So Sad, Dennis Sold His Three Cars
@cacay1 (83577)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 20, 2017 6:38am CST
Dennis messaged me awhile ago informing me that he sold his three cars. He has some doubts about his health and life. One of his reasons is his deteriorating health. He thought about the situation of his car, what if something bad happens to him, his car would be benefited by others. I do not know if the cars will be auctioned by the social services and proceeds will be distributed to charity offices should he fail to sell his cars. Tha, I do not know.
It seems his plan to sponsor me in April-May 2018 would turn to futility. It may not happen for he cannot drive ; he cannot anymore go to shop alone to shop for some foods to consume daily. Though I can manage to reach his home from airport, but I cannot stop him or oppose his decision. It seems he is feeling so desperate this time.
Another thing that saddens me is , he now uses a clutch,and other times a trolly to help him move freely with less pain to feel.Only God knows ; He alone can tell.
Thanks for reading . friends.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jul 17
@SIMPLYD, thank you, friend, it is a much to sell his cars.Having a Parkinson's disease would deprive a sick person to drive.He cannot anymore drive, he is so thin and sick. His relatives in Australia advised Dennis to sell al his properties.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
20 Jul 17
This is so very sad..he is alone where? What country NZ?
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
21 Jul 17
@cacay1 Gosh that is awful that you could not go to him Erly And he has no family.
And he has no family.1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 17
@TiarasOceanView, yes, sad.He is alone in his home in Auckland, New Zealand.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Jul 17
@TiarasOceanView , He has one son but living far away from him in Christchurch. They always talk through a phone.It seems hard to go there for my family disallows me going there for nothing in return. We are in a relationship for almost 10 years now but never had he changed his mind from none- marriageable to marriageable. That was our arrangement the time we met in person to marry.It is his fault if he suffers that way to live in loneliness and inferiorities due to his health condition and no one cares him 24/7. I am willing to sacrifice for the sake of my commitment to him and to the Lord, but, to no avail, so I have to distance myself to find my own way too.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Jul 17
@just4him , you are right, Valerie.he told me last year that it might be our last meeting
, He also told me, that when the time comes that God redeems the world, he wanted me to be still his partner.He does not know that it will never happen for even husbands and wives cannot be as the same people together after redemption.God would destine another partner for those qualified to be on His right and to enjoy life eternal. How happy I would be if God the Father grants Dennis dream to be he and me together during His second coming to redeem.( Revelation chapter)
, He also told me, that when the time comes that God redeems the world, he wanted me to be still his partner.He does not know that it will never happen for even husbands and wives cannot be as the same people together after redemption.God would destine another partner for those qualified to be on His right and to enjoy life eternal. How happy I would be if God the Father grants Dennis dream to be he and me together during His second coming to redeem.( Revelation chapter)2 people like this
@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Jul 17
@cacay1 You will certainly be together in heaven, but not as husband and wife. Jesus said there isn't marriage in heaven.
Matthew 22:30 For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven. (KJV)
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
21 Jul 17
he is now on crutches? who assists him when he walks? i hope you will still be able to see him while he can still walk, even with crutches.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 17
@ridingbet , no one assists him, he lives alone. The social workers come to his house 3 x a week to assist him.These social workers are sent by their government. Their culture there is different from ours.They are not sentimental types.They are practical people and never afraid to die.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Jul 17
@ridingbet The NZ government care for the elders sick of anything by sending, so also to Dennis, social workers. There are 3 social workers to check their physical conditions, clean their home, shop for their daily consumptions, talk to them to alleviate their lonesome feelings and motivate the sick to strive for more better health. Their doctors also call him and all who are sick there in any corner in New Zealand. New Zealand is like America, pro-life unlike Philippines poor country full of corrupt officials and non-officials.Their emergency office in Auckland and all places there is on the go 24/7. Dennis is always visited by my cousins and some of Dennis friends.People there used to live alone.In fact, they never like to have a child on their marriage only they know the reasons. Their culture is different from ours full of beliefs and sentiments.They are practical people we supposed to emulate.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
22 Jul 17
@cacay1 if it is so, then Dennis does his own care alone unassisted, right?
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@prashu228 (37521)
• India
20 Jul 17
So sorry for him.. hope he recovers. At least to walk a little and feel good
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
24 Jul 17
I've seen one particular old lady that walks in her trolly back in the time I used to walk far. Well, he was just preparing himself..I guess you have understand him.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Jul 17
@Letranknight2015 , you look nice in your new photo image, yes, I know him as very sick this time and only miracle can save his many sicknesses.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
20 Jul 17
Hope he can sell his cars so he can still use the money for himself . It is really sad to have a deteriorating health.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 17
@acelawrites ,he already sold the cars last month.Yes, it is the fact of life that when humans get older, the more sicknesses to encounter.
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@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
27 Jul 17
That is so sad my friend. I wish we could do more than just prayers. Spend more time with him, do connect often thru chats or messages. At least, he knows that you are always with him even though you're both miles apart.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Jul 17
@dollaboy , He is sick of Parkinson's Disease. This time he suffers sciatica pains. He had been operated of his urethra. He has many health issues.His weight is affected from 203 pounds to now 87 pounds.Dennis is 63 years old Thank you.
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