MArriage

well, marriage is a lifetime commitment, but being single is a total fulfillment of happiness. why? becuase once you got married you do now have limitations of everything. first, you are now limited on wherever you want to invest your money, of course you will spend more money on your children and family, whereas if you are single, you will spend your money on yourself only. you will pamper yourself, in short. second, your time and attention will be with your partner and your children, whereas if you are single, you will have your full attention to yourself only. third, marriage brings lots of violence in the family; couples often fight for different and unnecessary reasons, which leads to separation, and children will be in trouble; whereas if you are single, you are free from any trouble. so stay single and celibate.

The right age for marriage depends on the maturity of those involved.

I married at 18 and divorced at 29 so I tend to feel that marrying at a young age is less likely to succeed. Loving is not enough, we have to wait until our personalities have been given a chance to mature. If we marry young we may find outselves and our partner quite different ten years later. We may still love them but living with the person the spouse has become may may no longer be the pleasure it was when we were very young. Personally I think 23 is a good age to marry, plenty of time to enjoy one another before starting a family and the maturity to know what you are getting into. If friend is under pressure to marry then this sounds like alarm bells ringing to my ears. Why not wait a little longer? If he/she is forced into marriage then they have given up the right to make an important decision about what they want to do with their lives, and when they want to do it. If they feel forced then they should definitely say 'no'.

Marriage is a decision which requires not only emotional but also physical and spiritual readiness. A couple will know this once they'll be able to talk this over and agree when to get married. There are so many things to consider. Besides, nowadays, annulment and divorce are very common so they need to be sure in making such commitment.

i think if you are both mature meaning adult enough for marriage its time to think of the next question,can you sustain each other,meaning can you afford a life together,paying your bills and have money to do what is expected of as a married couple.then you have to be sure your love can pass the test of endurance.have you gone through quarrels and seen you can sail through rough patches together? if you can answer yes to all this and are sure this is the person you want to spend the rest of your time with then you can make the bold step and move towards marriage.

I think at the age of 25 was a good age to be married.

how can nay one guarantee a successful married life if you marry late, no one ever can. Marriage is a game of risk, take it or leave it but risk will be there forever. I think marriage is ok at any age when you feel some one close to your heart, It does not have any relation with age. Who know that other one will be alive till your career developing or such other excuses for late marriage. So if you are in love go get married or some one else will take your bride.

Marriage comes with commitment and responsibilities. Love and marriage do have a different scenario altogether. I do know a couple who married at the age of 15 (girl) and 17 (boy) and now they have two kids - one son and one daughter. Their marriage life still going on strong after 11 years. So it all depends on the family support, the strength of the love and their maturity in handling situations that arises. Marriage is not a bed full of roses, it is better if both are ready and financially stable too.

Hi friend, marriage is a turning point in our life, it is not like a child's play. We must get maturity as well as have the ability to face challenges and responsibilities before getting marriage, if you are ready for this, then you can get married at any time. By the way, i am married and living with my wife and kids

if you are ready to take responsibility for the marriage, then you can get married. It is not about the age. I can understand when peole in love and they want to stay all day long with each other and begin to think about marriage. Yes, marriage is a way to bring you two together but once marriage, you have burden on you shoulder. If you are able to bear it, then go ahead. have a nice day.