"we should learn how to use money not people"

It would indeed be a wonderful world if learned to use money and love people instead of the other way around. Most people love money and use people. sad

prashu It is not only sufficient for one to learnt to earn money. We must learn how to use it properly. if we are not alert there may be people who will take away all our money and when we really are in need of it we may not get it back. Supposing one earns Rs.100 he must learn to live within 70 and save the balance Rs.30. common people spend Rs.130 when they earn Rs.100-- result they borrow at higher interest-- I heard some people borrow at 12% interest per month--it will work out to 144% per year. such loans can never be repaid.

People who uses people to get what they want in life have no conscience . Because if they have it , they will not do that .

Hi friend, i agree, we don';t have any rights to play in other persons life, even though they are our beloved persons or spouse. Each and every one is having their own rights, no one have the rights to dominate other persons and use them for their needs. We must give equal importance to other persons.

I agree my friend. It should be the money not taking advantage of other people. That's not a good karma if they do bad things to other people. Good day!

If!Life without distinction between rich and poor,naturally there will be no use,there are people who want to use people.

People can be so calculating and see others as pawns to reach their goal, they care not one iota about anyone, they are self-centred, selfish and quite frankly users, and will step on anyone who gets in their way. That sounds like my ex, I am sure I was only with them for what I could give, my partner couldn't drive, so it was left to me to drive them everywhere, even if it meant getting out into the cold night and picking them up from the station, where they refused to pay money for a cab when they could phone me up, get me out of bed and have me pick them up for free!

For years I watched someone use people; especially men.. This person would find a man; got what ever she wanted, and then once there was nothing left.. Throw them to the crub like they were a piece of trash.. This person still does it; uses people until they have nothing left, and loves to see her family in pain.. This was a prime example growing up what not to do.. In the end this person lives a very lonely life.. I do not feel sorry for this person; she did it herself... I do not use people; at least not intellically.. I use to do everything I could to help everyone.. This got me into much trouble.. I would over extent myself and have nothing left. I assumed others would help me in return.. Well I do not allow myself to get in so deep that I can not take care of my boys.. Its still hard for me to turn someone away that is in need.. I am still working on that.. I love helping someone.. I do not do it to recieve anything.. I love the feeling that I recieve when the I am able to do something to help another

good day to you, what you have posted is really true. and to add up some more, perhaps, it is really best to give respect to others, in this way, we can easily realize that it is not proper to grow and succeed if we will gonna use other people to get it. it is ideal not to step on other's foot just to achieve what we want. thus, a sweet success is nicely achieve if we really work hard for it.

You are right we should learn how to use the money because I notice most of the persons are spend money for unnecessary things like in liquor, mobile, and most the things for show off.

People are human beings and they should be treated as such. No one should be used. That isn't the way life should be. There are many people who do that to get what they want but it is a bad way of life that will come back to bite them in the end one day. Money on the other hand can be used but only for the needs one has. Some people use money to get things too and it is worked in a way that is similar to using people. This is also a bad way to associate with others. Be yourself and do what you feel is right and proper. Don't let other influence your way of thinking and lifestyle. It is hard because everyone is difference and views things differently. Bottom line, be nice to everyone or don't associate with them if you don't care for their manner of life. Be yourself and be true to who you are.

Well said, why do so many people use us? I have been used so many times in life. its not a great feeling. Great post. Take care.

That is absolutely right. I think using people for their own good is really bad. Humans are not materials rather humans have hearts capable of being hurt. Truly, there are people who use people. It is kind of sad. I hope one day, these people will be corrected and realize they are wrong. God Bless

Sometimes it is necessary to use people in order to get money the question here is to what extent are we going to stretch the ethical boundaries of our actions. In short we have to live with ourselves ,with the decisions we have made in order to acquire what we have.

I can see how some people would use others just to achieve a certain goal. And I pity those being used. We could ask help from others but not to the extent of using the person for some person interest.

Its really terrible stuff to be used by others and also use other people roughly.We should be aware about our circumstances.There will be many people who are always staying ready to take the advantages of your weak point.So,just try to be perfect,though it will be quite tough for us to be so.Don't make your life according to others idea.wishing all best of luck at last.

Absolutely , it is must to know how to use money and if not you have to suffer a lot in your life. Many examples in this world where you could have watched people who had been destroyed by not knowing how to use money

Life is precious and each of us plays an important role in others life. We people can do anything to them and it depends on you and your way but remember that it is your friend or your parents who loves you and who keeps faith on you and make sure that don't break those faith and love for simple reason.

hi prashu!! :) I'd say you're right! Of course, its better to use money (especially if you have it :) ) instead of people. I mean, people have feelings and it would bring you bad karma if you would use people in order to get to the top. With money, its ok if you loose it but with people, no matter how much you reconcile to bring the people back to your life, it would just lead to rejection.

I agree, people tend to use people for their own benefits. We should learn to respect others lives as well,their integrity, possessions and principles. People are so engrossed with prosperity that they don't mind stepping down someones life.