I said no ...

wow you cut him off just like that? Friends for fifteen years.

I would call him if I were you. I know it would be tough marrying someone you felt was family but what do you want from a relationship? If you want emotional fireworks, thrills down your spine when you think of him, longing for him when he's away and passion that burns so hot as to nearly engulf you, you can have that. In fact, anyone can but not for long. That is chemistry and it rarely lasts past a year or so then you're left with whatever you felt for them before you became passionate. All too often, that is very little because people think that passion is love. It's not. It's insanity disguised as love. If you want enduring friendship, reliability, loyalty, and all the other things that go with a good relationship, perhaps you are not seeing the what's right in front of you. I'm not advising you to commit yourself to this man, just to examine your own expectations and see if he is offering something you want but you reject because it is missing the torture of temporary physical obsession. After all, you did say he is the most wonderful guy in the world!

oh call. if he cared or still cares that much, you may still find you can't live without each other. just call and ask him how he is

It is funny that you girls rejected nice guys then when they are taken or when you are lonely, you don't have anyone to be with, you will start to wonder where are all the good guys,

If he has feelings for you and you don't have feelings for him you can remain friends, however, he may not want that if he has feelings for you... And he clearly wants to be more than friends if he proposed to you. But were you in a relationship? Or were you just friends? If you were merely friends it is odd that he proposed...

Aw.... I feel sorry for friend but I admire him for his determination and guts. I wish the best for him He must have loved you for a long time that he took all his guts to propose to you. But of course it would be unfair for him if you said yes to him and you are just forcing yourself to him. In time, he will understand.

Its hard to say really but if you feel like that why not get back to being just his friend again and that is if you can and see how you feel from there? It seems like he has a great feeling for you but did not know how to say it outright and there are men like that.

Call him, dear. Or you will lose the wonderful guy in the world.

well, he is your friend and i believe friendship is what you only want from him.

Wow. I understand saying no if you weren’t interested but to totally cut him off was cruel. I wouldn’t call him, though, unless you planned a full apology for being heartless and wanted to try to resume your friendship. Otherwise, don’t bother.

You have been friends for more than 15 years - and because he proposed ,you told him never to speak to you again? Even though you told him no - surely you could still be friends?

Just stay away..you are already away from him..you didn't speak with him for few years after proposal.when you don't have any feelings it's not right to talk with him again only for a sake of dream.if you go back he might again feel that you have love feeling towards him..just keep the friendship memories and move on.

Forget about the shock,just humble yourself before him so he can let you know his intentions for you. With these,you can make your decision.

if you cant stop thinking about him then u know you have feelings for him. dnt let pride stand in the way of what could have been your happiness.

Follow your heart. You can call him, for friendship's sake. But then, it's all up to you. Whatever sets your worry and anxious free, do it..

I think you should call him.The guy is genuine,obviously he knew by telling you how he felt, he will risk loosing great friendship of 15 years but he did it anyway.Marrying your best friend is not a bad idea either..Lol..

Yes.I also want to say no...