Have you been betrayed by a trusted friend?

@SirPeters , and only makes them unhappy in their lives! Thanks!

@AKRao24 yeah, they always have guilty conscience when the truth is finally out

@starmaiden This is serious, would you love to share?

@SirPeters My mother had an issue with me from the beginning I think. She blamed me for having epilepsy because I walked out in front of a car when I was three yrs old and was hit. She was driving. When I told her about my stepfather sexually abusing me, she turned on me and not him. I was twelve yrs old. She "bought" my daughter's love and would talk about me to her behind my back. I remember one day when my daughter was 7 or 8 yrs old, she came home from spending a weekend with my mother and out of the blue she said; "Guess what nanny said?" I said; "What did nanny say?" She said; "Nanny said that you will never be a grandmother to my kids like she is to me." That floored me! My MOTHER said that to my DAUGHTER about ME. I was a single mother and when my daughter was 16 I was going through a rough spell and her and I were separated. No matter how hard I tried to keep it together, forces beyond my control were at play and nothing was going my way. My mother convinced my daughter that I had abandoned her. She also convinced my siblings and as many other people that she could that I was a deadbeat mom and abandoned my daughter. She was there for my daughter 100% but she was not there for me. Ever. My mother is gone now. She passed 4 years ago. I am trying to reestablish trust between myself, my siblings and my daughter. Trying to undo the mess my mother created for me.

@Starmaiden Very pathetic indeed. You were just a kid when the accident happened and it wasn't your fault. I think something is wrong somewhere that is yet to be understood. May your mum soul rest in peace. Now that you are trying to reunite with your family, I pray you get the wisdom, knowledge and understanding to go about it. Please be patient as you work towards the unity of your family. May there be love and unity in your home and may you all live together happily ever after. Thank for sharing.

@SirPeters Absolutely as I gone through it. Now I over come those hurts.

@Sreekala that's great

@Sreekala Sorry about that , betrayal hurts slot especially from a trusted friend.

@SirPeters no

@Swayamsiddha OK, good to know

@swayamsiddha good to know hope it didn't hurt that much?

@SirPeters I won't say that it is easy, but we have to study how to put ourself together again and again.

@anikoonline yeah, it requires much determination to let go

@anikoonline That is a sign of maturity. Being able to handle the situation and put yourself together.

@kareemadivina yes, it is difficult to maintain a lovely relationship with a friend whom you feel has betrayed you

@amadeo That shows you have forgotten and forgiven the offender. It is very kind of you.

@swayamsiddha Back in college I had a friend who was jealous of my academic success. She went to tell other friends that I was involved in exams malpractice hence am having good grades. I was really hurt because I studied hard to get my grades. He Marred my image .

@SirPeters that's right...

@Jessa Bumagat I agree with it, that it shouldn't happen because it is not a nice experience.

@cheche28 Would you mind sharing? someone might learn from it.

You are right. Not everyone is worthy to know you personal stuff. Some are wolves in sheep clothing

@SirPeters yes, they are.