I don't want to be rich

@Madshadi (8840)
Brussels, Belgium
March 9, 2018 4:11am CST
Don't get me wrong. I would like to have lots of money. Who wouldn't? But what I mean is that I don't want to have companies and businesses that would keep me occupied 24/7. I like how I can go home after work, watch TV, spend time with my family or sleep whenever I want. Once my body leaves the workplace so does my mind. I don't have to worry about anything that happens there. A rich member who comes to swim here, who owns and manages several businesses, inspired me to write this discussion. He puts his two phones on a towel beside the pool and replies to massages/calls after each lap he swims. Some people seem to be enjoying that lifestyle. Would you?
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
I am in that lifestyle and you are right. However, though I work 7 days a week as a company owner, I don't want to be enslave by my businesses. So I take time to go somewhere on a trip and not answering phone calls during those period. I have people to answer for the problems that are in the company and they only call me when it's something they couldn't handle anymore, but it also means they failed at their job.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
@Madshadi Yeah I always do. Travel to a different country or just go to different islands in the summer season. I always do.
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
Sometimes we need to relax by going to some beautiful places and focus on relaxing that stressing ourselves in business hehe
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
It's good when you can take a break like that. I would also like to be free at least once a week
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Mar 18
Honestly, I don't think I could manage that kind of lifestyle. Some people can, and that's great for them, but I don't honestly think it's for me. I do like being able to have time for myself and time with my family.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
9 Mar 18
@mydanods It would seem so.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
9 Mar 18
We share the same values it seems.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
Me neither. I can’t imagine my life like that
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
9 Mar 18
Who won't like this lifestyle. I will definitely be like the person you mentioned but don't know how to achieve it.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
Achieving something like that is not easy at all
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
We need to insert lots of effort to gain wonderful lifestyle.
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
10 Mar 18
@tech40 yes we have to
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
9 Mar 18
I don't think I'll enjoy that lifestyle. I want to money to take care of myself and my family. That's all. My family comes first in my life.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
9 Mar 18
@Madshadi And lots of things money cannot buy.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
I think even those who invest all their time in making money sooner or later come to realise that there are other important things in life
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@nela13 (58543)
• Portugal
9 Mar 18
That is sweet
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@JESSY3236 (19914)
• United States
9 Mar 18
I don't want to be rich. Sure I need money, but being rich is not really important to me.
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@mydanods (6513)
• Nigeria
9 Mar 18
Me too.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
I am happy with what I have
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Mar 18
I want to be rich without responsibility.
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
It's so hard to think how to become rich without responsibility haha
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
Wouldn't that be just awesome
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
To each his own. Every one has different likes and interests. A passion may be in sports, arts, businesses, office work, etcetera. No one is the same. What is important is the degree of happiness or satisfaction that we derive from our daily existence. Money is not the goal, neither the lifestyle. A fisherman could be so happy when he is out in the sea fishing.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
10 Mar 18
@Madshadi Such as an artist selling his/her painting or sculpture or drawing for a price? Perhaps. After all, we need to eat.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
I think people should find a balance between their passion (whatever it is) and other aspects of life.
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• Calgary, Alberta
9 Mar 18
Heck yes I want to be rich, So I can have a harem of sexy Librarians from all continents.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
Haha that’s some stretch of imagination you have there
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Mar 18
I feel envy for those people who have lots of money that they can do anything they want to, they can buy luxury cars, they can go to beautiful places, they can ride planes whenever they want.
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
10 Mar 18
@Madshadi It's hard to have peace of mind, especially if you're thinking something like security.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Mar 18
For me having that peace of mind at the end of the day is worth all you’ve mentioned.
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@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
9 Mar 18
Money is important, but we only have one life to live and it's better to enjoy some relaxed time. We do not bring money with us when we die.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
Money is supposed to be there to make our lives better and not the other way around
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@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
9 Mar 18
@Madshadi I fully agree with you.
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
9 Mar 18
"Make money when you're young." That's often the advice I'm given. Earn it while you can, and build a business you can enjoy. Then you won't be stressed later as much. I'm still working on the building part. I could say that I've been working on pieces of it since the early 2000s. Once established, I may or may not be rich (I'd need to work super hard to get there), but it would allow me to have peace of mind and a steady income later in life if I just keep it up periodically, and not all at once.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
It’s good how you had it planned. I really hope that works out for you
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Mar 18
@OneOfMany I understand that
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@OneOfMany (12150)
• United States
10 Mar 18
@Madshadi Planned is one thing... I would have loved to have started earlier when I had lots of time... but I didn't want to become dominated with the work load at that time.
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• Northampton, England
9 Mar 18
But if you were super rich you could give loads and loads of money to help people
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Mar 18
That is true.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
9 Mar 18
I just want money to survive ... that's enough for me.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
There are more important things that can’t be bought
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
9 Mar 18
@Madshadi yeah you are right
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@deena123 (26)
• Kathmandu, Nepal
10 Mar 18
Yes, i totally agree with you, money which cannot buy happiness and peace of mind is useless.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Mar 18
And that is priceless
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• Bridgton, Maine
9 Mar 18
Shadi, I'd like to be successful career-wise, but without being a workaholic. Being a workaholic is a problem because you end up missing out on other enjoyable aspects of life. And you may neglect other important aspects of your life.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
Precisely!
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
9 Mar 18
I tend to be of the same opinion.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Mar 18
I’m glad others share my opinion
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@Liberti (264)
• Mead, Washington
9 Mar 18
People who are constantly working "Workaholics" tend to not relax as they should and often their health and families suffer. Working is fine, having good income is as well. But money is not everything. It cannot by youth, or love or happiness, it cannot buy peace of mind or good relationships. That man sounds too busy and too uptight. We should be content in what God gives us and trust he knows best and will always supply what we need when it is needed.
@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
Well said. We should find balance in everything, including work.
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@Shiva49 (26659)
• Singapore
10 Mar 18
I was working in responsible positions in organizations but drew a line. I did not want to be on call after office hours and I knew it restricted my career progression. I wanted a balanced life - work is for a comfortable life and and life is not for work per se. I have no regrets with the path I took and now I am retired I worked for one who was intent on becoming very rich and his life was stressful. Possessions beyond needs are a liability - as simple as that! siva
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
10 Mar 18
You made the right decision. I’m glad you weren’t one of those who learned the importance of balance too late.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
9 Mar 18
If I had a lot of money, I would never spend all of my time worrying about it and striving to make more - I would be sure to have me time to relax and smell the roses. When we die we cannot take our riches with us all will be left behind for someone else to enjoy - and life goes on.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
We only live once
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@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
9 Mar 18
I prefer the lifestlye that you explained here. I like my life and my freetime too much than have a 24/7 job.
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@Madshadi (8840)
• Brussels, Belgium
9 Mar 18
You can’t put price on that
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