I learned from you.
By Jals14
@Jals14 (42)
Philippines
December 15, 2012 3:35am CST
Times have passed, and I know I have to move on sooner or later. I might as well let go, but there are things I won't forget about us. He taught me how to love my favorite food. He influenced me in learning how to speak my thoughts. He taught me how to love better. He gave me ways in order to be happier without him ever since we broke up. I have been better at some aspects and worse at some, but I'm glad I have met him. He'll always be my first love, and no one could beat that. No other man could fill his shoes, but I do have to let go of our memories to be happy again. I believe it's better to let go of him. Whether you do or don't, please let me know your thoughts. Thank you in advance.
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9 responses
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
15 Dec 12
hi jals,
im sry for what happened..and i agree that no one can forget their first love..the memories will always cherish in our hearts, no matter if you try to forget it, they will still haunt you when your alone..but one should always give it a try before letting our love go..or after couple of years u find urself sitting alone on a chair thinkin about him/her and sayin to urself ..i wish i could have tried..
But dont worry u will find your love again and your life will blossom again with the fragrance of happiness and joy..wishin you luck
raj
india.
@Jals14 (42)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I know and I agree with you. It haunts me every night, and I stay up every evening just to figure out if everything was real because our strong foundation, even our friendship was destroyed. Never will everything be the same again. It hurts to know that all of our dreams, all of our memories are just a part of the past now, and I have nothing to do but to leave that past because if I try to live in the past, I would just be living in an abstract world. Somewhere only existent to me.
@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
15 Dec 12
oohhhh dear.. :(
I'll make sure to keep you in my prayers and will ask god why he did this to you..jals..dont worry..he will come back to you..the time he will realize your importance , he will not waste a single sec and he will take you in his arms and will say sry..and will neva let you go..
they say its important in a relationship to give some space to both..so that they should know the value of the relationship..one only realizes the value of something when its not with him/her..and who knows may be he'z also thinking the same as you are..
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
14 Feb 13
Hello, Jals14! How have you been lately? I hope that you have completely moved on and is now very happy with whatever makes you busy. A new love perhaps?
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
15 Dec 12
There are always things we can learn from everyone we meet. Whatever has happened and somehow the end of a relationship, make it as a memory that will enrich your experience of your life. Life must go on. 
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I do believe in that. You should let go yourself from the pain you had before. Time heals. Only you can heal your own wounds. I know it is hard but it is better you did not see him that often because it helps a lot in moving on. Just pray that you'll gonna be alright even when there is no one around loving and caring for you.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
Letting go of someone you love is making yourself stronger... You are already facing the reality and you had gained good things through this past relationship. Whatever comes tomorrow will comes and it is always the positive results you are going to remember. I wish you all the best and I wish for your happiness for I know that you are a very special lady who can offer love so true.
@misjoseph (162)
•
28 Dec 12
That is so nice to hear such words
it touch my heart...
I believe two of you should get back together and live as one...
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
15 Dec 12
It is good to reminisce good memories instead of the bad ones. I'm glad that meeting him made you a better person and I think you should be thankful for that. Well, that is life, we have to accept it's flaws and move on. Let us just go with the flow. Good luck to you. 
@fearlessgara (1113)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
Our life is limited,Nothing is permanent in this world . Don't be a prison of the past.. We don't have any option but to accept it but learn from it. If you learned that then you can be happy. Life goes on so move on. Everything must past. It's only God who is exist and there for us from start until the end.. Put everything in God's hand.remember even us will become memories in the next century.
