What is your biggest mistake.
@amadeo (111938)
United States
May 10, 2018 10:31am CST
We all make mistakes and they can be painful to discuss.
I was trying to think and now I got it.
The biggest mistake for me getting married.
wish that I came out of the closet first.That is my biggest mistake
Maybe this will help some.
Like to help others avoid mistake that I made.
We all make mistakes, and although they can be painful to discuss,. So, swallow your pride and help others avoid making the mistakes that you did.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
10 May 18
Mine is also getting married. I don't want to regret it because it gave me my two wonderful children but I do wish that I hadn't gotten married. I could have still had my children but not stayed in it as long as I did. Walking down the aisle of the church on my wedding day I knew I was making a mistake but I still went through with it.
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@Juliaacv (51488)
• Canada
10 May 18
@Happy2BeMe I have a very good friend who married the wrong guy, and now, in her mid 50's she's never been happier because she's with the right guy. And she told me that they were both previously married, and hurt, and divorced, and the timing had to be there for them to find each other. That could be the same with you.
And she always told me that she got the very best part of her ex-husband, and that was her 3 daughters.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
10 May 18
@Juliaacv That is how I feel. It was all meant to be at the time. Now I am happier then I have ever been. It was a rough road for both of us but we found each other when the time was right. I am happy for your friend. It is a wonderful feeling when you are so unhappy for so long and then you find the one who you are meant to be with and everything is so different.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 May 18
@Happy2BeMe yes.But you have two great kids there.Glad that your feeling much happier.
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@Juliaacv (51488)
• Canada
10 May 18
I've made lots of mistakes, but one that I regret the most......that's a difficult one to answer.
I guess it would have to have been a smoker for 25 years.
I hate to admit that I used to smoke, I know that I've hurt my lungs over the course of that time.
And I cannot undo that.
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@andriaperry (117157)
• Anniston, Alabama
10 May 18
I smoked 27 years before I quit. Yes I started when I was just 13!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
10 May 18
I understand, Alfredo. For me, it is trusting the wrong people. I should have heeded to the advice of my friends.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 May 18
@migen1037 yes.But this is very typical of this.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
11 May 18
One day when I went to work, I left my mobile phone at home. Then when I got off work, I left my key in the office. When I got to the door, I found there was no mobile phone and no key. I can't go home. I waited until my husband came back from work.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
11 May 18
@amadeo I went downstairs to find a neighbor and called my husband on his cell phone.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 May 18
@caopaopao that is awful feeling there.How long did you have to wait for hubby
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
11 May 18
Probably my biggest mistake was being a stay at home mom, I was a much happier mom once I started working. I need to get the feeling of fulfillment that I get from a job well done. Housework is never done lol
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 May 18
@BelleStarr very true there.House work is never done.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
11 May 18
Let me count the ways... But we had to do what we did in order to be where we are today.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 May 18
@JamesHxstatic that is for sure there.Good way of thinking.
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@andriaperry (117157)
• Anniston, Alabama
10 May 18
My biggest mistake was not going to Law school and settling for a life as "a wife."
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 May 18
@andriaperry I see.You did not go at all.How do you feel settling for a life as "wife"?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
10 May 18
@arthurchappell hello there.Nice to hear from you.
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@just4him (317277)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
11 May 18
I was thinking the same thing, as I divorced him after many years, but then, I no longer see it as a mistake, not when I see the children that came from my marriage. They are the best part. No, I would have to say my biggest mistake was not believing in myself enough to push forward a lot sooner with my dreams, and listening to other people tell me I was a failure.
@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
11 May 18
Well of not taking care of my health.(in some cases)
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 May 18
@Swayasiddha how is your health now.Very glad to meet you
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
11 May 18
My biggest mistake was , not finished my course and chose to work as office secretary..
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 May 18
@Jessabuma is it too late now.Can you still do this.
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
11 May 18
My biggest mistake was trusting a close friend of mine and sharing my business plan.She pretended to be seriously involved and interested in being my partner but then cheated on me and stole my idea to start it all by herself
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
11 May 18
@arunima25 oh that is very sad.How did this all end up?very nice to meet you
@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
12 May 18
@amadeo we do meet in common get together and we just try to act as normal as we can. But the trust and friendship is no more. We try to overlook each other.
