Are women complicated? SERIOUSLY GENTLEMEN!!!
By vanny
@vandana7 (100314)
India
March 26, 2018 3:09am CST
Get real...
The only thing we women are guilty of is taking things personally.
You gotta learn the art of talking..
Do not use anything that can refer to us..in your sentence and everything is hunky dory.
Is that so difficult for you gentlemen?
Sigh...when will you all learn how to talk..EVIL GRIN...
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34 responses
@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
26 Mar 18
Guys have to think with emotions involved. Not EXCLUDED! Be sensitive. Is that so hard? Really? 
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.@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
26 Mar 18
@topffer The one example you mention is insecure. I can bet on that. 
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
26 Mar 18
I prefer to be silent on listening anything but at times I lost my patience and get into the bad deal. I must learn how to keep my tongue in better position.
However, I can see the progress in me so I will be d good person for sure in the future. Hoping the best....
However, I can see the progress in me so I will be d good person for sure in the future. Hoping the best....3 people like this
@vandana7 (100314)
• India
26 Mar 18
No...I meant the sentence that men utter... Like..if only we could manage to have this much saving, women would understand that you are not earning enough. That is taking it personally. :)
Silence is not always the best policy. When to be silent and when not is an art I have yet to master.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
26 Mar 18
I have to be honest people have said I can be complex in the past, I don't mind as I would hate to thought of as boring but guys can be emotionally constipated at times .. sorry guys, would hate it if you weren't around but it's true 
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@vandana7 (100314)
• India
26 Mar 18
I don't know if you ever saw "Mind Your Language" series. In that, how everything gets linked to Chairman Mao, like that, we women somehow find a way to link adverse remarks to us. LOL. I may be wrong, but most of the debacles I have seen are like that.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 I don't think I did but I shall look it up. You may be right.
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@vandana7 (100314)
• India
26 Mar 18
@sprite1950 They were hilarious series...
Most funny & enjoyable "British comedy tv serial". Hope you enjoy it and share with others.
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@vandana7 (100314)
• India
10 Aug 21
Fickle mindedness is actually the result of
a. Always agree for starters...then change mind slowly system...so that others do not feel you do not agree with them - philosophy
b. New input..
c. Intelligent deducing based on newly available input
I don't see how it can be bad..
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
Sometimes women tend to say a lot of thinks and mean otherwise. But for most part, men just have to read between the lines. Hahaha
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 because we were wired differently. 
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
27 Mar 18
Who says that women are not complicated?
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
28 Mar 18
@vandana7 A diamond cannot value himself/herself.
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@vandana7 (100314)
• India
10 Aug 21
@dpk262006 I don't mind being complicated if I am a diamond. Kinda...I weigh almost 60 kgs...I must be worth quite a bit.
@jobelbojel (35651)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
You cannot remove the fact, from men, that women are sometimes fickle minded. Not all. I know that my friends here on MyLot aren't complicated.
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@augusta123 (6649)
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26 Mar 18
@vandana7 No either, I think we are always misunderstood rather.don't you think so?
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@vandana7 (100314)
• India
26 Mar 18
@augusta123 I think misunderstanding is because men either have no brains or have not put their brains in gear.
@snowy22315 (180979)
• United States
27 Mar 18
Men just don't get it, and the smart ones know they don't get it lol
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@snowy22315 (180979)
• United States
27 Mar 18
@vandana7 I saw the actor Rob Lowe on Oprah onetime and he said "I'm smart enough to know that when a woman tells me something..I should probably listen." Too few are like that.
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@TerribleMan (579)
• India
10 Aug 21
Human being itself is very complicated, not just women.
I think animals are far less complicated. No wonder so many people want a pet cat or dog. Only because it is way too easy to communicate with them .
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@Tampa_girl7 (50317)
• United States
28 Mar 18
I think that if you asked my husband he'd say that I am pretty easy going.
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
27 Mar 18
Sometimes it actually becomes difficult for men to understand us.
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
27 Mar 18
@vandana7 Ha ha !!!. In some cases I feel yes.
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