she ruined my day...
By asliah
@asliah (11137)
Philippines
December 29, 2012 12:41pm CST
greetings to all of you guys, have you ever experience this in your life,you woke up in the morning very happy then suddenly your sister will ruin it?
my sister ruined my day yesterday morning,it because i bought an expensive phone,she always say that i need to keep my phone safe though i already know that,my point is don't tell that everyday and always because what to do,and aside from that i am confident that i will never meet a bad guy on the road,unlike her.i appreciate her concern but you don't need to tell that everyday and always to me.
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24 responses
@beenice2 (2967)
• Sackville, New Brunswick
30 Dec 12
I guess your sister was not busy enough at other things than to cause trouble. My younger son has a bit of a problem to be a trouble maker at time and I have to have an eye on him pretty much regularly and or have someone to have an eye on him if I can't so the point is that when they do that, often is get some attention and because they have nothing else to do.
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@smurfysmurf (651)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Hi Asliah,
I also hate people bragging about things. It's annoying!
I believe you need to tell your sister on what you feel every time she reminded you about that. It might sound concern to her but its different with you. And if any case you already told her about your feelings and still won't stop...well, I do think you need to tell her over and over again until it sink in her mind.
She's still your sister. ??
Happy Holidays!!!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Dec 12
asliah hi She is your sister and she probably just loves you and wants you safe so remember when you get irritated how you would
really feel if one day something happened to your sister and
she no longer was there worrying about you.. Then you would gladly wish to hear her say anything to
you..
. Then you would gladly wish to hear her say anything to
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@kingparker (9673)
• United States
30 Dec 12
Was she jealous that you got an new, expensive phone, while she didn't? You pay for your own phone, and it is your responsibility to it, not her to tell you about it every single day. That is annoyance. If I have a sibling telling me to watch out my own phone, my own computer, I would appreciate his/her concern, but too much of it, it became something not normal.
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@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Dec 12
I could totally imagine what you are saying. I can't see the point why people tend to repeat more than million times as if you were stubborn for million times too. It also ruins my day when someone is nagging me in a wrong time and place.
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@deiusz (193)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 12
i see. but you still have to listen to her and dont get mad to her because she is still your siste. Can you imagine that your sister is not in your side anymore?
yes, we hate that somebody said the same thing all day long, just say yes.
And with your confident that you will not bad guy on the road is 100%, im not sure, let's assuming you are for sure about 99%, and 1% will meet bad guy.
If 1% happened, what will gonna happend next?
smile ok.. :) .. how badly and how mad you are to her, she is still your sister.
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@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
I understand that you are irritated that her concern sounds very redundant. But I guess she just cares for you. You will never know if you will meet a snatcher specially these holiday season. Just be careful, be thankful that there are people who are caring about you.
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
30 Dec 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, but don't be serious with this issue. Some persons are in her sort, they always remind about the important things, as you mentioned you bought an expensive phone, so she told to be careful again and again.
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@lyricmemphis (260)
• United States
30 Dec 12
Sounds like she cares for you but if it's an everyday thing it can be annoying. I think also if it was a friend saying it and not your sister it wouldn't be as annoying. Sisters seem to know the right tone and words to get under each others skin.
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@rajendraingale (289)
• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
30 Dec 12
hello,
I would say she loves you and she is concern about you.It happens when you have been told the same thing again and again,But one should also not neglect the positive side of it.She just wants you to be alert all the time as she does not want something wrong to happen with you..
thats it.
you should take life easy sometimes..
take care
raj
india
@sunshinesophie (794)
• China
30 Dec 12
Maybe it is a different way that your sister shows concern for you,asilah.Don't think it too much.You can talk to her about your feeling.You are no longer a kid who needs being nagged all the day.You can take care of yourself anyway.But do not annoyed,she didn't mean to hurt you,right?
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@intelinsideyou (664)
• India
30 Dec 12
Well it didn't seemed that she ruined your day. She was just saying you to take care of yourself and some people have habbit of repeating that thing. So take it in a positive way.
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@bunnystarr (160)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
I don't think she intended to ruin your day. And besides, you have no choice. It's not like you can choose who can be family right? Just be thankful that someone cares enough to think about your safety. :)
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@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
Oh how i hate when one of my siblings do that. It would make me feel incompetent. It's not that i don't like to be told, but like you i don't want to be told every single day of what to do and what not to do. After all, we're adults already and it's such a shame when they would tell us we should do this and that!
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
30 Dec 12
that really is so bad setting aside the fact ,that guy might be really dangerous and trying to break up the rapport with your sister.Hope you settle it out soon
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@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
What a nasty sister. Sorry to say that. I am just saying that based on what you had said. I think she likes to brag thats why she tells you that.
I always experience things that annoys me. I feel so annoyed and irritable. I can't help but be affected and it ruins my day.
Anyway, advance Happy New Year! 
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@echo060201 (540)
• China
30 Dec 12
I think you need be a little bit ease with it,maybe she just want you to be safe.
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