What do you do if you have this type of friends?

hi AkamaruKei, since you already not treating him as your friend as before, the only thing left is to get back your money from him which he borrowed from you earlier. in your case, i believe he has the money to pay you back but he is much more willing to continue to spend on his girlfriend rather than to pay you back. i suggest you to find a time to confront him and ask for the money he owed you. and i would also suggest that you do it in the presence of his girlfriend (when your friend is together with his girlfriend). because of a man's ego, i think the chances of getting back your money would be higher at that time.

first, collect your money back by any mean possible (if it's consider big money) then say bye-bye; there are billions of people in this world and for sure you can just kick out that kind of friends.

Sadly, there are people who get so madly in love that they forget to have a life outside the relationship with their partner. I would say I am also guilty of that. when my husband became my boyfriend in College, there was never a day that we weren't together. He would even come over to our house on Sundays so we could go to church together with my family. I didn't ask him to but he just wanted to be with me I guess. While our relationship was getting stronger, I have sort of abandoned my friends. I never had time with my high school friends. All of them would have time to be together on certain weekends coz all of us went to different schools after high school. Well, yes, now looking back, I hope I would have a lot of time being with them, too coz now that i am married, I seem to have lesser chance to be with them . And even though i tell them that i want to be with them most especially if they need a shoulder to cry on, I just couldn't. I think, you just need to remind your friend that you are still there for him but wished that he could spend time with you, too coz you miss the good old times you had together.

I think friends like that are awful and annoying. I have a brother in law who acts that way. When he has a girlfriend he doesn't come to family gatherings or hang out with his brothers. And he is often times borrowing money from family so he only comes around when he needs money. When he doesn't have a girlfriend he's always with his brother. But when he has a girlfriend he disappears. I hope that your friend pays you back.

I think he is not a real friend to begin with.That kind of person only takes advantage on you, he doesn't count you as his real friend. He just uses you for his needs and don't let him do that things to you anymore. It will only lead you in trouble.

first of all if he is your friend means that you like something in him, if i had a like yours i will try teach him nice lesson and get him back to my friends list.every friend is important man don't lose friends.

Seriously does that constitute a friend? Ask yourself what a friend means to you and does this guy match up to your expectations? Sounds like he doesn't. To me he sounds like a grade one user and I wouldn't bother with him. Life is too short, be around people who value your friendship not see you as a convenience.

Just choose another friend. A friend who is good for you and also trusted at times. If you have a bad friend, you will be affected sometimes. I have experience lending money but he or she will get back something in the future. Just do not good back to your old bad friend.

I dont think he really forget you , he just want to spend time with the woman he love , we just have to accept that our friends may have a personal love life that dont include us at times . If I have a friend like that that borrow my money and never pay me back why not say something to him . I think you should sit your friend down and talk to him , let him know how you feel and how he has been acting whenever he has a girl . If you feel your friend is not a good friend get another friend .

That is just his hormones taking control over his physical body and i doubt he can help himself. He is either very much in love with the girl or completely infatuated ,no room for much else ..Don't know about you but i know what it feels like many years ago. But at least i was able to have a balance although difficult ,between regular friends and girlfriend whom i eventually married. People have been known to do a lot of silly and extreme things coz of love, maybe your friend will come around after some time or maybe he will get deeper into the love trance, don't hate him for it, just an occasion reminder to him not to neglect his friends or even family in the pursuit of the endorphin enhancing feeling called love.

This is the type of friend who would just take advantage of your generosity. I would stay away from such people if I were you. You don't have to be friends with people who would only be with you when they don't have anybody else to be with.

It always happen with friend of friends whenever your guy has a girl friend he now had to give her more attention than you ... If you don't like the way things are going between you and him... Just try and talk to him.

I did know someone like that too but I stopped being friends with them. With friends like that you don't need enemies!

Well, it seems that you're friend is so in love with his girl. Actually, it's kind of annoying but I will still hangout with him but slowly drift apart from him or isolate him in order for him to get the message and feel the same thing that I'm feeling about him. If he;s a good friend when he does not have a gf, i will talk to him nicely and tell him what i feel to save our friendship.

I don't know much about your friend, but basing from what you wrote here, he seems to be a user. He only remember you when he needs something and after that forget your relationship. Well, I think you should be thankful on the other hand. You have all the reason to forget that friend, he is not worth a friend.

Not only your friend, all guys around us are like that. If they found a girl friend they will forgot us. If they are in some trouble they will ask help to us. We can't change such characters. Just be a good friend for him.

If I were with you, I would start distancing myself from him and I would hang out with some other friends instead. But I will remind him of the money he borrowed from me. A debt is a debt, no matter who borrowed from whom, and it must be paid back, unless of course I am already so rich that I can ignore the money I lent him. I will give him the space he needs long enough for him to realize that he's being a bad friend. But if he will not snap out of it, then I guess I will be far off better being friends with other people who know the real meaning of friendship.

Some people are like the attitude of your friend. I guess, he doesn't know how to balance his life having a relationship. You just need to understand him, it is an attitude.

never mind brother ..just find another friend . still a lot of good friend in other places . guy like that for sure if you need only to contact us .. i also have a friend like that,but let it be known just enough ... keep spirit brother ...hehehehe

Well, here is the answer. A friend in deed is a friend indeed. So, you are being a good friend. However, at the same time, if your friend thinks of you only when he needs your help, then he is no friend. So, basically he is not a friend. Forget him. If he does ask for help, do what you can but dont give something that you know will not come back to you, like money.