Calm
@chrissbergstrom (10767)
Banks, Oregon
June 8, 2017 6:49pm CST
Trying to calm myself down today, anger is really not good for me i get so mad and over stressed where every little thing makes me mad, even though i am actually mad about something else entirely.
Right now are water is off, i want to freak out and yell and scream but it wont get it on sooner, and guess who has to fix it??? My Uncle.... the same Uncle who siphoned gas out of my mom's car. It makes me think if somehow he made this happen and wants to look good by fixing something because he knows he did something really bad....
Of course that's just my mind running wild he couldnt really do something like that could he???? well he still hasn't admitted to what he did or apologized to my mom, and till he does i do not plan to speak to him.....
But i also am not going to rage out and make everyone not want to comment or talk to me afraid i may snap on them in anger....
I love MyLot and it may sound funny but i feel like it's a safe place i can vent and let all my feelings out....
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18 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
9 Jun 17
Maybe you could learn to fix the water so that he cant have an excuse to come over. Watch what he does lol
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@crossbones27 (49723)
• Mojave, California
9 Jun 17
Why not, I do it all the time. 
Never scared brother, just know that is life and you are handling it the best way you know. Nothing to be sorry for.
Never scared brother, just know that is life and you are handling it the best way you know. Nothing to be sorry for.4 people like this
@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Yes just gotta keep on moving
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@blitzfrick (2890)
• United States
9 Jun 17
Gotta love family. I like to love mine from a distance, a very long distance.
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@blitzfrick (2890)
• United States
11 Jun 17
@chrissbergstrom Most of my family is nuts (not excluding myself, here). I'm starting to believe that crazy is the new normal, LOL.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
13 Jun 17
@blitzfrick right that is true
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
yeah my family is crazy but i love them but some i also kind of hate to
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
9 Jun 17
This is a great place to vent and let things out. You have every right to be upset with him but acting in rage will only make things worse. We are here for you.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
@kaylee1234 yes sometimes we just have to be calm
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@kaylee1234 (113)
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9 Jun 17
So sorry for what's happening to you Chris, sometimes it seems like there is a full moon out and things can get wacky and out of control. They say cooler heads prevail and you seem like such a cool, calm person. Its not right what's happening to you and I would be so ticked off too but for your health and well being find a way to meditate and not allow what's happening in your life right now to control your well being. Don't let anyone or anything, take away your great, positive energy. I hope things work out for you my friend, big hugs from Cathy XO
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Well a pipe broke and it needed to be repaired so the water had to be shut off from the valve while it was fixed...
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
9 Jun 17
It is a safe place to let off steam and not punch anyone @chrissbergstrom
The events make me wonder if the uncle did something with the water also!
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
12 Jun 17
@chrissbergstrom You might have to be the handyman there so your mother does not have to have him around.
Wouldn't that be nice?
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
13 Jun 17
@PatZAnthony that would be nice
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@sallypup (61627)
• Centralia, Washington
11 Jun 17
@chrissbergstrom You need to move. Yesterday.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Well what happened was my Uncle broke a pipe so the he had to shut off the valve so he could repair it, me and my brother still think he did this intentional so he could show that he's the only one whom can fix things or something.... i dunno i really hope he isnt that petty but i dont know anymore....
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
9 Jun 17
It is a safe place, when your uncle comes over I'd mention someone is stealing gas and You wonder who would do that to an old lady...assuming your mom is an old lady.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
12 Jun 17
@chrissbergstrom he sounds and acts like a looser.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Mom isnt that old yet but he knows we know now, he never apologized really mom said he did but i dont think him saying im sorry about the other day is a real apology.... howabout admitting what he did and how wrong it was
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
10 Jun 17
I'm late to this. Hope it turned around.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Yes things have gotten better thank god
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Thanks Ruby i just gotta stay calm
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
13 Jun 17
@chrissbergstrom Okay hope it worked itself out.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
9 Jun 17
Yes, good to have a place to let out steam
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Yes Mylot is good place for that
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@MsBooklover (3974)
• United States
9 Jun 17
I am not saying he turned off the water, but he could have. Why does he have to be the one to turn it on? I have been without water before when the pipes burst more than one time. Mylot can be a good place to vent until some people become critical.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Well a pipe broke and he had to get a replacement pipe and fix it
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@MsBooklover (3974)
• United States
11 Jun 17
@chrissbergstrom I hope it all works out.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
9 Jun 17
Yes of course you can share here. Try to stay calm
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
yes sadly he did fix it and today he fixed something on my mom car.... he's trying to suck up now i think
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
9 Jun 17
Sometimes a person will overly compensate after committing an offense, and I hope this is not the case. I like to watch a good mystery movie and sometimes I notice very clearly that the suspect offers to help for instance, Columbo, that character from the 70's hit tv series about a detective who always has the last word or two or three. The guilty person often offers their sincere helpfulness to do anything to put the blame on somewhere or someone else.
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
9 Jun 17
My wife's son, my step son, once had to deal with a guy who stole water from their faucet outside the house when they were not home and his water bill went through the roof. As a result, step son took action and went over to his back yard faucet and applied cement to it so there was no way to turn it back on so next time his neighbor tried to rip off his water he was unsuccessful. I mean, that guy was steeling his water by attaching his own hose to it and filling up his bathtub and using it to fill up gallon jugs. Over a month went by before he even found out. What a nasty neighbor from hell huh?
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
11 Jun 17
Yes sounds like something my Uncle would do, he feels like as long as he does repairs to vehicles and to things to do with the house that he is owed things like free gas and free food....
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