone cuts you in the line to the next bus and you're almost late for work... things can really test our attitude and character. We don't realize that, "yeah, it is nothing but a test". We may not always know and understand the reason behind why things happen but there is always a reason. The thing is, we only have to always keep ourselves composed and self-controlled in order to show a good attitude toward a situation or a person. We always have to remind ourselves that the world isn't just about us. Isn't just about what happens to us. Isn't just about "I am almost late and I need to get into the bus first..." There are thousands more people around you at a given time who are also sharing the world with you and you can't be in control of what they decide on each second. They'll probably step on your foot, bump you as you walk through the crowd, steal from you, lie to you...a lot of things can be done to you to your surprise. Of course, these things aren't really nice and truly, you have all the reasons to be upset. But, it's not always about how you feel at the moment. Like what they said, life is the complete recipe. And in a recipe there's but many ingredients. Some ingredients don't taste as nice as the rest of the others if tasted separately. But, once mixed with all the rest of the other ingredients and the dish is done, you'll sure to appreciate it. Most of the time, we don't even ask what ingredients are in a dish, we just enjoy it. Similarly, we need not know why things have to happen. We just need to appreciate life without treating circumstances and situations separately. Life is really nothing but a roller coaster ride. It's really the way we view things that can make a difference. Agree or not?