Music confession: I once liked Madonna and now despise the singer

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With shame and embarrassment, I admit that once upon a time I liked Madonna a lot to the point of having a poster of her. I know, I know. How on earth could someone so immersed in 80s alternative/new wave get into Madonna? Her early hits (“Holiday,” “Borderline,” “Lucky Star”) from her debut album had a synthpop vibe and fun infectious quality. I actually found her attractive in her crazy fashion (or lack of) style. Her movie debut was a very small part in the obscure “Visionquest” which I saw at the theater. “Like a Virgin” album? Yup, bought it and liked the title song and “Material Girl.” I rushed to see “Desperately Seeking Susan” containing her best performance. That movie has my favorite Madonna song “Into the Groove.” The spell was snapped for several reasons. First, Madonna was way overexposed and her videos shown ad nauseum. Her personality was increasingly revealed as disagreeable and she married the despicable Sean Penn. Her next album “True Blue” had her morph from pop princess to “serious artist” with the Godawful “Papa, Don’t Preach.” The primary reason why I grew to despise Madonna was witnessing her abominable behavior in person. This happened back in the 80s when Madonna was on the cusp of superstardom but not quite there. I read that a PSA TV ad for the environment was going to be filmed at a park not far from where I lived. The public was invited because a crowd was needed for filming. Celebrities including Madonna were expected to participate so it was opportunity to see the Material Girl in the flesh. You have to understand this was the era before the internet, Facebook, camera phones, selfies and today’s celebrity hysteria. That meant Ally Sheedy then at her “Breakfast Club” peak of fame could stand in this crowd and all was calm with no one hassling her. Same thing with the other celebrities. Here comes a limousine parting the crowd like the Red Sea. The door opens and Madonna’s head pops out for about two seconds. She obviously did not like what she saw and withdrew. The woman just sat in the limo with the AC running on during a warm day. Eventually the door opened and Madonna stuck her head out again. A little girl darted up to the door and Madonna yelled “Get away” and slammed the door in the kid’s face. The result was the little girl running in tears to her mother. Madonna finally emerged with a security escort to do her thing. I have never forgotten that scene. Whenever I see Madonna, I remember that little girl and how Madonna was nasty to her. It is one thing to shoo away an annoying adult but to express an uncalled for mean tone to a small child? Since then I learned of similar incidents and her overall disdain and contempt for her fans. Well I have nothing but contempt and disdain for Madonna in return. Too bad her adoring fans do not see the real person. I condemn the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame for inducting an empty artistic zero like her while shunning so many far more deserving. Do you have a singer you once liked to your embarrassment?