I am a 'thinker' & can not shut down my brain at night, does that happen to you?

@bizness (866)
United States
December 1, 2012 11:04pm CST
Oh my goodness! This sometimes drives my absolutely crazy! I can be soooo tired, lie down and a few minutes later, bam!, wide awake! No matter what I do, I can not shut down my brain! I'm either thinking about what transpired during the day, what I need to do tomorrow, my next project, or just some useless nothing! Anyone else have this issue? And what do you do to help?
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14 responses
3 Dec 12
Yes! This used to happen to me all the time. Then I discovered a cure - reading! Take a book to bed and have a little read - you'll still be thinking of things but it'll be the book and it'll send you either into a dream or just tire you out enough to sleep. It'll relax you because it takes your mind off the days before and ahead. Escapism as they say. It certainly works for me.
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
I used to read and you are right, it does work. I just don't seem to have the time or energy, but I guess if I made that few minutes after I get into bed 'me time ' so-to-speak, I could read, maybe tire enough to sleep and it would help with everything else. I will try!
6 Dec 12
Let me know how it goes - to be honest I've not been giving enough time to read myself recently, I'm going to try and fix that too!
@CarlHalling (3617)
• United Kingdom
2 Dec 12
Trouble sleeping? - No this fellow, actually crh a few years ago, is just lying back on his bed, having his photo taken.
I can remember this happening to me when I was younger if I'm not mistaken, sometimes my thoughts would be running like crazy through my head, and I'd have to get up and write them down. These days, I tend to be more bothered at night by deep and vivid dreams and nightmares. However, if I'm disturbed...perhaps by a dream...or some noise...then it can be hard for me to get back to sleep, and I'll just like there thinking. Often I'll just get up and do some work, until such a time as I am exhausted. Then I'll lie down and try and sleep...even then it can take me a whileto enter a truly deep sleep.
• United Kingdom
2 Dec 12
Thank you...:) Yes, a tablet would be a good idea.
@bizness (866)
• United States
2 Dec 12
I am so sorry you are having such issues with sleep! I don't have many dreams and hardly ever a nightmare. I am going to start leaving a tablet by my bed to write in. Think that might help. Here's hoping you get a good night's sleep!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
many people ccan be like this, especially if you are the type that would usually think of a lot of things, and if you do think - is it about new ideas, or was it to worry about something?
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
@ chiyosan - yes it is both! I am constantly thinking about new ideas, ways to improve my work, my life, then it's stress, worry over money, deadlines, problems...jeez!!!! @ StLouisMetroTutoring - All I can say is 'ditto'! What is Mindfulness?
• St. Peters, Missouri
2 Dec 12
Both! I think about the list of things I need to do the next day (this is pointless), things that went wrong during the day that I wish I could do differently (what a waste this is!!), how to approach different problems I'm having at work (this needs to be done, but probably not when I should be asleep), and a host of other random, stupid, pointless stuff. When I practice Mindfulness, I don't have these problems anymore. But, unfortunately, I haven't practiced in a long time.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
Problems is one of the reason why people can't sleep easily. Whether it is work related or family problem. Or maybe if you are excited with something, like vacation or meeting a long lost friend can be a reason for having sleepless nights.
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
Ditto! I think I fall under each of these! The thing is, at some point we have to 'shut down' if but for just a little while.
@stk40m (1119)
• Koeln, Germany
4 Dec 12
that's a very common issue I guess. Our brains never shut down really. Even when we sleep it is active and you think or rather dream. You dream every night, you just don't remember all of your dreams. Sometimes my brain feels empty though. Then I'm staring holes into the air and I think of nothing. I can't say that's a very nice feeling but sometimes it can be relieving after hours and hours and hours of mental work.
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
Wow! I sometimes wish I could just 'zone' out and not think, even if for just a few minutes! I guess this comes with a busy lifestyle. I know I need to make some changes because lack of sleep leads to health issues.
2 Dec 12
Absolutely. However, this is one of the reasons I like working at home, so that I can take advantage of inspiration whenever it strikes instead of trying to suppress it. But if it's presenting a problem or a certain schedule has to be kept, I find that evening exercise, housework, or other physically draining activity to tire myself out can get my body to shut down against the mind's protests.
2 Dec 12
When things get really bad, I usually grab a benedryl and wait for the effects to kick in. When it's not too bad, I grab a really dense book and start reading through it. It makes my brain think hard enough that it burns the excess off, and I can sleep in 30-40 min.
@bizness (866)
• United States
2 Dec 12
@kristinarae - I work alot from home as well. I agree with taking advantage of the 'inspiration' when it strikes, but my problem is I am an 'idea' person, always creating, coming up with new things, etc., so it makes it more difficult. Just when I think I can sleep, something else comes into mind. @katthevamp - I have used Nyquil before to help me sleep, it works pretty good. Now I have started reading again and that seems to help too. But it's just so hard sometimes to get control of the thoughts and say "NO MORE!"
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
Hey we have the same problem. Every night I can't stop thinking about so many things especially the things that has happened during the day and the things I am going to do the next day and that becomes my problem when I already want to sleep. I'm thinking too much every night. I think that's because I got a new job which makes me excited and nervous whenever I think about it. There are so many things happeneing to me everyday at work which I think about when I go to bed and I'm too nervous for the next day that's why i cannot sleep.
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
I guess we are all members of the same club!
• United States
2 Dec 12
All the time. Some people are just wound tight like this and have an very overactive brain. It takes a lot to get them relaxed. One other issue that causes insomnia like this is a thyroid problem. It can be over or under active and can have similar symptoms depending upon a persons chemistry. It couldn't hurt to get it checked out to see if that is causing your sleepless nights. I had that problem and found out it was my thyroid. But after 5 years of taking a low dose medication which fixed the sleep issue I developed other thyroid problems and had to have it removed. Now, even though I have to take a little pill for the rest of my life to substitute the fact that I no longer have a thyroid I now have insomnia really bad and there isn't a fix for it. I can be up for 18 hrs or 2 days and then crash for 16 plus hours and start the cycle all over again. This is rare and doesn't usually happen to too many people. You could also try working out later in the day to wear your body down. Then you might fall asleep faster due to exhausted muscles and sleep well. Take a very warm shower and lie down with a timer to some soft music. That can relax you and get you to sleep too. Talk about you day with your partner, sibling or parents to get your day off your chest so that you will have hashed over everything on your mind so it might be clear by bedtime.
@bizness (866)
• United States
2 Dec 12
First HELLO cookingismypassion! Haven't seen you in a while! Thanks for the great advice! I think the shower combined with the music is a great idea! Plus I hadn't thought about the talk before bedtime, that might do everyone in my household good. Thanks!
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
It happens to my boyfriend most of the time. He always told me that he used to think a lot of things when he's bored and get so much hungry because of it. :)
@bizness (866)
• United States
2 Dec 12
lol! I don't think I've gotten hungry because of it but I can see how that could happen. Mine isn't from boredom though, just overthinking everything.
@Shavkat (139400)
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
If I do this, I am in the spell of stress. But I used to count and relaxed to sleep right away. I don't want to think much.
@bizness (866)
• United States
2 Dec 12
Yes, some of it is due to stress for me as well. I've tried counting. It has worked a time or two. Thanks for sharing.
• Indonesia
2 Dec 12
Going to bed at the same time every night helps. Also, try to think about something you like, a goal or dream, and how you want to accomplish it. Try to be in control over what you are thinking about. Slowing down your thoughts with music may helps as well. Your body likes to do the same thing, a pattern, rhythm, whatever you want to call it. So, a routine helps your mind to calm down.
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
You are probably right however, with my schedule it's hard to have any kind of routine, in fact, I would love it if I could do so! It would be so nice to have an idea of when I could shut it all down, but unfortunately it doesn't work that way.
• St. Peters, Missouri
2 Dec 12
Yes, yes, yes! This happens to me all the time. It's not unnusual for me to try to start going to sleep around 10PM, not be able to sleep and keep trying, on and off, until 5 or 6 in the morning. If I have to work in the morning, I just lost a full night's sleep. I used to keep a tablet by my bed. When I began to think of things, I would write them down. It was like once I wrote them down my brain to need to remember them anymore. It actually worked! Why don't I do that anymore??!! I'll have to try it. Maybe I'll get some sleep tonight.
@bizness (866)
• United States
2 Dec 12
Hey! That's a great idea! I think I will try that! I'll let you know how it works! Make sure you friend me so I can reply!Thanks!
2 Dec 12
Same here! It's both a curse and a blessing. On the good side, I tend to get the best ideas at that time. Peace, quite, alone. The creative part of my brain gets that rush where I have to take down notes on whatever good stuff I come up with. But on the bad side, whenever I am anxious, depressed, scared, angry, my brain just thinks endlessly, that it drives me nuts I just wanna scream. Worst part is, I tend to sleep so late because of that. As of the moment my remedy for that, which kinda works for me, is working out in the day - jogging, weight lifting till i drop. Then take a bath 2-3 hours before sleeping. Then drinking hot milk. and finally, lie down, relax and read a book, or do research on random stuff, or any other not so interesting things. And, in time my eyes just get heavy I take advantage of that. So far, it's going good, though I still have that fear that maybe i'll suffer from it again and affect my now good sleeping pattern.
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
Well first I am so happy for you that you've found a solution!! I haven't gotten there yet. I am like you, I have a very creative side and I have ideas, and brain storm a lot. I just hate it when I'm ready for bed, my eyes are heavy, my day is mostly done, I lie down and 5 minutes into it I'm wide awake! So frustrating!!
3 Dec 12
it happens to me all the time. sometimes when i try to sleep, even though im so tired of doing the house hold chores later on i will end up thinking about my future, what will i be after 5 years, what will i wake up tomorrow and all that stuff. well my advice to you is, clear your mind, relax, and try not to think about anything. its better if you will be in a comfortable position in sleeping coz it will help too. hope this will help you..:)
@bizness (866)
• United States
6 Dec 12
Thank you so much for sharing and the advice! I will give it a try.