The word "housewife"...oh you English..

@vandana7 (100297)
India
July 22, 2017 1:47pm CST
Ok..why does it not have an opposite like "househusband"... That is gender discrimination. Then again does it mean the wife at home, meaning men may have A WIFE outside home... So what would she be? Outsidewife? Tough language...and I always get lost with such thoughts. How tough do you or did you find learning English. At least, it is only one wife that is allowed...outside.
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• United States
22 Jul 17
Husband Inside a new show..oh oh bad Lets see HouseHubby..yes that will do. How bout HubbyBoy or HouseBoy.or HouseMan. The Missus (the wife) The Tart (the mistress) Me (the old maid) Homemaker..or HomeWrecker.
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@noni1959 (10095)
• United States
24 Jul 17
Don't forget Domestic Goddess. I like the term HouseBoy.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
24 Jul 17
LOL...we have the term Office Boy for somebody who takes files from this table to that table, serves tea at the table, and does all such errands jobs. So if it is going to be house boy...that is going to be quite humorous. lol
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• United States
24 Jul 17
@noni1959 Oh yes thats a good one Loretta Domestic Goddess lol Yes HouseBoy is good for cougars lol
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
22 Jul 17
I only speak English and I always thought housewife was a stupid term as well. No one is married to a house. (I hope)
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
23 Jul 17
LOL....now you are talking..lol
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• United States
24 Jul 17
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24 Jul 17
LoL!
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
23 Jul 17
English was not at all tough for me. You should know that in English both the term housewoman and houseman exist, not all the stay at home women are married. We use the same in Italy, never housewife always housewoman (donna di casa).
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
Somehow, I never understood, why do they have that difference "woman" and "lady". We have washer woman who comes and picks clothes for ironing.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
@LadyDuck .. Yes...it is..thank you...though when we say that man, we do not think that he is not refined in speech and behavior, but when the word woman is used, it automatically demotes us.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
27 Jul 17
@vandana7 Woman and lady, man and gentleman, all ladies are women, not all women are ladies. Woman is the generic word for a female human. Lady is a woman of refined behavior and speech. I hope it was clear enough.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50256)
• United States
25 Jul 17
I have heard of househusband
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
oh...I came to know that the term exists only on this post.:)
@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Jul 17
That sounds really strange.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
22 Jul 17
Househusband does exist. More often home-maker now, as either the male or female partner in a marriage may choose to stay at home with the children...
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
23 Jul 17
So what is wrong with the word care giver for children or elderly or others? Why house wife, or house husband..SMH. Even if the girl is not married, she gets referred to as housewife? Weird.... and home maker makes me think of somebody carrying a whole lot of tools and nails to build a home.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
23 Jul 17
@vandana7 Regardless of what you wish to call it, as far as HM Government in the UK is concerned, you are classed as "economically inactive" if classified as a "homemaker" or similar, the bare-faced cheek of these faceless mandarins in government back-office!
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
23 Jul 17
@pgntwo .. I am economically active. I earn. lol. Only difference is I am earning from home.
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• Bournemouth, England
22 Jul 17
It's a rather old-fashioned term dating back to many years ago when gender roles were less varied and it is hardly used here at all anymore. If a woman in a partnership here has made a conscious decision not to go out to work then she is more likely to be referred to as a home-maker. And yes, there are househusbands here, men who stay at home running the home and looking after the children while their female partner is the breadwinner.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
14 Aug 17
@MALUSE .. There are many words in English that have man in it..but here they brought in the female gender.
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
22 Jul 17
They say English is one of the hardest languages to learn. I was born in the United States and it has always been our families language. My 10 year old says the spelling is stupid, with so many silent letters. Like Knight and such.. lol Does make for hard learning at times. Now with the word housewife, it just means a wife that stays home and takes care of the house and kids while the husband goes out to work. I know a few people that hate the term. It has never really bothered me. I think now days thou most are called, homemaker, which in a way is no better because I don't make homes.. lol We do have males that stay at home, as my son in law does, no matter what the name he is given, being, househusband or homemaker.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
14 Aug 17
Home maker is so right...and there should be government prescribed pay scale for that.
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
16 Aug 17
@vandana7 That would be nice but will never happen! But even my husband says my job is harder then his.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
16 Aug 17
@Ithink .. They think it has become easier...with all those implements. But they do not realize that traditional cooking plus contemporary need to work combined with more often demand for traditional food brings it to square one because the effort in cooking is only halved, whereas traveling and working has increased the burden.
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
22 Jul 17
It mean one wife at home and girl friends everywhere.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
They did not say housegirlfriend, they coined housewife. So there has to be officewife, or moviewife, or eaterywife...even shoppingwife, or parkwife..wow..the idea explodes in my head.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Jul 17
Yes, housewife is an odd term @vandana7 . Nowadays home executive is the word used
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
23 Jul 17
I like that. I really like that. Household chores are not small.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
23 Jul 17
@vandana7 , I agree, running a home is no easy feat.
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@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
31 Jul 17
American English can be a bit crazy. Those of us who grew up here take them for granted, so interesting to hear your thoughts while learning the language. Houses Husband is used at times with great pride by the men who do stay home and cook and clean...I am a house wife who works on my art at home so we do (husband and I) share the house chores. He cooks, I clean when needed...
Housewife definition, Sometimes Offensive. a married woman who manages her own household, especially as her principal occupation. See more.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
14 Aug 17
I like it when you all accept that English has no rules as such. lol. Yes, you all take it for granted.:) Wow...in India, not man would do that...
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• Canada
16 Aug 17
@vandana7 I cooked when he was working but now retired, he loves to cook and I love having him cook
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Jul 17
With all the idiosyncrasy's of the English language, I'm not surprised other nationalities have a hard time learning it. People born here and have this as a first language find it hard to keep up with all the different ways words are spelled. So housewife does sound gender discriminatory, but then they do have Mr. Mom to accommodate male housewives.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
To top it all, you all have new words where it is not needed, which have no connection what so ever with its meany. Take for example "corny"...
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Jul 17
@vandana7 Corny means funny
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@JudyEv (340200)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jul 17
I can imagine learning English is very difficult. I admire anyone who learns a foreign language.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
It is. Trust me...it is. And we keep trying. I feel we get to know more and enjoy more, if we learn more than one language. Like I can read and know about your country and your travel. I did not know you did not qualify as a blonde. So much to know...
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@YrNemo (20255)
24 Jul 17
Funny, I never thought of this at all (I am such a blind follower !).
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
You are not in prison because the prison would not be able to accommodate so many blind followers. :) Sorry kidding. lol. But many did not notice. Me being an outsider, noticed it. :)
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
28 Jul 17
@YrNemo .. I agree. The work women do needs to be recognized.
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@YrNemo (20255)
28 Jul 17
@vandana7 The word that bugs me most is 'breadwinner'. Since women often do the cooking and bread making, how come men are called breadwinners? I know that the word could apply to women too who earn the main income in the family, but breadwinner? There must be some sort of war related to this expression .
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@shikharava (1838)
22 Jul 17
Yes, English is not only a language. It's a family of languages. It has many dialects, loan words, and etc. It is really difficult to assign a particular meaning to a word and let it be as it is in this test of times. Consider the word gay. It meant and still means i(n some places) happy, now it means something else. Also the word villain was used for a farmer. Words come and go. Words come and stay but their meanings change with time. That's the truth. What can we say? ;)
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
30 Jul 17
Ah...yeah..and meanings change .....they change..smh
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@TheHorse (218921)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Jul 17
We have some stay at home dads, and it's becoming more acceptable. I've heard them called "Mr. Moms."
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
27 Jul 17
I have no issues with stay at home dads, when women are bread winners. I, however, dislike those who feel they are doing a lot for the woman when they change their baby's nappy, or hold the baby's feeding bottle. Women can't be expected to handle both fronts and still be angelic.
• Eugene, Oregon
26 Jul 17
I have heard that English is very difficult to learn as a second language. Language errors are pretty common by natives here too.
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
26 Jul 17
One of the reasons I try to interact more with you all is I can improve. But at times I feel so overwhelmed and feel I can never learn it. Every second month I tell me I should give up and a month later, I tell me I can learn. lol.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
22 Jul 17
this reminded me, few of my friends call me house husband
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
14 Aug 17
In India, it could be because you listen to your wife..more than you doing chores at home.
23 Jul 17
Actually housewife is a kind employment, that only a female can do, you guys are the boss of it, we just can be helpers, and i believe you guys loves that to do, i dont females to think like, no a guy should do this than us, then its a big failure of womens
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@vandana7 (100297)
• India
14 Aug 17
Yeah..the most underpaid job...even househelps get better pay...and you believe we love it? Ha...you start paying women would like it.