Everyone don't celebrate Christmas
By justhere
@justhere (229)
United States
December 11, 2012 11:56am CST
I just want to say, some people think everyone celebrate Christmas. But that is not true. There are some people that don't celebrate anything around this time of year. I know there are different types of celebrations going on in different religions. But there are some people that don't celebrate any at all. Yet instill people wishes them a happy Christmas or a Merry Christmas. Why don't people just say have a nice day, or have a Merry day. I think that would be most appropriate to all people at all times.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
11 Dec 12
Really?Are people serious? They're words. We;re not going to die over some holiday greetings. Yah know? I'm not Jewish, but if someone tells me Happy Hanukkah I will smile politely and wish them the same. I just don't understand the big deal. There is much worse going on in this world to fuss over something so small.
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@justhere (229)
• United States
12 Dec 12
I don't think that people are raining on happy moments, someone that celebrate Hanukkah will not tell you Happy Hanukkah if they don't know if you celebrate it or not. But they can tell if you do just by looking at you. That is how tuned-in they are to their ways and know the people in their religion.
@robspeakman (1700)
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11 Dec 12
We know!
Like we all don't observe Ramadan Fasting or Dewali.
Let us have OUR day..... OK?
Plus they don't like it when us Atheists open our Christmas presents
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@justhere (229)
• United States
11 Dec 12
I'm not barking on your day as you call it. It might be my day too. I am just stating that people should observe other people and give them respect, you don't know if I celebrate Christmas or not and you just jumped all over this as if I don't. I'm not going to tell you if I do. But people should take in respect about all and be generic about some things and not to force their ways or days on others not knowing what they do or not.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
17 Dec 12
hi justhere,
i think your title Everyone don't celebrate Christmas should beNot everyone celebrate Christmas, agree? at first, when reading the title before reading through your discussion, i thought you were asking every not to celebrate christmas.
actually, you are right because there are people who don't celebrate any at all. like me, i'm a chinese by race, a christian by belief, and a traditional person by thought. but i don't celebrate chinese new year, nor christmas, nor birthday.
@justhere (229)
• United States
17 Dec 12
I have cousins that are Jehovah Witness and they don't celebrate all these holidays either. They have friendship parties instead for their birthdays, they just have fun no presents involved.
You are right about the title. But that caught a lot of people eyes.
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@victorywp (3524)
• United States
18 Dec 12
hi justhere,
i'm not a jehovah witness but i know who they are and understand their belief. in certain countries, jehovah witness is a banned religion because suspected as a cult. i remember in some countries, every citizen is compulsory to join the military service (except for special cases, such as physical or mental disorders or religious beliefs). but in certain countries, physical or mental disorders were acceptable as a reason but not religious beliefs. that was the reason that jehovah witness was being banned in these countries because it was against the ruling of that particular country.
yeah, because it's your title that caught my attention too.
@lacieice (2060)
• United States
11 Dec 12
In an ideal world, we would act that way all the time. Unfortunately, this is not an ideal world. As far as wishing people Merry Christmas, how can we tell if someone would be offended by this? Do those who don't celebrate this holiday look different? Do they wear a sign that tells us they don't celebrate this holiday?
Generally speaking, the majority of people celebrate Christmas. To NOT wish someone Merry Christmas would be wrong in your way of thinking.
I get offended by small groups of people trying to tell others how to act and what to do and what they can say. If you don't like it, just ignore it.
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
12 Dec 12
"I am offended by those who try to push their beliefs on to others. This United States was founded on the principal of religious freedom, and that gives me the right to say merry Christmas, Happy easter, and whatever other greeting I choose."
That is the whole point YOU are forcing YOUR religious belief on other people who have the right to not hear this very offensive greeting. To those who do not believe in this very religious holiday. The same principal says you have no right to push your belief on those of us who do not keep this day or season. Your rights stop where mine begin. A more generic greeting is much more respectful but you are being selfish and rebellious.
@justhere (229)
• United States
11 Dec 12
I don't get offended by small groups of people. Lot of people have small minds and don't think of the fellow man and only themselves. That's what's wrong with the world today. When people hear the truth they want to run from it and get all ups set and say funny things to upset the next person because they don't understand the world as it is today.
A lot of people celebrate Christmas all over the world, but that is not the majority of the world. To be in-tuned with the world and what is around you a person should just wish another a happy day, if they truly mean it. Kept celebrations within their own circles.
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
12 Dec 12
The Constitution's freedom of religion clause is not the influencing factor for stores to have policies against wishing a specific holiday greeting. That is a corporate matter, because they realize that those groups you have never heard of are paying customers who keep their store running. If they annoy them by wishing them Christian holiday greetings, they risk isolating them. Remember Chick-fil-A? Of course, corporations can sponsor religious institutions and follow their "ethics", but their customers might take their business elsewhere.
For the most part, I don't find too many people to be offended by being greeted with "Merry Christmas" unless they have children. The American obsession with Christmas gifts teaches kids to expect a pile of presents on Christmas morning that their parents can't afford and might not think is appropriate. Blasting them with Christmas reminders can make those kids feel left out that they are not celebrating this holiday.
lacieice, I haven't checked out where you live, but I know that where I live, most of the people I know don't celebrate Christmas. They wish me a merry Christmas since they know that I have a Christian background, and I wish them specific holiday greetings for their special occasions.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
12 Dec 12
They don't celebrate Christmas here. This is a Buddhist country
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
11 Dec 12
Then I would say; 'I wish you Christmas Joy.' Everyone could do with Joy in their lives, whether or not they celebrate Christmas. And everyone could do with Peace. Peace on Earth and Goodwill to all. So, I would wish them Christmas Joy and Christmas Peace - to last the whole year.
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
12 Dec 12
ZoeJoy
Again your missing the point here. Not everyone observes or celebrates Christmas and finds it highly offensive to have someone wish them something against their belief. It is imposing your religious belief on others. As I said to the person above you no one would want someone wishing them something they did not believe in and would find it strange and odd. It has to do with respect. A more generic approach is much better and does not offend. Seasons Greetings Happy Winter, Or seasons joy are much better.
@justhere (229)
• United States
12 Dec 12
Celanith, you are right. I feel that is what's wrong with the world to day and all these wars. People not being respectful of other's beliefs. We should be generic in the majority of approaches when it comes to different people you encounter and know nothing about them. That's my view anyway.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
14 Dec 12
:"Have a nice day" is what we say other times of the year. Most of the people I know do celebrate Christmas in some form or another, "Merry Christmas", just seems the most appropriate form of greeting at this time of year. Even my bah humbug hhusband agrees on this.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
I am one of those people who doesn't observe this occasion.
I love watching the lights, fireworks and listening to good music of x-mas.
I do give gifts to kids- they're innocent anyway and doesn't know the real meaning of x-mas (they only know things from what their parents, friends says about it)
Not everyone celebrate this occasion for many reasons..and everyone has their own good reason for celebrating it too.
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
12 Dec 12
Out family doesn't observe it either. The lights are pretty as is some not all the music. Giving gifts is fine as is good food and fun. But we don't celebrate "Christmas" as it is extremely pagan and nothing to do with Christ at all. Christ is not the reason for the season. Ba'al or Ra' or Mitras are. So is Santa Claus and Reindeer and having a tree most idolize and insist they have though the bible speaks against idolatry most have to have a tree which they oooh and aaah over which is having another god before God.
@justhere (229)
• United States
12 Dec 12
I like the way you all put it jaiho and Celanith, I don't celebrate Christmas either, but I just wanted to bring up the subject because I saw a lot of "Merry Christmas" here and thought that was not really accepting to some people and just had to speak up.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
12 Dec 12
Hi friend, i don't have Christmas celebration, but there is nothing wrong in wishing others for their celebration. Christmas is a common festival to all and most of the countries around world celebrate this function, there is nothing wrong in wishing for it, also your suggestion is good, we can wish others using the term have a great day during the normal days
@41CombedaleRoad (5954)
• Greece
12 Dec 12
From ancient times in northern hemispheres at least, people have celebrated in December. Whatever they called it the bottom line is that it marked the turning of the year, the shortest day and the longest night. It was a way of cheering themselves up while they waited for the days to lengthen again and Spring to come. Christians adopted it as a time to remember the birth of Christ and called it Christmas. They had the choice of a pagan outlook which was praising nature or a Christian one that was praising God for sending His Son into the world. I know which I prefer and enjoy Christmas, the carols the candle light and the Christmas trees. I don't care if they are associated with pagan things, to me they are associated with Christianity now.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Dec 12
very true... and many countries celebrate in very different ways. Like here in mexico.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Dec 12
we all have our own ways to celebrate.. as i lived 12 years in usa before coming back to mexico.. I do these at xmas here more american style.
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
12 Dec 12
I do not say 'Happy Christmas', etc to people who I know do not celebrate Christmas.Even if Christmas date is not the exact date Jesus was born,I enjoy Christmas - it provides another opportunity to think about Him and honor Him. Not everyone understand the real meaning of Christmas.
@emavs9 (63)
• United States
12 Dec 12
As with a few other people on this discussion I think you should be free to say what you want. Christmas is a day of the year so to say "have a merry christmas" means that I hope your December 25th is merry. Ideally people would say have a Merry day but it's like saying happy birthday. One day distinguished by a name for the day. Same goes with Happy MLK day (if anyone actually says that) or happy Valentine's day. Definitely the over-use of merry Christmas is not fantastic, but I don't think it's something that should be of much bother. The intent is almost never bad and actually it is a nice thing to say. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and at least in many countries, freedom of speech.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
11 Dec 12
I remember when I was at upper school and there was this boy in our class and his family didn't celebrate Christmas, he would still get Christmas cards from other people in his class, he actually turned round to me when I gave him a Christmas card and apologized that he didn't celebrate Christmas and didn't send cards. I shrugged and said I didn't mind, but looking back I was touched at how that lad apologized, when really he shouldn't have to, but I guess it's different when you are kids. I guess if someone doesn't know you don't celebrate Christmas, it's hard not to say have a great Christmas! But if they do, to respect them and their beliefs.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
Yes, we have brothers and sisters here who are Muslims who do not celebrate Christmas too..sometimes out of habit during this season, i tend to say Merry Christmas to them too but since we have been used to it, they do not mind it and also say it to us too, they would also say back MErry Christmas.. or sometimes they would say happy holidays. So i guess there is nothing wrong with it.
@justhere (229)
• United States
12 Dec 12
They are just not trying to hurt your feelings, by accepting your greeting, and they say Merry Christmas to you because they know you celebrate Christmas being very nice to you and respecting your ways. I feel you are being rude to them since they don't celebrate Christmas and you are not respecting their ways.
@tshihmin2 (186)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 12
Yes, it is true. There are people out there don't celebrate Christmas. Like me, I'm a Christian, most of the time I didn't celebrate Christmas unless my aunt celebrates it. For so long, I didn't celebrate Christmas, and I hope that there will be another celebration. It will made me feel so happy.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
12 Dec 12
In our country, we are giving Christmas bonuses every year in order to have something for the celebration. It is for everybody who work in the government, be it a Christian or non Christian. Everybody enjoy of the holidays as well.
Have a nice day!
@justhere (229)
• United States
12 Dec 12
When I was working a job I took advantage of the double time and a half pay for all these holidays I worked in the place of people that wanted to be off. I got overtime and time and a half at the same time. Made $280.00 for the holidays. I loved the holidays when I was working.
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
12 Dec 12
I think that is OK,such as me,in my city or in my country,people do not celebrate Christmas at all but when somebody say Merry Christmas to me I will feel very happy and will say thank you the same to you.
@justhere (229)
• United States
12 Dec 12
I don't say anything sometimes, and depending on how I feel I tell them I don't celebrate Christmas. Then they ask you why, then they ask you where do you go to church. Then other times I tell them Happy Holidays to you. But I don't think it's really necessary for anyone to wish a stranger Merry Christmas.