The Broken Trust
By Piyaya
@piyaya30 (137)
London, England
November 21, 2016 6:58pm CST
I met my best friend 7 years ago in an English academy. At first she was hesitant to talk to me coz I am a total opposite of her. She always has her world of her own, doesn't mingle with people, always inside her cubicle and she's strange... for me.
Well time past we get closer and closer and shared a lot of personal topics. I trusted her, I treat her like a sister and totally accepted her for who she is even though there were a lot of people don't like her. They may say "Oh, you should not be friends with her" But I don't care, I accepted for who she is and what she is.
As time goes by, we have our ups and downs we fought like a couple and make up like sisters. Our arguments and fights were like a wheel, and its a like a routine that every year things happened. Till one day, I told her to stop and leave me coz things cannot be fixed anymore though we were trying, I was so tired and I am already giving up our friendship, but still I was very determined in not to. Till one day, I just found it her BACKSTABBING and MAKING UP STORIES about me. I read accidentally the messages of her and our other friend.
At that point my heart crushed and broken into pieces, the pain started and it feels like the whole building collapsed on me. I cried so hard that the pain that I felt is more than having a break up to a boyfriend.
She said "I AM SORRY" yes, sorry is just a sorry. I don't want hate or put any grudges in my heart. Its just so sad that the 7 years of friendship ended into a devastating situation. May she have a happy life but I believe in KARMA. Once its comes back it will strike hard.
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10 responses
@Alisa_ (17)
• Beijing, China
22 Nov 16
I am sorry to hear it ;but we are in the same situation;10 years ago ,I had a friend who I treat her as my best friend, but her mother despised us ,she always talked bad something to anybody. I was angry with them,so our friendship was broken.
I thought it was a good thing to leave her,because I thought the girl would be the same with her mother.
Maybe we pay it too much ,but we cannot get the same!
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@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Nov 16
I am very sorry this happened to you. I feel bad because I have had friends who I never thought I would lose touch with but I did and it was they who didn't keep the friendship going.
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@redurnet (1798)
• United Kingdom
22 Nov 16
I know of many stories like this. In fact my own sister and I no longer have a relationship because of fighting. I think that it can help to realise that we all need to feel a sense of power and being loved in our relationships. Often people will make bad choices like belittling others to raise their own esteem. Making up stories or backstabing is a quick and easy way to elevate your own status by insinuating you are a better person. I think that people who do this usually have a bigger need to be loved and to have a sense of control. Believing this has made me accept my sister's choices in the way she treats me.I do find karma to be a good redeemer and a way we all learn lessons about life.
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@LakeMac (7)
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22 Nov 16
I'm sorry you are going through this. That kind of betrayal cuts to the bone. My mom used to have a saying that I hated when I was a kid, but I find myself saying it now too. "If you were really sorry, you wouldn't have sone it in the first place." 'Sorry' can be pretty hollow in the aftermath.
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@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
22 Nov 16
I totally understand what you are going through.
I am in a place like that with one of my friends too...we were school friends but we have now grown into very different people and i can feel us breaking apart. ....i can feel myself letting go of her....and it makes me sad.
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@vaishu0106 (968)
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22 Nov 16
karma revolves....It happened with me too..I now have a hard time in trusting people
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@Julie555 (4155)
• Russian Federation
22 Nov 16
I also had the same experience in my life.And I knew about her backstabbing through her facebook messages. It feels really disgusting, when people whom you really trust just shatter it in one day.She tried to restore friendship,but it`s not possible for me.Once person betrayed you,no way back
But feels bad,I can understand it
But feels bad,I can understand it1 person likes this
