Who is your oldest friend?

@Scindhia (1906)
India
February 17, 2016 1:34am CST
Yesterday I received a phone call from one of my oldest friends. We had always been in touch through social media though we didn't talk often. She was in another country for a number of years. We were the best of friends in school along with another girl who is completely out of touch now (Maybe we should track her!). Though we didn't speak often over the phone, there were no issues because of that (Both of us didn't change much over the years). I was so excited to hear her voice and realized she is still the same after all these years. The best part was, she had moved to my locality recently and we have made plans to meet for the weekend. We are very excited about it. Its absolutely great to catch up with old friends. I'm going to see her after nearly fifteen years. Who is your oldest friend? How did you meet him/her? Photo Credit: Digital Trends
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@JudyEv (339591)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Feb 16
I can imagine how excited you both must be. At the end of March many of my high school class are having a reunion and I'm looking forward to that.
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@JudyEv (339591)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia We had the first when we all turned 50 and have had one every few years since but it's not every year.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@JudyEv From what you say, people still make time for their friends. Its a great achievement in such a busy world. Hope you have more wonderful reunions.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
High school class? Wow! You must be very excited. Do they have this reunion every year?
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17 Feb 16
My oldest friend is also abroad. We've known each other for so long. I am a bit older than her because she was only a toddler when I started kindergarten.I have lots of old friends.I still keep in touch with my friends from kindergarten.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@Iam_jauntyjen A friendship from kintergarten is such a lovely thing. This is the first time I have heard someone say that. What is she doing now?
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18 Feb 16
@Scindhia She is now happily married with a 3 year old son.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@Iam_jauntyjen Do you still meet each other?
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• United States
17 Feb 16
My oldest friend is in England and we had been friends from when I was only 14 or 15 yrs old.
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• United States
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia She never gets on the social media..it is sad, no contact now, but one day I may write a letter to her, it is just she has this boyfriend who would intercept letters.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
And you are still in touch through social media? Or do you catch up occasionally?
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@TiarasOceanView Thats rude of him! Maybe you should write something strong for him in the letter as well!
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
22 Feb 16
Thats great news! my oldest friend still in contact is a girl I met let say 15 years ago, and she is my best friend. My oldest friend on facebook is a guy I know since I was 14, but I get the idea his wife doesn't really like me, so we drifted apart. Though I love him like a brother, it's better not to cause him issues.
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@Drosophila (16571)
• Ireland
22 Feb 16
@Scindhia It's not exactly an online relationship, I met the guy in school. We were best friend until he got married. Then I just left him to it. The last time we went out for lunch (2hrs) his wife called 6 times, so that put an end of further meet ups
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
22 Feb 16
Online relationships can be tricky. You did the right thing.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
22 Feb 16
@Drosophila Its the guy's responsibility to balance his relationships. Same case here with some of my friends too.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
17 Feb 16
Oldest friend i have is really old. Older than my parents. I met her during a meeting of the league
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
How old is she? What is she doing now?
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@Shiva49 (26669)
• Singapore
22 Feb 16
Well, I have been meeting my best friend of over fifty years off and on. But habit wise, we have drifted apart but we have some old memories to bond us - siva
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@Shiva49 (26669)
• Singapore
22 Feb 16
@Scindhia Yes we were. I can never forget those days - some days we had lunch at his house with his big joint family. And I had great Marathi dishes when even chappathi and poori were not common in Kerala. I think those memories are very special - siva
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
22 Feb 16
@Shiva49 Friendships transcend all physical boundaries. You are indeed lucky to have such a close friend! Your friendship stood the test of time
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
22 Feb 16
Fifty years of friendship definitely deserves a grand celebration. Were you school mates?
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@allknowing (136100)
• India
18 Feb 16
I am still in touch with my classmates who were with me right from class 1
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@allknowing (136100)
• India
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia We are quite a few
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
All of you live in the same place?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Feb 16
Two of my oldest friends are in Canada . One would always come here for a vacation . But the other one hasn't yet since she migrated to Canada . Though we all get in touch through Facebook .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia Since College and that was about 25 years ago.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@SIMPLYD Its nice to hear that you are still in touch. How long are you friends with them?
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@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
17 Feb 16
My oldest best friend is also my cousin, we now live in two separate countries, but we used to spend our vacation together when we both were young girls. I know her since she was born.
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@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia She still lives in Italy and works for a ceramic tiles manufacturer, in the administrative department.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@LadyDuck Besties within the family! Thats awesome. What she is doing now?
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@LadyDuck I'm close with some of my cousins too but they are not my best friends. Its such a positive feeling to know that we are loved in a special way by our close friends.
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• United States
17 Feb 16
Hope you have a great time meeting with your old friend. I'm friends with someone from my childhood so I can say we've been friends for 65 years! We don't live close anymore but keep in touch through Facebook and phone calls.
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• United States
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia we keep talking about getting together and hopefully one day soon we can. We did have a reunion about two years ago with all our kids & grandkids too and it was wonderful
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@Marilynda1225 Reunion with along with the kids and grand kids sounds wonderful. You are indeed blessed :)
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
18 Feb 16
It is nice to catch up with old friends especially after such a long time.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia No I have lost touch with all my school friends.
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
@garymarsh6 Thats sad. But you can always have fun with your current set of friends.
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
I'm really excited. Are you still in touch with your school friends like many of us here?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Feb 16
How excited you must be! I have many friends from elementary school who live all over the world. We keep in touch at least once a month. Have fun!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
22 Feb 16
@Scindhia Of course! I even have two homes, so I have friends at both places. Lol!
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
19 Feb 16
Any friends who are closer to your home?
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Feb 16
That's really great. I'm glad you're able to meet up. My oldest friend doesn't live near me anymore. I met her when my children were still babies and at one point lived on the same block for a couple years. Now we are three states from each other.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Feb 16
@Scindhia I have her on FB but she's seldom on there anymore and neither am I. I call her or send her cards.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
19 Feb 16
@just4him Yet are you in touch with her through social media?
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
18 Feb 16
That is always great to re-connect with a friend. I have so many friends, but don't see a lot of my older ones, as I have moved so many times.
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
22 Feb 16
@Scindhia I have made new friends here, and met up with a couple I knew before
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
19 Feb 16
@AnneEJ Are there any friends in your locality now?
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• Preston, England
22 Feb 16
the oldest friend I'm still in regular touch with is a lady I worked with in the mid-1990's before we both left the company we were working for then
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
22 Feb 16
Wow! Thats more than twenty years of strong friendship
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
17 Feb 16
My best friend has got to be the longest friendship I've had. We met in kindergarten and still in touch now after 40+ years even though we live in different continents.
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@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia She's in the States now. Yeah, our parents knew each other but our children only barely knew each other since we were mostly apart after marriage.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
That is so sweet. Then you must have known everything about each other. Where does she live now?
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• Estado De Mexico, Mexico
22 Feb 16
My oldest friend as far as I know is a girl from India, her name is Jagruti. . I know her since I was in my diploma and she loves me a lot. For me, she was my best friend and we always were in touch by phone when i was in India. Later she moved to another city ( Mumbai ) and I moved to another city for my Bacherlors degree and we kept in touch continoiusly. Later she got married and I moved out of India and we are in touch by social network .The time difference makes it difficult to talk . but somehow we are stil in touch with each other . We have a very good understanding and we share our daily life experiences when we are on chat or whatsapp, I´m sure we would be friends till the end and we will always be in touch no matter where we are.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
23 Feb 16
Long distances can be a bit straining due to different factors. Its great to see such friendships!
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@gudheart (12659)
21 Feb 16
I am going to cheat and just say my mother!! I have lost touch with all my old friends.
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
22 Feb 16
Thank Gd you didn't say yourself. I love the idea of being best friends with our mothers
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
17 Feb 16
I still have people I keep in touch with that I went to school with, we have know each other for over 20 years
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
18 Feb 16
@Scindhia ya, they arelike my brothers and sisters
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Feb 16
Twenty years sounds like a long time. Are you family friends?
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
21 Feb 16
I got in touch with a guy friend of mine from my school days. We were best friends and we lost touch as he has to move away after his father passed away fighting Cancer. It was really good talking to him after almost 17-18 years. He hasn't changed a bit... We are in contact now on facebook and chat often. I am also been trying to track one of my other best friend. She has been MIA since 2-3 years due to personal reasons. Hope I find her soon...
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@Scindhia (1906)
• India
21 Feb 16
Glad to know that your friend has not changed. Most do except probably my friend and yours. .
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