What is your immediate problem.

How is your son feeling this morning, is he any better then he was yesterday?

I can understand your concern about your son's health. Hopefully, you will find some ways to get him treated soon. Our prayers and wishes are with you.

@dpk262006 Thank you dpk.

It's good to hear that you do not have any major problem right now. Which is or what are the little ones?

I have moved here 1 year the end of this month and still have boxes to unpack but not all my personal boxes.

Did you shift your place and need to unpack your stuff?I hope you will be able to manage it.

@Marcyaz Wow, you are worse than me. I just moved into our new place 3 weeks ago and I only have a few things left to unpack. I hate packing and moving. We moved from the northeast of the USA last Oct 1st and this year we moved from that place to the now present home. I've had enough moving for now. Good luck with your unpacking.

Happy weekend to you too. i think you should inhale steam to get rid of your problem. If it persists, you could take an anti-allergic tablet.

Oh I am so sorry to hear that. You reminded me of my friend who has turned a care giver and needs to stay home for the sake of her father in law. She wanted to earn from somewhere. I need to get into touch with her. Thank you for reminding me. Sometimes, we are so lost in our own world, we forget.

@vandana7 You are right, sometimes we are so busy in our own world that we forget.

@LadyDuck - Our prayers and best wishes for his speedy recovery. Hopefully, his health would be better in coming days.

I think the problem which you have mentioned is not a major issue and you could handle it easily.

I hate when I have lights that go out like that so I now look for the ones that only one light goes out not all of them at once.

@PainsOnSlate This is a good time to buy string lights as they are all on the shelves for Halloween and Christmas. All colors are out there.

It is good to hear that you are not facing any major problem. What makes you worry?

@dodo19 - I think most of us want more and more money. the reasons is our desires and requirements keep on increasing. If we fulfill, one of our desires, the second one surfaces. Your eldest not eating properly is a matter of concern, but it could be sorted out through counselling her. Hope things get better soon.

@dpk262006 well, several things. Money is one. We do get enough, but it's tight. My eldest can be a picky eater and it's sometimes difficult to have her eat. Some days she's great, while others less so. It's a concern. What I worry about is nothing life threatening. No one is terminally ill, or facing major problems.

It is great to hear that you have not been facing any major problem.

I already know your problem and in your view, there is nothing bigger than that. Hopefully, your problem gets resolved and till then you are able to hold your fort.

Will you mind elaborating about 'trials', I am not very clear. I know about court trials. Are you referring to that or something else?

@SIMPLYD - OH! I see you are worried about repaying loan (taken for your daughter) to your parents. I think if you are in a tight spot, you could very well informed your parents, that you will pay the loan later (instead of keeping quiet and not repaying the loan amount at all).

@dpk262006 They are the problems we encounter such as when our daughter would pay a big amount for her tuition , we borrow from our parents . Now , the paying is the problem .

You see procrastination could be disastrous because we never know what lies in store, what is going to happen the very next day. What you could do is - you could tell yourself 'Tomorrow never comes' so let us finish the job today itself, why wait for tomorrow. I follow this dictum and I try to execute most of the things on time. It is Okay to be lazy and procrastinate once in a while, but not every time.

@Jlyn10 The problem is that tomorrow never comes. When it comes, it becomes today. [em]lol[/em?

@dpk262006 I always wait for tomorrow to come. That's the only thing that I don't procrastinate.

You need to tune your mind that if you make delay in one activity, your subsequent activities will also get delayed. For example if you are to get up at 6.00 a.m. and you get up at 6.20 a.m., all your activities will get delayed by 20 minutes or more. You could set an alarm in your mobile for completing or starting an activity (and now a days in most of the mobile handsets, you could set multiple alarms). You could use either the paper calendar or the calendar available in mobile phone to mark an important event, so that you do not miss it. Also, if you do not wear a wrist watch (thinking that you do not need to because you could see time on your mobile) you could start wearing a wrist watch to keep a check on time. I hope if you follow above tips, it will help you.

@Ishani08 - I am glad to hear that you liked my suggestions and you are going to follow it. It is good that you are in the habit of wearing wrist watches but instead of treating a wrist watch only as an accessory, you should make full use of it and you should check it regularly to make yourself aware of the time (I know now you will start looking your wrist watch to see if it is moving or not)

@dpk262006 Thanx a lot for the great advice. I will definitely follow it. And talking about wrist watches.. hahaha... I cannot do without wrist watches. I love them. I don't move out without wearing one. Its my favorite accessory.

Do you need to make a presentation or something like that? If that is the case, you should immediately start preparing for it before the deadline makes you feel nervous.

@ria1606roy - Viva is easier than a presentation and if you have already prepared for it, you should not worry much about it. I am sure you will be able to manage on examination day

@dpk262006 haha not a presentation really....only a viva on a chapter. But I've read the chapter so many times I don't even feel like revising. It's like fatigue and lethargy has set in.

good for you trying to resolve the issue with your cats waking you up.

@noni1959 - Your immediate concern appears to be lack of sleep and undesirable movement of your cat. You should make arrangements for you cat so that she should not come early in the morning and disturb you. It is good to hear that you have courage to face your problems.

It seems that you are worried about your job prospects. You need to find a job as per your experience and qualification and you should start marking efforts for it. May be you get a job which is not commensurate with your qualification and/or experience, in that case you could accept the job and start earning. Once you gain some experience, you could switch over to a better job. All the best.

@joygracia - I think you should better gain some experience before changing your job where you could get higher salary. Our best wishes are with you.

@dpk262006 Currently I'm connected with a job I like right now but I don't think it will pay better than I expected in the future based on people's feedback. I'm planning my way through my career goals that why I'm going through some busy and tough things right now to reach it. I'll just let my emotions not get through me and just focus on my dreams. I just hope everything will go smoothly.

I think you should talk to her about marriage. You should inquire from her whether she is interested in marriage or wants to live her life as an unmarried woman? Communication is the best way to resolve the issue. To my mind if one is 31, she is already late for marriage. If she wants to get married, she should not waste much time and take immediate necessary action in this regard.

@delyaj30 - I agree with you that no one court her but don't you feel that one needs to make efforts in this regard if courting someone is pre-requisite for getting married at your place.

@dpk262006, i know she wanted to get married, but the problem is no one court her, meaning she has no appeal for guys, she is not ugly. there are cases like this, you know

@simone10 - We all are very happy to hear that you have been living a peaceful life. We pray to God that you do not face any problem in your life.

It is good to hear that right now your life is peaceful and you are not facing any problem.

@dpk262006 It could change tomorrow but for now, my life is very peaceful.

Do you mean to say pollution? If yes, then it is better to stay indoors but you cannot remain indoor all the time.

@cahaya1983 - Oh I see. Haze appears more irritating even then normal pollution.

@dpk262006 I mean haze, due to forest burning in a neighboring country. The air outside smells like smoke, even schools are closed here for a few days.

Here also, the weather is still hot during day time here in Delhi. Swati, we just cannot do anything about vagaries of weather, we need to bear it. You plan a visit to Delhi in November, so that you could enjoy cool weather here.

@utkarshan28 - I hope your prayers turn out to be fruitful.

@dpk262006 hmm, Just praying to God.

It is good to hear that you are not facing any major problem at this point of time.

@boiboing - Yes, I fully agree with you that many of us invent problems, when there exist none, just to prove that they are unfortunate and they are facing lots of problems. Yes, if people stop worrying unnecessarily, things will be much better.

@dpk262006 I've had my share but often people invent their own problems that don't really exist. I try not to. If we could take the energy that people put into worrying over things they can't change, we'd power the world.