If given you a chance which profession will you choose for your life partner
@spaceseed (2843)
India
May 25, 2017 10:14am CST
Here I was sitting in the afternoon, bit tired..suddenly found my self into memory lane. I had a arranged marriage and for this few prospective girls were chosen for me to select one.
one of them was nurse at hospital........which was a profession I wanted my wife to be.. but as in here I mean it was a family affair and we all were taking decision....and all others except me were keen to have a teacher or housewife as they were thinking otherwise.
so I met teacher first and she was good ..........best thing was she also liked me........we stopped searching ......for bride.
what if you have a option such as mine .....what profession will you choose. In such a case when you dont have already decided to get married to someone special.
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@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
25 May 17
If I am going to choose, I will choose a person whom I loved the most. I think love is the most important to love somebody wholeheartedly. I am not against to a fixed marriage. If I am in this kind situation, I will choose a person who has the same brain waves of the mine.
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@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
26 May 17
@spaceseed I still have to follow my heart and let my brain choose. We have the freedom that needs to use wisely.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
25 May 17
yes offcourse, but suppose.............. you dont have a person in your life, and you have few persons which you have access to.... marry than?
That was my case. i didnt find a suitable match for me, then family and friends suggested few girls...........
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
25 May 17
With a nurse as a wife, she might not be around much as she will be doing shift work, but then she can look after her family when one of the members is sick. With a teacher as a wife, you will be sure she knows how to teach her children, and also be home at the same time every day...but then she can be bossy a little bit as she gets used to do that to her students...
But then it's up to your feeling for one of them. Just hope that you will find a right person as a bride. Congratulations
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
25 May 17
That shift thing was my personal favorite because, my job was also demanding as software professional.
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
26 May 17
@spaceseed As long as you are happy with the one you choose then the next step is to learn how to love and live with each other. All the best..
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
4 Jul 17
@atoz1to10 some times you dont want to see each other for some time then these shifts add flavour to love
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
26 May 17
what your dream man would be like......a doctor, a rockstar, a musician, a pilot, a sweeper, compounder, teacher or what?
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
25 May 17
same here, but now my wife is looking for teaching career again
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
25 May 17
I am sure half of the ladies here will choose doctor........
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
26 May 17
I would like to choose personality instead of profession, which I have done in my life and I am so happy with my decision. Character, attitude, education are more important than profession.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
26 May 17
that's also very important. Let me rephrase my question, "among many qualities you are seeking, your spouse's prfossion is one of criteria" then what will be your choice. or it doesn't matter at all.? if the person is unemployed? or in a profession you don't like say halwai
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
4 Jul 17
@Bodyandbrain you have amazing views and choice
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
26 May 17
I see your point of view so yes profession does matter with other qualities, I mean I would like to choose a person from decent profession, he should not be a thief or hacker or something like that 
If I had loved an unemployed person with the qualities I prefer to have in my life partner I would have married to him and helped him to achieve in the area of profession.
If I had loved an unemployed person with the qualities I prefer to have in my life partner I would have married to him and helped him to achieve in the area of profession.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
25 May 17
Love of my life should have only one profession, and that is to love me, and just love me!!!!
Kidding, I think the best thing is to be together in the same business, either the one that we own, or the one for which we work.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
25 May 17
I will choose a hairdresser like I was. We would then share the same interest.
Happy you found your teacher wife.
Happy you found your teacher wife.1 person likes this
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
25 May 17
@spaceseed People who work in this profession of the industry have much in common I find.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
25 May 17
wow, I must say ......great approach and choice..this way you both could have spend all the time togather wheather working or not
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
25 May 17
decent choice. Here I want to share my personal views about this........... she would ...............be your strongest competer as well. in this case slight rift in relations could arise.
what do you think?
@JudyEv (341692)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Jul 17
@spaceseed No, he was born in a town and always had administrative/finance type jobs.
@magnumopus (1644)
• Singapore
29 May 17
Profession doesn't matter to me as long as I love the girl.
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
4 Jul 17
I understand. but if you love a girl, who wants to work........suppose she wants to be a diver or mountaineer where life is at risk more than others.. will you have any issues?
