I said I love you even if you are fat!!

No I do not give too much importance to people physique, but losing weight is better to stay healthy.

Love is beyond appearance. But being overweight is not good for the body, the heart, so let her go and reduce her weight.

Wow! You`re a sweet husband but woman needs to make a healthy diet because of health reasons I get sick most of the time if I`m over weight

When there is affection and friendship in the relation, love do not see physical failings. Fat people are jolly people.

Not for me loyalty matters and person whom I can trust nothing else

For me looks wouldn't really matter as long as I love the person so much

Lifestyle changes help you be healthy, but a gym is not necessarily required, unless it makes her feel good. She has to love herself.

She is doing it for her own sake but knows you love her all the same.

I never judge anyone by their natural appearance

That is sweet that you love her the way she is.

A person's appearance shouldn't matter if you really love them but it is healthier to not be too fat. I think too that people often feel better about themselves and have more confidence if they feel they look good - or at least if they don't look too fat.

Being overweight may not be healthy. Of course it depends on how much overweight a person is. Not everyone has to have a stick figure or one of a super model. People should embrace who they are. I had a food belly and sometimes, depending on what I wore, people would ask me if I was pregnant. Some, didn't even ask but just said congratulations! Seriously?

That is good of you to love her the way she is. losing weight is good if it is good for your health.

Bless you for attitude. Yes. People's behaviors and personality is what is worth loving, physique is only a shell. Unfortunately many people feel differently

If you love her, send her to that Gym or yoga whatever. Then she will be with you for more years. You also save yourself a lot of money on hospital bills, you can pay me 10 percent for this free advice.

It would be better for her to go down to a healthy weight.

No. Im a little overweight myself.

Let her go ahead and join the gym - it will make her feel better about herself .

Gym good for health.

The whole "I don't love you anymore" concept is one I never understood ... especially if one person blames it on the other person's weight. I see the societal influence on people when it comes to appearance and weight but when people try to determine or measure "love" based on weight ... well I think those people don't understand love. When people supposedly "love" one another based on appearance that sounds more like "attachment" to me, which is far different than love and based on a relationship influenced by reciprocation of what we can or provide for one another. As soon as those provisions change, so does the level of attachment. Love is, by itself, unconditional. The way we interact together might come with some conditions, but the feeling or emotion of love does not come with conditions. Conditions may be set based on the other's behaviors like addiction or one person not genuinely loving the other person in return. So conditions of separation my be necessary to ensure your own personal well-being. But to say I don't love that person any longer because they have gained weight ... No, I am not buying that one for a second. Love in some senses can be related to a decision we make within ourselves to allow the better part of ourselves to be genuinely shown as an extension towards the people we love. Like you said ... I love people for who they are and not what they look like or what they can provide for me.