Anybody got hit by your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend ?
By Lisa Jo
@LisaJo (15)
July 23, 2015 8:37am CST
Every once in a while, how ever good you are, you may still get into an argument with your spouse/partner. That may lead to a fist fight and then wham!
What the hell was that ? How dare you slap me ?!! Has anyone out there ever been hit or slapped by your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend ? What was the reason? What was your reaction ? Are you still together ? Come, let's share our thoughts on this now.
What the hell was that ? How dare you slap me ?!! Has anyone out there ever been hit or slapped by your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend ? What was the reason? What was your reaction ? Are you still together ? Come, let's share our thoughts on this now.3 people like this
7 responses
@Druscilla034 (379)
• United States
24 Jul 15
I've been pinned down a few times....(usually during drunken fights w/boyfriends)..but luckily, I am strangely strong for my size. Always got out just in time. And the guy always seemed a little bit scared in the end. haha
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
7 Aug 15
@Druscilla034 - I am wondering how did you allow it to happen with drunkard boy friend(s). 
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
24 Jul 15
@LisaJo Yeah I guess in some backwards way it might lift their ego making them feel they have power
@LisaJo (15)
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24 Jul 15
@cupkitties
That was a good one, I never thought of this. I think it is " EGO ", what do you say
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
24 Jul 15
I don't believe in physical violence. Arguments are part and parcel of married life. No couple could avoid it. Slapping your spouse or girlfriend is an act of cowardice in my view. Beating someone does not solve the problem. It only proves that you get carried away and you are unable to control emotions (anger). I have never slapped my spouse or any friend. If I get angry, I better leave the scene or stay quiet, till my anger cools down.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
7 Aug 15
@writerjo - I agree with your points regarding praying and diverting the spouse to devotional activities, if possible.
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@writerjo (2540)
• India
25 Jul 15
@LisaJo You are in difficult handling situation . . as @dpk262006 mentioned leave the scene or stay quiet . When I show much anger to My Spouse she simply keep quiet & I come to normal stage ..Praying also brings Peace , Lead your Spouse to Devotional atmosphere if possible .. Everything Will Be Alright ..! ! !
@missybear (11391)
• United States
24 Jul 15
back about 20 years ago i had a boyfriend that was very abusive, it took me 7 years to finally got the hell outta that relationship
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
23 Jul 15
My ex husband used to hit me and tear my clothes. Well the most "memorable" time was when he hit me in my eye because he came in after 1 am.
I asked him "Where have you been?". I asked it calmly, not getting in his face or anything and then BAM! got fist to the eye.
Yep. He didn't realize how bad it was til the next morning and in a panic he tried to convince his grandparents that I intentionally hit my eye on the sink corner.
Um that would be quite a feat for somebody who can barely function in the morning and the injury was no where near consistent with what it would have looked like hitting it on a sink.
I just hope I can marry somebody with a brain next time and preferably one that doesn't answer everything with violence.
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@writerjo (2540)
• India
24 Jul 15
Some years ago My Marriage , I have come across such an experience . I followed a Girl & felt in Love , But she does not .. I wanted to speak to her & done so .. She told me that her chappal will tear ..The meaning of it was she will slap with her chappal till it tear stage . It was crazy times.
@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
29 Jul 15
I've had my fair share of crazy ex-girlfriends and they have shown their pugilistic tendencies to me in more occasions than I can recall! Must be all those punches I got in the head... LOL!
