When do you comment?
By TLChimes
@TLChimes (4822)
United States
August 24, 2015 7:16pm CST
First, I make sure I read the discussion before I try to respond. The title doesn't always fit the writer's post. I keep that in mind.
But.... Then I respond. I usually do it before reading the other comments because that makes sure that my thoughts are my own. Then I read the comments and add to what I can or just like what I like.
I sometimes get lost in the comments because they make me think or laugh or want to hugs the person because they had a hard time of things.
How do you handle responding?
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19 responses
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
25 Aug 15
I always read the discussion first, so I know how to respond. If we just respond without reading the discussion, our response may not be relevant to the discussion. It is much easier to respond when I have read the discussion, as I can respond accordingly. I in the past, I have seen responses posted, that didn't pertain to the discussion. It is always best to read the discussion first.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
25 Aug 15
Sometimes I think it is simply misunderstanding the post as well. We have a lot of people from different places that use words in different ways. (Even here in the US ... simple example: Pop, Soda, Soda Pop, Coke..... )
And other times it is because some just assumes they know what it's about by a title or the first few lines.
Some people put a question at the end of their posts that isn't really about it in a direct way. I may answer one or the other or both depending on the topic. I'm not sure which the writers prefer but I try to do both.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
25 Aug 15
@TLChimes I had forgot to like posts until now, but now I do hit the like button for discussions as well as comments and responses. I have been asked questions in comments, and I try to answer them as best I can, and if I don't know the answer, I will tell tham that I don't know.
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
25 Aug 15
I guess there's no right or wrong way of doing it. It really depends on the individual, For me personally, I may have a firm opinion on something, and not necessarily need to see what someone else has said in order for me to respond.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
25 Aug 15
I find it the best way to do it so we stay true to our thoughts on the post and not be influenced by others, at least not until later. There have been a few times where I may change my point of view a little based on someone's response. That's when I discuss it with them in their comment.
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
25 Aug 15
...or your answer may be influenced by someone else's answer. This could lead to a different answer to the one you may have given in the first instance, had you not looked at the responses first. Not that there's anything wrong with that approach.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
25 Aug 15
I will comment after going through the whole topic. If not very hard to guess what the topic is about, Some times header and topic don't match. So very hard to get an idea without reading the whole topic.
@TLChimes
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@jobelbojel (35604)
• Philippines
25 Aug 15
Yes, that is what I usually do too. I make sure to comment first before going through the other comments - but sometimes I read comments first to check if responses were given already.
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@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
25 Aug 15
For my discussions, you can just answer as you want to because even if you answer like someone else, I think that people have their own "voice" when we type. Your answer will still be different even if it contains the same information. .... unless it is a very short answer, they tend to sound the same.
@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
25 Aug 15
I scroll through the topics and respond only to what interests me and something I know I'll have something to say about the discussion at hand. I usually respond first and then look at what others have said. Sometimes though, I may glance quickly at other members' comments if I'm not very clear on something, and then comment.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
25 Aug 15
Sometimes I read all the comments and sometimes I just give my response, especially if a question is asked.
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
25 Aug 15
I,for one,follow a bit longer process.If the discussion is lengthy,I read it twice and try to make out what the initiator wants to say.I see the comments only when I fail to understand the discussion.It's a time consuming process,I admit.
@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
25 Aug 15
I read the discussion first--then leave a comment--then read the other comments.
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