If you disappear

@GardenGerty (161319)
United States
April 8, 2018 8:55pm CST
Is there some way people can look for you, if you disappear? I have some contact information of a friend or two, from when the site was sold and many left. Some of you have some of my info. I mostly just lurk on Facebook, so you would hardly see me. I believe I am going to send more precise information to a couple of friends. @Hatley and I exchanged info about a year ago. I have e mails for several of you. Lately we have worried about a number of people. It is good to stay in touch.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
9 Apr 18
You could contact my sister here on mylot.
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@BarBaraPrz (47892)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Apr 18
But who is your sister?
@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
9 Apr 18
@BarBaraPrz Platespinner is my sister.
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@GardenGerty (161319)
• United States
10 Apr 18
@Morleyhunt and of course your brother, as well. I would have to think on that as he is kind of scarce.
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@spiderdust (14760)
• San Jose, California
9 Apr 18
I am on Facebook, and @thislittlepennyearns has my mailing address... both @thehousewife and @sprite1950 also know how to reach me offsite. I don't mind sharing my email address, although I'm not very good about keeping my email inbox clear.
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@GardenGerty (161319)
• United States
10 Apr 18
I bet if you disappeared they would be checking.
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@spiderdust (14760)
• San Jose, California
10 Apr 18
@GardenGerty I know @thislittlepennyearns was concerned and looking for me when I disappeared from the site for about a month, but this was before she had my contact info.
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• United States
9 Apr 18
I am pretty private! I do have 2 members on IG.
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@vandana7 (100740)
• India
9 Apr 18
But would you notice long absence?
@vandana7 (100740)
• India
9 Apr 18
@infatuatedbby You'd better not..lol
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• United States
9 Apr 18
@vandana7 If I disappear I'll write a post. :) But I don't have any plans to disappear.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
11 Apr 18
I am on Facebook and connected to several members here including Hatley.
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@GardenGerty (161319)
• United States
12 Apr 18
I have e mails for several here. I also have a hard time turning loose of the e mails of the ones who have passed away.
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@LadyDuck (472322)
• Switzerland
9 Apr 18
I have asked my husband to post on my FB page and I have wrote a post for this site he should post, in the case I would "disappear". I think he would be too devastated to remember to post.
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@andriaperry (117346)
• Anniston, Alabama
9 Apr 18
I am at facebook too, and a few more. Some have my email too.
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• United States
10 Apr 18
people seem to find me no matter what i do..must be that wonderful attitude of mine they can't stay away from (sarcasm)
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@GardenGerty (161319)
• United States
11 Apr 18
Oh, I bet.
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@vandana7 (100740)
• India
9 Apr 18
One reason I come here, check on few friends that I can.
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@allknowing (138588)
• India
9 Apr 18
I think getting connected on twitter, linked in or FB would be a good idea.
• Midland, Michigan
9 Apr 18
Staying in touch is definitely a good idea since we tend to worry about our friends when we/they aren't hear much. I've pulled away somewhat these past few months for several reasons. I'm trying to get more organized in my house and with our paperwork, but I will say that often I spend too much time watching old shows I'd not seen in years on Netflix now that that's an option. We hadn't had a TV to watch in several years. I'm almost caught up on Grey's Anatomy, I began watching Criminal Minds with my daughter last fall and watched all those episodes and also happened upon Continuum from some years ago that I didn't know existed. I don't plan on watching any more at present. I may end up here more or not, but I don't plan on staying away for long spurts any longer. I'm hoping to be here weekly and maybe more eventually. I have a facebook account, but am rarely there. I do play facebook games and if a notification comes in from there when I'm online or on my phone I might check it out. I'll look at my profile here and see if I can add any info for the future if I'm ever lost for longer.
@sallypup (61975)
• Centralia, Washington
9 Apr 18
I'm a blabbermouth. If anybody wants me, there are several online places to find me. My writing site, Creative Fancy, for one.
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@just4him (317879)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Apr 18
Yes, it is good to stay in touch. I'm friends with a few people here on FB, so should I disappear, someone will know what happened.
@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
9 Apr 18
There are I think 3 people, who have my email. About 10 who have my address, or least did for Christmas cards. 3 that have my phone number. And about 7 who have me on social media. Plus 2 of them have my mom on facebook!
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@Kandae11 (55268)
9 Apr 18
A few members here have my email address - and my sister is here anyway.
@BarBaraPrz (47892)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
9 Apr 18
Who is your sister?
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@Kandae11 (55268)
9 Apr 18
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@Juliaacv (51758)
• Canada
9 Apr 18
I have a few member's personal emails, and they have mine. I don't do the FB thing, so there would be no use looking for me there, besides I would imagine that you need both a first as well as a last name to look someone up on that site.
@cintol (11261)
• United States
9 Apr 18
I have never thought about it before, I have given my email to a few on here but not many. I have a fb acct so that would be pretty easy to find but I have it secured, even though people can still leave messages for me to see.
@JudyEv (342945)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Apr 18
It is worrying when people seem to suddenly disappear. Some turn up eventually but others just seem to vanish into thin air.
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
9 Apr 18
i also make my presence on Facebook and messenger not in green light. i prefer to be incognito
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
9 Apr 18
@GardenGerty Heather, I believe it is good to let people you want to keep in touch contact information on how to reach them if they disappear or have to go away from here awhile.
@nela13 (58745)
• Portugal
9 Apr 18
I think no one has my email or facebook here but i don't know if i am known enough to be noticed if i am not here for long periods.