"Visit" What's that?

@1creekgirl (41433)
United States
September 18, 2017 5:09pm CST
Do you visit? Do young people even know what the word visit means? Many years ago, especially on a Sunday afternoon, neighbors would pay a visit to another neighbor or relative, often enjoying a cool glass of sweet tea on the front porch while the kids ran around the yard or played marbles. I remember when I was a child in Portsmouth, Virginia, my sister and I would get in the family car with our parents and drive over to Norfolk to visit my mother's brother and his wife. They had a small yard, so we didn't play outside too much. Sometimes we'd drive to a local cafe for lunch, but usually my aunt cooked a big Sunday dinner. I remember pork chops, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes and gravy, biscuits, tomato pudding, and other dishes I can't recall. Wonderful memories. Now it seems that no one visits anymore. I have a cousin who actually came by today. He and my uncle (whose wife just passed) are about the only people who make the time to stop by for a visit. We're all too busy with "important" things to make the effort to see people face to face. What in this world are we so busy doing that's more important than people we love? People who won't be here forever.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Sep 17
Visiting friends and relatives was important while I was growing up. It does seem like a lost opportunity today.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
19 Sep 17
We're all too insulated in our own little computer worlds. It doesn't leave much time for personal interaction.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Sep 17
@1creekgirl No it doesn't.
@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
19 Sep 17
When I was young every Sunday my father brought the family to visit some relative. We did this all the time. As all our relatives lived in the city and they had no garden or backyard it was a real pain for my brother and I, to stay sit a whole afternoon listening the adults to talk.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
19 Sep 17
That's great that your family visited a lot of relatives, but what a pity the kids had no fun!
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@LadyDuck (471547)
• Switzerland
19 Sep 17
@1creekgirl Some of my uncles and aunts had no children, but we knew that we had to behave, stay sit and keep quiet.
@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
19 Sep 17
Occasionally my mom and sister come by to visit me, but nobody else in my family does. My brothers know where I live but they don't ever stop by to visit. Every so often we go over to visit my parents, which is the only place I see my brothers anymore if they are also visiting, or my boyfriend and I will go visit his mom or some friend. But the visits are becoming less and less frequent.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
19 Sep 17
My brother and sister live right down the road and never come by. Of course, I don't go there either. Long story. I'm glad you do have visitors.
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• United States
19 Sep 17
I have a nice neighbor who will ring the bell and have a cup of tea or coffee with me. I get frequent visitors (like my children and grandchildren, aunts & uncles) but those weekly or Sunday visits do seem a thing of the past. I remember going to my grandmothers on a Sunday afternoon for dinner when I was young.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
19 Sep 17
You're very blessed to have visitors. Our kids live too far to drop in. My uncle whose wife just passed, came by today for a bit. His son brought him since my uncle can't drive any longer. It was a really nice visit. My cousin said he wanted me to have one of his mama's dolls that she collected since he knew I collect dolls also.
@JudyEv (340050)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Sep 17
We still visit and have visitors. The only difference nowadays is that you wouldn't normally do it without giving them notice.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
19 Sep 17
Yes, now we can call ahead to see if they're home and if we can come by. Years ago, I guess people just took their chances. But most likely, people would be home on a Sunday afternoon.
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@YrNemo (20255)
19 Sep 17
At the end of the year (Christmas time), we visit each other more frequently. During the year, like right now, it is almost impossible. Young families these days are not often home, the parents work, the afternoons evenings are for taking kids to extra classes here there everywhere. Same with weekends. Sunday: Church, rest ('visitors - please do not come' time).
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
19 Sep 17
This is so true.
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@xFiacre (13023)
• Ireland
18 Sep 17
@1creekgirl Young people don't visit - they seem to "hang out" whatever that is.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
18 Sep 17
I guess each generation has its own way to interact.
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@Kandae11 (55036)
18 Sep 17
Seems we are too busy texting. Sometimes I miss the good old days.
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@1creekgirl (41433)
• United States
18 Sep 17
Me too. I'm as guilty as anyone about not visiting, though.
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