finally i move on
@soulsearcher109 (44)
Philippines
November 19, 2012 9:06am CST
just this morning my ex boyfriend called me, so weird as i didnt feel the excitement anymore, and our conversation last about 30 minutes...nothing excitement...i didnt even miss his voice...well i know i able to accept reality now that between me and him will never work out...i guess the pain and hurt drain all nmy love for him...im thankful i able to accept it positively....
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@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 12
it's better if we release a painful relationship. there's no advantages at all but makibg us feeling hurt day by day. i ever had this kind of relationship. i started to feel that our relationship wouldnt work when our relationship had been a year. i thought that he was not a right man for me. i loved him so.much but there's something in him which i didnt like. our relationship turned as a battle yard for us so i decided to end it. i was so sad and i almost asked him to come back. but i was still able to think clearly so, just like you, i chose to move on and overcame my brokenheart. why should we hold pn a relation which doesnt give us peace? it is not worth holding it anylonger. im happy now cos my decision at that time is true. now i find someone who emeges peace in my heart. our relationship has been 7 years and i hope it will last forever..
good luck to you..:)
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 12
it's good decision dear. and be sure that you will find someone else better than your spouse today. keep moving on and open your mind. Celine Dion said that love comes to those who believd it. lol.
@soulsearcher109 (44)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
that is what really happen in our relationship after 1 year i finally see clearly that this relationship is not going anywhere so i decide to stop even it hurts alot...yet i move on...no more pain anymore...
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
19 Nov 12
It's always good when you can see that a relationship is over and deal with it gracefully! Believe me the pain will go away and you will find someone to love and who loves you. Good luck!
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
20 Nov 12
Congratulations! I am very happy for you that you have arrived at this place and the pain and hurt are finally behind you. Now you get on with living your life and find someone new who is worth it and will have your best interest at heart.
@passion4fassion (996)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
dont think to much just have a nice day and always smile
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 12
You are training to make your heart to be strong as steel. You have to do this so that you can stand with the pace of this challenging world. Heart broken is nothing if you have positive thinking and look at it as a chance for you to get a replacement for a better one and better love. So, why must cry for a better chance? After all, you have close your mind and eyes for better person that you deserve all the while when you in love with him. So, now is the time for you to grab all the best for yourself.
Just remember that life must go on. What ever happen, you are not alone cause you still have friends and family around you. Make yourself busy and get to social, sure you will have nothing to think about the loss love. After all, it's no point to think or remember something bad about our past. You should spare your brain to think of something good and your future.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 12
It is good to hear that you are so conscious, smart and strong in making a decision.
This is the problem among most of people. They will start regret only when he or she misses someone.
If both of you can recover the good relationship, I do worry he will repeat the same mistake to hurt you again and again. You must make sure that he is sincere to beg for your forgiveness when both of you really want to start all over again.
However, I do hope both of you can still be friends after your breaking up.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
19 Nov 12
wow its good because after 30 minutes you have made up your mind and decided to move way,its a great decision,leave the past behind you always
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
19 Nov 12
Its great that you are moving on with your life. I hope you find that special love there.
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
Moving on is not easy as hanging up a phone call, it really takes time to heal wounded hearts and to forget the memories you had shared with your ex. It's a tough time for people to get over with someone you love. But the reason why people let go, is that they want to move forward, start all over, and just don't live with the past. I commend you for having him free.
It's in a way letting yourself explore another part of your life, a new beginning. just smile and let him and you be happy for what decisions you've made. and in the long run, it will remain that you had learned something from him as that the learns something from you.
@euridicy1984 (70)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
Congratulations.
Actually, being single is not that bad. It means more time to love yourself and rekindle your relationship to the people who treasures you most...your family and friends.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
hi soul,
Moving on is not easy but I am glad you did we cannot say who will be there for us until the end it's just there are people who are not meant to be who knows there is someone who is really for you.
welcome to mylot
keep on posting
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
19 Nov 12
Glad to hear you already moved on. I know how it feels to have a broken heart, the pain after the break up and sometimes there is aftermath. Life must goes after all anyway. Now, you can move on to a better you. Be Happy!