Are women complicated? SERIOUSLY GENTLEMEN!!!

@vandana7 (100127)
India
March 26, 2018 3:09am CST
Get real... The only thing we women are guilty of is taking things personally. You gotta learn the art of talking.. Do not use anything that can refer to us..in your sentence and everything is hunky dory. Is that so difficult for you gentlemen? Sigh...when will you all learn how to talk..EVIL GRIN...
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
26 Mar 18
Guys have to think with emotions involved. Not EXCLUDED! Be sensitive. Is that so hard? Really?
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
They've lost that part of their memory.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
26 Mar 18
Girls are too sensitive, we have to count our words, even for a compliment : In "You are pretty today", 'today' can cause an excess of sensitivity.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
26 Mar 18
@topffer The one example you mention is insecure. I can bet on that.
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@mrki444 (15149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
26 Mar 18
It's not only that. Please, choose one option and stick to it. Don't change opinion all time.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
All situations are dynamic. Why of that option might have helped and slow in taking final decision even better gives her a better chance to take a final call.
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@mrki444 (15149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 Yesterday she wanted yellow color on walls, today blue, tomorow will be pink. Why is hard choose color and stick to it? When she changes color of walls she will change everything else to.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
@mrki444 ..Giver her the charge. Hand over the money to her, she will buy the cheapest and save the rest for something else.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
26 Mar 18
I prefer to be silent on listening anything but at times I lost my patience and get into the bad deal. I must learn how to keep my tongue in better position. However, I can see the progress in me so I will be d good person for sure in the future. Hoping the best....
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
No...I meant the sentence that men utter... Like..if only we could manage to have this much saving, women would understand that you are not earning enough. That is taking it personally. :) Silence is not always the best policy. When to be silent and when not is an art I have yet to master.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
26 Mar 18
I have to be honest people have said I can be complex in the past, I don't mind as I would hate to thought of as boring but guys can be emotionally constipated at times .. sorry guys, would hate it if you weren't around but it's true
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
I don't know if you ever saw "Mind Your Language" series. In that, how everything gets linked to Chairman Mao, like that, we women somehow find a way to link adverse remarks to us. LOL. I may be wrong, but most of the debacles I have seen are like that.
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@sprite1950 (30452)
• Corsham, England
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 I don't think I did but I shall look it up. You may be right.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
@sprite1950 They were hilarious series...
Most funny & enjoyable "British comedy tv serial". Hope you enjoy it and share with others.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
26 Mar 18
they say that women are hard to understand because they are fickle minded. maybe , they just have to have a wide understanding....
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
10 Aug 21
Fickle mindedness is actually the result of a. Always agree for starters...then change mind slowly system...so that others do not feel you do not agree with them - philosophy b. New input.. c. Intelligent deducing based on newly available input I don't see how it can be bad..
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
Sometimes women tend to say a lot of thinks and mean otherwise. But for most part, men just have to read between the lines. Hahaha
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
I wonder why there is this communication gap.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
@JolietJake sadly, women are not equipped to say what they really mean.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 because we were wired differently.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
27 Mar 18
Who says that women are not complicated?
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
28 Mar 18
@vandana7 A diamond cannot value himself/herself.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
10 Aug 21
@dpk262006 I don't mind being complicated if I am a diamond. Kinda...I weigh almost 60 kgs...I must be worth quite a bit.
@vandana7 (100127)
• India
27 Mar 18
I say so Deepu. I am not.
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@jobelbojel (35356)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
You cannot remove the fact, from men, that women are sometimes fickle minded. Not all. I know that my friends here on MyLot aren't complicated.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
30 Mar 18
We are not! We try to reason, and at times reasoning can lead the other way. We are honest instead of being bull headed about things...so we accept our previous decision to be wrong. Evil Grin.
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@jobelbojel (35356)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
@vandana7 at least I said not all.
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@LadyDuck (470799)
• Switzerland
26 Mar 18
I am not at all complicated. When men talk to me gently and I do not get offended, I have no problems, but if they are rude, well... I can show that I am not so sweet after all.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
Me too. I am also inclined to be in the same mold.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
@LadyDuck My idol. :) If you have followed that rule and it worked for you...that is how I am going to be and succeed. :)
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@LadyDuck (470799)
• Switzerland
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 Those who are rude, do not deserve to be treated differently.
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@just4him (317004)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Mar 18
This reminds me of the movie - My Fair Lady when Professor Higgins asked - Why can't a woman be more like a man? They don't understand women, because they don't want to. It's as simple as that.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
10 Aug 21
I agree. Men don't want to. They will suffer with inferiority complex if they understand us. We are, after all, superior human beings.
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@just4him (317004)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Aug 21
@vandana7 I agree.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 vanny, what is this all about?
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
It is about teasing men who say women are too complicated. LOL. Are we?
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
@Hannihar Sigh...who asked you to be honest..? LOL. We were having fun with guys here...lol Kind of gender war..lol
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 vanny, we can be complicated.
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@Kandae11 (54981)
26 Mar 18
Men love to whine about how difficult it us to understand women - as if we are from an alien planet. No - we are not that complicated - I know I am not.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
I agree. Isn't it their way of saying they are not smart enough for us?
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
11 Aug 21
@Kandae11 Evil Grin.
@Kandae11 (54981)
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 You got that right.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
26 Mar 18
What women says is different and understanding what they mean, it is too difficult!..
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
It could be low comprehension score of men.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
@mohit459 Then if we can create a "chakravyuha" (puzzle) and you have problem...it means not enough perhaps? Evil Grin.
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 mine is quite high!..
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@augusta123 (6649)
26 Mar 18
No we are not
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
Sigh...do you think I should change it to say most of the women?
26 Mar 18
@vandana7 No either, I think we are always misunderstood rather.don't you think so?
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
@augusta123 I think misunderstanding is because men either have no brains or have not put their brains in gear.
@snowy22315 (179743)
• United States
27 Mar 18
Men just don't get it, and the smart ones know they don't get it lol
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@snowy22315 (179743)
• United States
27 Mar 18
@vandana7 I saw the actor Rob Lowe on Oprah onetime and he said "I'm smart enough to know that when a woman tells me something..I should probably listen." Too few are like that.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
27 Mar 18
And only the smartest of men are smart enough to admit that women are smarter.
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• India
10 Aug 21
Human being itself is very complicated, not just women. I think animals are far less complicated. No wonder so many people want a pet cat or dog. Only because it is way too easy to communicate with them .
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
10 Aug 21
There is limited conversation with pets. You cannot tell the pet .. I won the lottery. The pet is gonna think ...big deal ...you silly human.
@Tampa_girl7 (50087)
• United States
28 Mar 18
I think that if you asked my husband he'd say that I am pretty easy going.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
10 Aug 21
That is in front of you. I want to know what he says when you and your friends and family are not around.
@mom210 (9117)
• United States
29 Mar 18
Just feed, me, love me and be loyal, it is that simple.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
10 Aug 21
I will skip feed, love me, listen to me, solve my problems...I don't mind if you go elsewhere, as long as you return to me.
@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
26 Mar 18
Hahaha. They used the word women to refer to one woman. Maybe it’s just Language
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
26 Mar 18
May be..its just the language. :)
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@aureliah (24316)
• Kenya
27 Mar 18
@vandana7 hope so
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• New Delhi, India
27 Mar 18
Sometimes it actually becomes difficult for men to understand us.
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@vandana7 (100127)
• India
27 Mar 18
You think they are brain impaired sometimes?
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• New Delhi, India
27 Mar 18
@vandana7 Ha ha !!!. In some cases I feel yes.
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