What do you Want? What do you Need?

@Beatburn (4286)
Philippines
January 18, 2017 2:58pm CST
I remind myself, Wants are not Needs. I have to know the difference. Live simply, live happily and live within my means. How about you do you get what you want or what you need?
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
18 Jan 17
I get what I need of course... I know someone who turns his wants into needs. LOL He usually tells that he needs this, he needs that... But in fact, those are just wants and you can live even without those.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 17
Hahaha. I knew a girl once...
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
@Beatburn hahaha...
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
@brokenbee Thanks for not asking who she is.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
I remember that determining one's wants and needs was one of the topics we discussed during the values formation program that we conducted for coconut farmers several years ago. It was a volunteer work with COCOFED.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
20 Jan 17
How was the response? You did volunteer work? Good for you.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
21 Jan 17
@sunrisefan The simplicity of our farmers then. They provide us with what we need and yet sometimes, they don't even have the basic necessities.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
21 Jan 17
@Beatburn Yes, it was a volunteer work for 3 months. The farmers had very simple needs. Bath soap was just even a want as they only use laundry soap as body soap at the same time. To be able to eat spaghetti was just a wish for some.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Jan 17
yes most of us do that. wish my kids did especially the one that lives here
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Jan 17
@Beatburn don't think so. lol. they are grown but i still try
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
28 Jan 17
@bunnybon7 My kids are still young, so I can still influence them.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
25 Jan 17
Is there still time to teach them?
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
30 Jan 17
I want to kiss you because I love you. I need to kiss you to heal my aching heart.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
10 Feb 17
Lyrical response, great.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
11 Feb 17
@antonbunot That sure felt good.
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@antonbunot (11093)
• Calgary, Alberta
10 Feb 17
@Beatburn Then I am going to kiss you!
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@just4him (317804)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jan 17
If I have the money for the pleasure then I indulge, but mostly it's needs.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
22 Jan 17
If I may, what do you usually indulge in?
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@just4him (317804)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Jan 17
@Beatburn Media - movies and books.
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• Philippines
18 Feb 17
I try to get the right amount of both. Though I confess I can get obsessed over my wants. I purge much of that yearning in my journals.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
18 Feb 17
Writing it down helps. Talking about it, as well.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
I give priorities to my needs, my wants can always wait and I buy them only when I have more than enough money.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
Good for you to have that discipline. I'm still learning.
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• Philippines
25 Jan 17
These past few days I put more weight on things that I need than I want. Usually what I want I get it later and sometimes unexpected.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
25 Jan 17
Those are the pleasant surprises: to unexpectedly get what you want.
@jstory07 (140501)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Jan 17
I always get what I need first.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
What do you usually need? Thanks for the comment.
@marlina (154130)
• Canada
28 Jan 17
Basicalle I get what I need with some occasional wants.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
29 Jan 17
As for me, The wants are coming back... must ward them away. Needs come first.
• Midland, Michigan
23 Jan 17
Mostly needs, but sometimes there's not enough for that either. We're always strapped in the winter months and tend to splurge a little in the warmer months, but we don't go on vacations away from home and we've not taken out any loans for vehicles for ten years or better, so even our splurges aren't only supplying our wants.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
23 Jan 17
It can be tough in the winter. I need to tell myself to take it easy on loans.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
Easier said than done.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
That's why It takes great effort.
@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
20 Jan 17
Good mantra to live by, I need to work on reducing excesses in my life
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
20 Jan 17
Thanks. As they say, anything in excess may be bad.
@suhail1 (931)
• Manila, Philippines
23 Jan 17
I believe most of the time we get what we want not what we need
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
24 Jan 17
Unfortunately, true for some of us.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
No I do not get what I want or need.I am happy with my life.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
Good for you! Contentment, many of us don't have that.
@AliCanary (3247)
18 Jan 17
Both, most of the time.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
That's what I call blessed or fortunate.
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@Vblonde (245)
• Macedonia
18 Jan 17
We cannot always get what we want, but I think it is fair to at least get what we need!
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 17
Yes, it is. We need to know that.
@Kandae11 (55249)
18 Jan 17
I try to get both.
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@Beatburn (4286)
• Philippines
19 Jan 17
Which one do you get more of?
@pureme (1526)
17 Feb 17
From economics, human want is insatiable