I Am A Handsome Man Magnet
@BelleStarr (61102)
United States
March 30, 2018 1:03pm CST
At least on Facebook, I am very popular with muscular hunks. Hardly a day goes by without some extremely handsome man, many of them seem to be either military or ex-military, asking to be my friend. They have no other information and they are obviously hot dating material.
I wonder how soon they would start telling me they need my bank information or they want to meet? Does anyone think Al would object? lol I am just joking, not about getting the friends requests but about accepting them. Seriously, so they think I'm an idiot?
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@Tampa_girl7 (50202)
• United States
31 Mar 18
Unfortunately some don't have the sense that God gave them and engage with these predators.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
I know, I guess a lonely woman might fall prey but seriously, you have to be pretty naive.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
30 Mar 18
I get those friend requests also. I always ignore them. And you are right, they are always from so called "military" men.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
Amazing that there are so many good looking unmarried men of a certain age in the military lol
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
@Starmaiden lol Ah yes, Winnipeg is just packed with good-looking, middle-aged American military men!! I guess the real people don't get out of their bunker often enough to know geography or the fact that Canada is not a state. lol
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
31 Mar 18
@BelleStarr Too bad I'm not into military men...especially those in "US" military who supposedly are from Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada...or so they say. :-P
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
2 Apr 18
How lucky for you but just admire them and that´s it.
That is what I do.
I just ignore them but not their good looks.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
4 Apr 18
@BelleStarr
That is just the way I think too.
I never accept an invitation like that ever either.
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
3 Apr 18
lol I agree, look and enjoy but don't accept their invitation. lol
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
lol I have my settings pretty secure too but I guess asking to be friends is an exception. I wonder who he really is? You are always surrounded by your own hunky men so maybe you look out of reach!! Happy Passover!!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
30 Mar 18
Happens a lot to me too. I never accept friend request from people I do not know.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
I do but they have to have a lot of friends in common with me, I am part of a large group of writers and some I don't really know well but as long as they are friends of lots of my friends I let them in and I can always unfriend them if it is required.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
31 Mar 18
@BelleStarr that is true. I will usually accept if we have mutual friends.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
It seems they have an endless supply of these pictures lol I just got 2 yesterday both quite attractive lol
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@YrNemo (20255)
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1 Apr 18
@BelleStarr That was how some lonely women got scammed. They thought they were lucky finally (re: in love and in finding a good looking man). 
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@snowy22315 (180424)
• United States
31 Mar 18
OMG...try playing words with friends. They pop up every day..with an obviously copied and pasted picture..and want to "chat" with you. Anyone who wants to chat anytime in the early stages of the game I delete. I wonder how many poor souls fall for these things? Some Americans spend ungodly amounts of money on these scams..and I kind of feel like if they are that stupid..maybe they deserve to lose it..but I guess hope springs eternal.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
I know what you mean, I avoid all these games since I don't need to make online friends in that way lol I can make wonderful friends on here, maybe we should invite all those lonely women to come here to MyLot.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
30 Mar 18
Yes, I get some too, from beautiful women but they have not much of a profile and so I avoid those as when you befriend them they may sent some pictures that I don't want to look at.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
31 Mar 18
@BelleStarr I work hard to earn $5 and there is no way they are going to gt it.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
That is probably the least offensive thing that could happen, it is a scam so they want to steal money for sure.. It is wise to avoid them.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
lol Usually they have very little information just some handsome pictures. I almost want to set up a fake account so I can accept them all!! lol
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Mar 18
@BelleStarr Now that would be interesting.
Now that would be interesting.1 person likes this
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
2 Apr 18
He just wants to be my Friend lol I do enjoy looking at them though lol
I do enjoy looking at them though lol
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
31 Mar 18
i had that experience too. an engineer from Cyprus befriended me and wanted me to be the mother of his daughter.
ahahaha! so i rode with his antics, until he wanted me to send him money. now, that man is another entity in my life.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
lol Ah yes the old send me money scam, that isn't going to happen, we are much to smart for that!!
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
I bet all of them are not but I am not on the market for a hunk, my husband is hunky enough for me lol
@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
30 Mar 18
I am not sure that the photos are really theirs.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
lol I am quite sure that it is not them!! lol
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
So true but at least I get a regular dose of handsome men in my Facebook friends request lol
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
It really is but they are all so handsome and I guess if I was lonely enough I might at least look at them without laughing.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
@LadyDuck I'm quite sure you are correct.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
31 Mar 18
@BelleStarr Most of the times the photos are "fake", in the sense that they place photos of handsome men, but when the women decide to meet them they get a bad surprise.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
Do you have a Facebook account? If not you are smarter than those of us who do
@Marilynda1225 (82704)
• United States
30 Mar 18
I've gotten a few of those too! Funny how they think we'd fall for a man in uniform
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
lol Yah really, though they are always pretty darn fine to look at lol
@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
31 Mar 18
That is the best thing to do but it is pretty funny don't you think?
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Mar 18
That's really annoying , those men don't know how to respect
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
30 Mar 18
I am sure it is not even a picture of the real man lol
