Did I do mistakes? Did you ever feel regret like me?

@kakah87 (394)
Semarang, Indonesia
November 6, 2017 3:25am CST
I am madness, that is what I think about because I feel that I'm a failure. I have made a plan to be a succesful man (it's usually call as a dream) but in the middle way I was hitted to step back twice by situation or change my mind or I have no passion again with the dream, then I have to choose a one way. Actually fall in love has a big impact, I fail and my heart has broken. I have no hope and madness, then I realize that I have to moving on. I live a life and make a plan with a new dream, and the dream didn't come true yet but my spirit seems like decrease slowly. Sometimes I regret, why I have to fall in love, again and again. Love just a black cloud in my life. Did you ever feel regret in your life? What's that?
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• Philippines
6 Nov 17
The only to survive is to move on and do what you believe in. Love doesn't just focus on some one but also family and friends.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
6 Nov 17
yeah, you are right... I have to move on.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Nov 17
@kakah87 you have to move on for your own benefit and happiness.
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@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
6 Nov 17
I don't regret it but to accept it. I will take it as a learning process.
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@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
7 Nov 17
@kakah87 If I feel sad, I will try my way to be happy. It is not healthy to dwell in deep sadness.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
8 Nov 17
@Shavkat I agree with you, I think it's about time.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
7 Nov 17
Good for you then,, did you ever feel sad when you remember it?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Nov 17
I am so sorry about those loves of yours put in dismay.Maybe they are not yours.Just wait for the right time and the right person for you. Just pray. In my life, too, I have some regrets and that was also because of love. Love truly kills a dream if land in vain.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
9 Nov 17
you're right about that.. and btw I already move on from love. The important thing I have to do is focus on my dreams and like you said,, I'm waiting for the right person (I think let God handle it).
• Canada
8 Nov 17
I think in life, not just humans but also in the wider scope of all life, it is a series of what appear to be set backs. I don't think that means one is a failure, and I certainly don't view you as a failure at all, you just had very difficult circumstances which are difficult for anyone. Sometimes, those set backs are for the best, sometimes what we love is really not worthy of that, and sometimes we learn in process...that is when set backs become steps forward-but even when one approaches closer to what their current goals are, we still must remember this very basic element, to breath. Our breath seems to be where the Spiritual meets us, sustains us, and at some level, restores us. I do understand the feeling of becoming diminished, that life, or ppl in life can take that from us-but what others and circumstances take, can be given again to us in that basic element, the Breath...as if in some way, even in our most broken, God continues to supply this. Of course, I am speaking of more then breath...but when one can not feel, or believe in anything else, there remains this basic element. Continuing to remember you in prayer daily, dear friend.
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@kakah87 (394)
• Semarang, Indonesia
8 Nov 17
Thank you so much for your support, you're my friend. I have to grateful that I have friend like you, and actually I have to learn to be a grateful man...
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